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nodramaaroundme
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Posted on Sat, Feb 27, 2010 23:32

First to my friends on this site...sorry I thought I wasn't busy and then BANG...no time for blogging. *sigh* I've been overweight most of my adult life but yet I'm attracted to skinny to medium built guys that are 6 ft or taller. Is this realistic? I have dated overweight goes too so it's not like I have excluded them. Really I just would like a man that can treat me the way I deserve and will allow me to treat him just as good. But as I said, I'm "attracted" to skinny to medium built tall guys. I'm on the fence about muscular guys...lol they are yummy to look at but I just haven't had good experiences with them. Please forgive any typos it's 2:30 in the morning....lol It's been awhile but wasn't there a spell check feature or is that just for paying memembers now 8^)


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Posted on Mon, Mar 08, 2010 13:24

Honey, when you meet the right guy, it wont matter if he is muscular, skinny or fat. Real attraction lies in your mind, body AND soul. You will know when you meet him, and hopefully he is perfect and just what you are looking for!


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Posted on Thu, Mar 04, 2010 10:43

I don't see how personal preferences can be wrong, not like we can really help what we find attractive. But does anyone else find they are somewhat stricter about those preferences on sites like this? If I get chatting to someone in real life, at work, in a pub or whatever, it is the interaction (or lack of it!) between us that will be my judgement rather than height, build etc etc. (Although to be honest the absolute extreme ends of shortness, skinniness or obesity might still put me off!) Maybe I'm just fickle, lol :)


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Posted on Wed, Mar 03, 2010 10:50

Right now I am more interested in your experiences with those muscular men lol and what exactly didn't work out....has my imagination working overtime... LOL, now I can only speak from my personal experiences but the muscular guys I've met and known are a bit insecure. I'm a strong will and direct person and it just seem like they were not my equal. I would think they would be just as strong if not more, but they just looked that way on the outside. It's like chocolate candies in a box...looks good until you bite into it.


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Posted on Tue, Mar 02, 2010 16:39

Nothing wrong with this we all, we have our personal tastes and find different things attractive. I personally prefer average weight in men but have been with both slim and bigger builds, it really depended on them as a person. I don't get upset if a man is not attracted to me as I understand that I just am not his type. Though thankfully there are enough out there find me just right. :)


Life is only as wonderful as you think it is.

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Posted on Mon, Mar 01, 2010 06:16

Everyone has a preference in regard to attraction and that is neither right or wrong. I know that many of my male friends often ask why I "chubby chase"? First off I hate that term!!! Second I tell them I prefer a harley (a bbw) over a 10-speed bike (skinny woman) any day of the week. More to hold and snuggle is awesome. With that said, no matter who you are...personality and compatibility coupled with communication and affection is what makes or breaks who is attractive in my eyes. However, I do have set preferences like proportionality as I like a busty woman, and a shorter woman under 5'4"...but not written in stone.  :)



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Posted on Sun, Feb 28, 2010 22:53

Nodrama Is it not wrong to like what you do . Girl If you like it a certial size or flavor reveil in it life too short to worry a bout it . however dont let it(size or flavor) be you sole factor in finding a partner. Doing so you might be by passing a better qualfied guy more attentive to you needs . Ps Great to see your back and still whitty as ever.


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Posted on Sun, Feb 28, 2010 20:49

I don't think it's unrealistic at all. Each of us have certain things that attract us to someone more than others, and opposites often attract when it comes to physical attributes. It's true of personalities, too, but that gets to be a bit hard to navigate; I'm not sure that works out in the end very often. I don't see anything wrong with going for what you want. After all, if the alternative is to try and force yourself to feel breathless for someone who just doesn't do it for you, how realistic is it to think that will work out any better?


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Posted on Sun, Feb 28, 2010 18:01

Just like everyone else, you cannot help that you are more attracted to a certain type, so I don't think that it is wrong. To me, the only type that matters is the type that treats you how you want to be treated. As we all know, the type that we are attracted to and being the kind of mate that we want are mutually exclusive. As long as you are open and do not discriminate then it's all good. Take care.


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Posted on Sun, Feb 28, 2010 12:02

Well Hello again. Hope your health is up to par these days. The heart knows what the heart wants. Who could tell you, say to you that the type of man you want in any shape, form, color, race, etc., could be anything but what you want. How could it be anything else but what you want? How wold it ultimately end up if from the beginning you chose something other than what chimes for you? Right now I am more interested in your experiences with those muscular men lol and what exactly didn't work out....has my imagination working overtime... Be well. Qadesh


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Posted on Sun, Feb 28, 2010 06:50

Nodrama, Hell no, it aint wrong! We all have our preferences! Stick to your guns and get what you want! Elaine


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