anything that the two of us decide to do its not just my first date its the mans as well

Anywhere where we can go to talk, and get to know each other and a bite to eat. Someplace quiet and relaxing and maybe we can go people watch.

Having a 4 - 5 course meal at a nice restaurant ( using a coupon for b.o.g.o.) and every course that comes involves a different level of communication for us to discuss and discover more and more about each other. The first course will be drinks only (like water, soft drinks, or coffee). Then if all goes well with our conversation (after about a half hour) we then move on and choose an appetizer to share and then go to conversation level #2 (for about an hour). Then if all goes well with our connection we actually then both order an entree of our individual choice. Then we keep talking and asking lots of questions (for another 1-2 hours as we try to eat with our mouths talking galore to each other). And if all goes good we earn ourselves a desert to either share or to each get our very own deserts and talk about meeting for a second date due to a successful first date. Then we depart with smiles on our faces and possibly exchanged phone numbers.

My ideal first date is something really low-key and not fancy or mega-expensive. I don't have expensive tastes. Dinner and a movie seems nice but doesn't leave a lot of room for talking, and mostly I want to be able to get to know you! But anything public such as just chilling at a park or going to the movies or going to an arcade is nice. My super favorite idea of a date is to lounge around and hang out playing games together or something, but that is less public and less first-date-friendly, ha.