Let's say you've chatted via internet and telephone with this guy/girl for several months. You really like them, but all you have ever been is friends. How do you tell that person you're interested in a more involved relationship? Should you wait and let nature takes it course and keep your silence? Or should you just tell them your feelings? What do you say?

I personally believe in honesty and being upfront with someone. If you speak up and tell him you want to take it to the next step and he doesn't, then you have saved yourself a lot of time investing yourself in something that wasn't going to happen the way you wanted it to. I don't know if that made sense.... it did in my head... LOL... I say tell them. But that's just me.

I have no idea, but if you find the answer please share it with us.

I've wrecked my chances by being too hasty before and decided to play things cool in future and not make any moves whatsoever but I have a gut feeling this isn't the way to do things either...