Quoting silv2001:

I know that this is a dating site but I'm wondering if there is sometimes to much emphasis on 'finding' the one. This is a generalizing statement that is not just directed at this site. We all hear the statement "If its meant to happen it will" blah blah blah. How true is that statement? I believe that this statement holds less meaning the older we get. I know in my own case, being high school sweethearts, there was alot of stuff that I didn't know about myself and now being older and wiser:) any new relationship will be so much different. Anyway, back to my original question. How true is and does anyone believe that "If it is meant to happen it will"?

I know that this is a dating site but I'm wondering if there is sometimes to much emphasis on 'finding' the one. This is a generalizing statement that is not just directed at this site. We all hear the statement "If its meant to happen it will" blah blah blah. How true is that statement? I believe that this statement holds less meaning the older we get. I know in my own case, being high school sweethearts, there was alot of stuff that I didn't know about myself and now being older and wiser:) any new relationship will be so much different. Anyway, back to my original question. How true is and does anyone believe that "If it is meant to happen it will"?

Quoting ozredhead62:

Well agree with you .... if Im meant to win the lottery it will happen ..... but ..... still got to buy the damn ticket.

Do believe in destiny in a way, but we can change this by our the decisions we choose to make.

Well agree with you .... if Im meant to win the lottery it will happen ..... but ..... still got to buy the damn ticket.

Do believe in destiny in a way, but we can change this by our the decisions we choose to make.

Life is only as wonderful as you think it is.

Quoting butterbll:

Well sitting in a cave and hopeing that she will fall in to you lap is not a good way to try to find her. you have to get out there where all can see you and do evey thing in you power to find her. If you fail to get her you can at least say you have done everything you could to find her. Because some times you can do everything right yet fail.

Well sitting in a cave and hopeing that she will fall in to you lap is not a good way to try to find her. you have to get out there where all can see you and do evey thing in you power to find her. If you fail to get her you can at least say you have done everything you could to find her. Because some times you can do everything right yet fail.