You need to let go of unimportant things. YES, you should want a guy in your age range, YES you should want a guy who loves plus-sized women and more importantly you, but WHO CARES about music tastes?? I don't think I've ever dated someone with the same tastes in music as I have. I've dated girls into punk rock, goth/industrial, deathmetal, 80's/new wave... and I'm into reggae! It was fun being introduced to new musical styles and going to new environments. I think you should leave the musical tastes part alone and just be more open minded.