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Posted on Wed, Oct 14, 2009 11:39

Ok had a date earlier this week. Met him on another site that promotes compatability and valies matching. We matched in many ways and got on real well in emails and I liked him , but had not even seen his pic at that stage (he had seen mine). We met at a night club, and I though my knees would buckle. My Adonis had walked in the door. grins Well we chatted and had a few drinks, played pool and enjoyed each others company for 3 hours at which time he left. Now during this time I sensed that there was some interest but his body language kept changing, sometimes showing interest other times just being friendly. Overall I felt that there was chemistry, but I cant be sure if that was just coming from my side? Though I would have thought he would have got out of there earlier if there was not something that interested him to stay? It ended with a had a gret time it was nice meeting you, but no mention of any further contact. Now it had been 4 days and I have not heard from him. Ok sorry, here is my question. lol If he was interested would he have made contact by now? Do men really follow some 4 or 5 day rule about not contacting women? Should I contact him and tell him that I had a great time or just wait for him to make his move? If he is planning to make a move at all? Either way I would like to be friends with him.


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Posted on Tue, Dec 15, 2009 20:13

Quoting AmuseMe:

Well? Assuming you have sent him an email already, has he made contact with you yet? If I were you, I'd call him. If he isn't interested, being male and naturally cowardly when it concerns women and verbalizing feelings, he won't answer you. Nice quick way to find out where his interest lies.


Yes your right AmuseMe and good to see you in the blogs.  I did send him an email, light and friendly saying I would like to maitain contact and nada, nothing, zilch.

 

Guess he's not that into me??   Next!  lol :)



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Posted on Fri, Dec 04, 2009 11:08

Well? Assuming you have sent him an email already, has he made contact with you yet? If I were you, I'd call him. If he isn't interested, being male and naturally cowardly when it concerns women and verbalizing feelings, he won't answer you. Nice quick way to find out where his interest lies.


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Posted on Sun, Oct 25, 2009 16:39

Thank you all for your comments ..time for an update. Well its been more than 2 weeks and I have not heard anything nor have I sent him an email either. Call me silly but this man was full on with the contact prior to our meeting, he was the one chasing and pushing to meet up. I guess I think that he should also make first contact now that we have. The funny thing in this I feel is some mens inability to communicate negative things to women. I wont scream and cry if he told me that there was not enough chemistry between us for him or that I am not what he is looking for. Though do wonder how often he may have enountered this in the past. mmmm maybe this is another blog. Anyway I will maybe send him a quick email to say hi, though having second thoughts of whether I should even bother, afraid Adonis has is now a fallen statue. lol


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Posted on Thu, Oct 22, 2009 17:58

Hi Oz,

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I would say to you that if you enjoyed his company, get in touch, say hello, surely he will say yes or no, if he is genuine. That is what you need to know, if not, move on.

Sometimes you have to make the running, use your instincts, and take it from there.

I wish you well in your endeavours.

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Bill



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Posted on Thu, Oct 15, 2009 09:53

Give the bloke a Email with you telly number.I would also tell him that you had an outstanding time. After that if he has not responded after 4 days have passed he has probially moved on.


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Posted on Wed, Oct 14, 2009 20:55

This is a tough one! Usually I'd say if he hasn't called in 4 days he may not call at all, but then he did spend three hours with you on a first meeting date when he could have had a couple quick drinks and called it a night sooner than that. You could always send a casual text or voice mail just to thank him for a nice time, and see what happens. What sign is he?


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