Y'know, it's quite odd that there are so many people out there who are either BBWs looking for fun romance or a relationship, or guys who adore BBWs looking for the same, yet people are still lonely.
I, myself am a lonely guy with so much love and affection to give to a curvaceous woman - just to snuggle up to somebody on the sofa and cuddle them, planting tender kisses and being in each other's arms are simple but wonderful pleasures that I love to give.
It would be nice if there was somebody out there who also appreciates such simple pleasures...
When you have something to give... well you just have to get out there and show others, people crave that and as long you are honestly offering it you will find someone worthwile (<--- I'm gonna call that UK spelling... you Brits cover my a$$ :).
As to blues... play it like you live it, that's therapy.
We are around... but many times we have been rejected so many times that we blend into the background... become 'invisible' in a way. But look closely... if you find us, we are worth your effort of searching.