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aimeefla
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Posted on Sat, Sep 05, 2009 08:02

I'm looking for partner - one that realizes that the trust and respect that must be forged is imperative for a solid foundation on which to build a relationship. A partner that is willing to come half way to my half way. Also understanding that sometimes we each have to make more of an effort at times. The overlapping effort gives each other strength that will build stronger bonds as time goes on for us. I see women that make men miserable, but I refuse to be like those women. I don't like that sort of behavior. I have been told men like it because it's a challenge. I wish you all the luck in the world if that's what you want. It simply is not who I am. I'm also making a declaration about who I am. I want to learn about you before getting involved intimately. I will refuse advances until such time as we agree there is reason to forge a one to one, serious relationship. Forgoing all others in this endeavor. If this suits you or fits into your mindset then I'd like to hear from you. I'll listen to your concepts and I'm willing to modify mine if necessary. There is nothing better than to hear the garage door open and know it's the person you want to see and spend the rest of your life with and feel your heart patter patter just a bit. This can be the best feeling you have all day. The smile you show that person, as they walk in the door, is a welcome site after a long day away. I?m romantic by nature and monogamous by choice. Natalie -- asking for input and advice on this new attitude ;-)


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Posted on Sat, Sep 26, 2009 17:53

I'm so very glad you all took the time to comment. I'm going to keep my profile as is. A friend of mine asked how many replies is it getting. I told her I only need one reply, from the right person. I think my profile is geared to do just that. The right person shall read it and reply. We really only want that ONE reply right?

Thank you everyone

Nat



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Posted on Wed, Sep 16, 2009 08:11

Hi Nat, Don't change a thing! As a man I like a strong woman and that shows through on your profile. I think you are also very (as in VERY) attractive. Stick to your principles and never settle for second best! It's a shame you live so far away. John


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Posted on Sat, Sep 12, 2009 16:54

Hi Nat, your profile is good, clear and defines what you want, which is always good way to start. Some men wont read it I am afraid, but most worthy men will take the time at some point I think. Another thing I think is important is that you have defined what you want and having this out there will bring it into your life. Be yourself and be confident that someone out there will see how special you really are. xx :)


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Posted on Tue, Sep 08, 2009 06:45

Nothin wrong with your profile but Islandgal has a point. In all honesty do the majority of guys even look past a picture...but then again those are not the ones your probably interested in anyways.


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Posted on Mon, Sep 07, 2009 01:30

I think it's a good idea, especially in this online context, to be clear about what you want and what you don't want. I'd leave what you already have on your profile (yup, I peeked) and add it on at the end. Perhaps editing it just a little for length will help. Even if it's still long (Islandgal makes a good point), a man who's really interested in you and the same kind of relationship you are will probably read it. Or I'm just an incurable optimist ... who knows. You have such a warm heart and great personality. It really shows in your blog posts and profile, as it is now. If you're worried that setting up some boundaries sounds too harsh, I think those things will help balance it out just fine.


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Posted on Sun, Sep 06, 2009 10:19

Natalie, Don't change a thing.You speak you mind and stick to it. Don't compromise you values to get what you want.If they can't take you for what you stand for and you beleifs and who you are.They are not being true to the True meaning of love. Accepting some one for who they are, and accepting them as they are and wanting to change nothing . Neal Aka Butterbll


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Posted on Sun, Sep 06, 2009 05:34

Hi Azureblue, I'm working on it for sure. I've resolved, within myself, to live my life in this way. I'll look for someone that has the same resolve for a future together. Sorry about the online guy, but I agree putting it out there is what you want to do and then you find out what the other person has in mind. It's been a year of learning for you. What have you learned about you? I've taken the last seven years and figured out what I've learned about me. The new profile is the result. I don't think in terms of "wasted time" because I don't think I was ready to share my life with someone, now I am making room in my life for someone as special as I am. It sounds like you're doing the same thing. GOOD FOR US BOTH !! Natalie


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Posted on Sun, Sep 06, 2009 03:19

Nat, great attitude but I fear it would only work if you were looking for a woman .... not all, but most of the guys on here seem incapable of reading that much! (Sorry guys, but it's sadly true!) Good luck!


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