I'm new, need a friend to talk to, share stuff with. I'm recently widowed with a 2 year old son. I'm just lonely. I have a lot of friends at home mind you, but sometimes I find easier to talk to someone new. Wierd huh?

Grown up excursions what's that?

I am so glad I found this site you all are so nice. Ever want to talk just let me know. I am a good lisenter.

looking for new friends, aslo looking for love, but looks like thats not easy to find anywhere ...

I only WISH I could go! Too many issues here to keep me from going, financial, childcare etc. But Oh!, it would be thilling to attend. hehehe, I get very few "grown-up" excursions.

Hey girlie, I'm great.

Spending most of my time being THRILLED about this Vegas trip! Will you come along?

I love the Vegas and hanging out with a bunch of BBW/BHM/FA/FFA would be awesome!

Let me know........

Hey Southern,
I'm doin alright. How about you?

I'm with Freckles on the photo thing. I like to see who I'm talking to!

Plus, if we didn't have pics up, people wouldn't be able to see how cute we are!

How are you girlie!?

Hey Dave,
What do you want to talk about? How about posting a photo so we can all see who we are talking to? I do'nt know about the other ladies, but I personally like to put a face with the profile.

It's such a blessing for me to find this site. Y'all made my b-day special. Just to see how many people care and understand is a great feeling. I hope that I can be of help to someone out there who needs to talk and listen.
Thanks again for everything, I hope that y'all have a great day!

You have come to a nice place.. i am sure this will hel you a bit..

I totally understand what you are talking about. Your friend, while well intentioned I'm sure, really has no clue how hard it is to get over the death of a spouse. It is QUITE different than a break up or divorce. It took me over a year to stop thinking of him constantly all day, every day. Especially when you have a little face ( or two!) to look into that reminds you so much of him. Just give yourself time to grieve. Dont rush into anything, that would be my advice. Beleive me, I KNOW how lonely it is. I don't think starting a romantic relationship is the best idea yet, but thats just MY opinion. However, It definately doesn't hurt to have lots of friends. I would be thrilled if you would consider me one.

Thanks for the support. I really appreciate it. My b-day's coming up this weekend (2-6) and it will my first without Randy. I've been dreading it. It's been 10 months since he passed but I miss him the most now. A close friend of mine told me last weekend that I need to find someone new. She said it's time to stop mourning and find a new love. It's not as easy as she thinks. I don't want a replacement. Nobody will ever be able to replace Randy but I'm willing to start new. I just don't know how to go about it. Does anyone understand what I'm talking about?

I know exactly where you are coming from. I lost my husband six years ago. My daughter was two and my son 4 years old at the time. I know its scary and overwhelming, and It IS easier to talk to strangers. Soooo, if you every want to talk, I'm listening.

Hi, no not weird, very normal. I am also widowed, 6 years now. I know the need to talk to someone that didn't know you before. Any time you want to talk, email me.
Smiles,
Tea

I'm so sorry for your loss. If you're looking for friends, this is a good place to find them. If you ever want to chat, just let me know!