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TanzaniteLight
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Posted on Fri, Feb 12, 2010 00:23

I wrote a profile trying to be honest about about myself and what I am seeking. I didn't add too many details because I didn't want to bog people down with details better left until contact is made. I find people asking me for sex, for long distance relationships in situations where we could never meet, and my all time pet peeve, people stating that their appearance is "Hot" when they are not.

I am not searching for "hot" nor do I wish to meet for sexual encounters, I am seeking a kind, gentle, honest man who is secure in himself and mature enough to know that looks aren't the main ingredient to a successful relationship. I know there are people on this site who share a realistic outlook on  what is important in a relationship.

 I am not good looking, however  I am an awesome person, very caring, very loyal and very funny. I know there are other men and women out there in similar circumstances. I want every one of you to know that I see your inner beauty, that I look deeper that the surface and I love for who you are.  Whether we meet someone to date or chat or go for coffee, the most important thing is to remember we are all worthy of someone taking the time to say "Hello" and taking the chance to get to know us.

 

So to every one on this site who honestly likes to get to know others I say "Hi, glad you are here, and I hope we get a chance to chat" Every one of you is worth it.

 

And please, be honest in your profiles, so others can find you!



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jjiggl
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Posted on Sun, Feb 28, 2010 18:40

It's funny, but I come to expect men that I meet via a personals ad or on line to misrepresent himself a little bit and in the past, I have overlooked some of them. If he says that he is a few inches taller than he really is, I can over look that--literally, as I am 5'9" tall. If he says that his hair line is receding, then I expect him to have the "Julius Caesar"--bald on top with a fringe of hair around the ears and back of his head. These slight misrepresentations don't really bother me. I tend to overlook the physical appearance as long as the person is neat and has good hygiene.


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NerdyGuy
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Posted on Sun, Feb 14, 2010 18:16

That's why I tried to be as honest as I possibly could with my profile.  If I try to post pics that make me look better than I do or lie about who I am then what's the point?

 

 

I see you comment here and there and you seem like a really sweet woman with a lot to offer.  I wish you didn't think of yourself as "not good looking" though.  Also I do think it's horrible that everything we are is reduced to how we look. 



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iamprincess1
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Posted on Sun, Feb 14, 2010 07:45

I couldn't have put this statement better! I think it is so funny how people (men and women) misrepresent themselves...Of course I guess it is all how you view yourself as well. Maybe LF should drop the question of "good looking/average...This is the last thing I look for in search of a partner.

 



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MizzBrigitte
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Posted on Sun, Feb 14, 2010 01:40

I agree.


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