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Babycakes63
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Posted on Mon, Nov 16, 2009 02:44

Thanks Smoosh! You are right in that many men don't really care about the shape of a woman, although many do to a fault, it is all about how she carries herself and her self worth. It is important to know who you are and what you want. Although I do find that some men tend to still want the super model when they themselves are middle aged and hefty. LOL about the shape you choose, you are clever. Elaine


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Posted on Mon, Nov 16, 2009 02:37

Hey Butter, I've missed you ya big flirt! I love the way that you put your self out there and aren't afraid to get the first two outcomes of womens responses. I am not surprised that she asked you out! It is a numbers game! Elaine


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Posted on Sun, Nov 15, 2009 09:26

Ok I "ll say two truths ,Babycakes63 is a sexy woman! Sadly she lives too far from me. :(


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Posted on Sun, Nov 15, 2009 09:24

Well I tend to live by the stratagy for dating that I used in high school. ask every lady that I see and interests me .The come is normally one of three, 1)She can run away screaming while pulling out her mace. 2) She can die from a aunrisum from the pressure of laughing so hard at my request. Or she can say yes to a date.I guess the moral is nothing ventures nothing gained. How ever I have had whom I had asked and said no later ask me out for the Sadie Hawkins dance the school was having.


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Posted on Sun, Nov 15, 2009 07:14

keep rocking the blogs - I always define myself as "round" , it's a shape but I have found lots of men don't mind size as long as I don't harp about it. (ie. do something about it or quit my whining - same goes about anything you're unhappy about) Glad to have you back sharing your input as usual. It was getting a little quiet.


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Posted on Sun, Nov 15, 2009 06:44

Nat, Yep this is why I am having the time of my life. Not only does that increase my chances of finding someone for me... I get the nice surge of energy when I actually get replies that are favorable. It's a great boost for the ego. Makes you feel better about myself. The rejections are a little tough...but you know what, its their loss and we are better for that. Elaine


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Posted on Sun, Nov 15, 2009 06:39

Am, great post thanks. You are right this goes for men too! I suppose I had forgotten to mention that! Elaine


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Posted on Sun, Nov 15, 2009 06:31

Island, How funny! So thats why no one from the UK is interested in me!! LOL Thats ok, you have the market cornered over there anyways.


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Posted on Sun, Nov 15, 2009 06:28

Hey ROL! Great to hear from you! Woo Hoo Keep talking! Do you think that women would be more apt to talk to you now that you have put yourself out here? Elaine


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Posted on Sun, Nov 15, 2009 01:10

Quoting: Originally posted by Babycakes63
ok 64 views and only one comment. I give up on y'all...seriously.


Hey just be patient, it seems to take the moderators a while to get the posts posted with so few of us being paying members!


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Posted on Sat, Nov 14, 2009 15:30

ok 64 views and only one comment. I give up on y'all...seriously.


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Posted on Sat, Nov 14, 2009 14:05

i love ladies and i dont particularly care about the size, it is just a matter of if you take care of yourself. you can be big and healthy


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Posted on Fri, Nov 13, 2009 20:03

Oz, I think that this is why we get along so well! Great minds and all! LOL. You seem to me as such a free spirit and I greatly admire that in you. You speak your mind but you have put enough thought into what you say and do that you seem to have no regrets. I wish I could train my brain to do that...I tend to speak my mind before I think and end up eating my words. LOL. Thanks for posting on this lonely blog. It really is a blast to blog. You say what you think or feel and most of the time you find that you are not alone in how you feel and others tend to take notice. Hint Hint for all of you readers whom secretly want to get out here and get noticed!!! Heres your opportunity to try it out! Elaine


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Posted on Fri, Nov 13, 2009 17:40

Hey there Babycakes your lovely and luscious and a beautiful woman.¿ Of course there are lots of men out there that would desire you.¿ I have learned over the past few yesrs that your size has nothing to do with your dating potential, and I in fact have more dates than some of my friends who are more nornal sized and very attractive.

I think that a lot of people read these blogs but are not so comfortable about blogging, I was sh*it scared when I first started, and loolk at me now, cant shut me up. lol¿ I do wish more would as once you do you find you can get a lot more out of it.

Glad to hear that you riding those horses ...grins and not letting anything set you back.¿ Keep smiling Oz :)



Life is only as wonderful as you think it is.

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Posted on Fri, Nov 13, 2009 11:48

HI Elaine, I totally agree with you. The best way to not find someone is to never step up to the plate. Then you will have a perfect score of zero. No runs, no walks, no hits, no love, NO LIFE. We're all afraid, we all want to believe in the valentines genie, the next one will be THE one. We all want our last first date. If you don't get out there, reply to some men, reply to 20, 2 will get back to you. YES, it's a very low average BUT think about this, you are looking for ONE, you now have TWO to choose from. I've been trying, I, as Elaine, am willing to take the risk. If you're not, then that works too, no crab apples about it though. The chances of someone knocking on your door are higher than the national deficit. Honest... So what are you waiting for? Natalie


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Posted on Fri, Nov 13, 2009 11:07

OK 15 views and nothing! not one of y'all had anything to say about my statement? Any Hecklers out there? Is this thing on???


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Posted on Fri, Nov 13, 2009 09:22

Ah the diversity of language! A point of reference to any guys chatting to British gals ...... "Thick" is taken to mean stupid in the UK "Fluffy" implies similar, tho may be considered marginally less insulting :)


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