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Posted on Fri, Jul 10, 2009 22:24

After seeing a recent post of some one whinieing about the Ladies here on this site not web camming and other posts from months ago previous.I have reveiwed several simmiular profiles here on this site to better understand the posters. In their profiles they are Stating what they wanted.HOWEVER they say they are Married yet they are looking for DATING,LONG-TERM / SERIOUS RELATIOSHIP, CASUAL AND INTIMATE .I may not be the most Intelligent person but is this not cheating? I mean, you may Call me a Little old fashioned. But does not this type of behavior by some here on this site seem that person who states that they are married are cheating?,Yet state are looking for DATING,LONG-TERM / SERIOUS RELATIOSHIP, CASUAL AND INTIMATE Are they not Cheating on their Spouse by doing so? Does not that Behavior not have possible serious and potentially Deadly side effects effects,as recent national news stories have shown. And yet they wonder Why they are treated like the peverbial "Baby Ruth" floating in the pool.I have to Say Personally,If you are Married and are so unhappy that you have to go outside your marriage for you supposed needs . Why not not get a divorce and not have to worry about getting caught cheating and avoid potential of needing plastic surgury or other operations to reattach body parts or plug up extra holes that you may get from your Spouse that you cheated on. Just my .2Cnts


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Posted on Thu, Aug 06, 2009 21:54

A recent News Report makes my point about cheating,.. The report was that about criminal case of four ladies that were cheated on by a guy . The three ladies and the guys wife decide to teach him a lesson. To make a long story short, he winds up Assaulted by the 4 ladies hog tied and gagged on the bed. Left on the bed spread eagle in his birthday suit with a Appendage super glued to his leg. he was left in the hotel room with out his clothes or wallet . because of this "Lesson" the 4 ladies are facing various charges such as kidnapping and sexual assault and a few others .


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Posted on Tue, Jul 28, 2009 08:30

I understand the need to feel ,wanted,loved and needed.If one does not get it from their partned the wil eventually migrate to those who can fulfill that need. However ,I feel (from personal experiance) that it is better to try to fix the problem of not having you needs met. Than step out side of the commitment and seek fullfilment elsewhere. Not taking care of the root problem will only cause major problems later. Ignoring the problem will not make it go away. The problem of not addressing it and letting the problem sit there can be like a cast off used diaper in a room . You hope it will go away , however you actually physcally make an effort to pick it up and remove it to make the stench go away. If you dont it nepharious stech will creep in to every part of your house, and permiate every thing in it


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Posted on Thu, Jul 23, 2009 09:04

It is cheating but until you walk in someone elses shoes you wouldn't understand why some of us are here. I'm lonely and looking for companionship. Something I'm obviously not getting at home. I would have never thought I'd be here in a million years but I am.

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Posted on Fri, Jul 17, 2009 15:12

Ditto, Butter. Yes, it is cheating. Sadly, some don't see it that way. I see it as blatant, shameful, disrespectful and cheating. Once again: DITTO. Always, --True


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Posted on Fri, Jul 17, 2009 06:25

For me, regardless of whether they are male or female, I'd have a bit more respect for them if they sorted out their issues first before looking to drag someone else into their complicated lives! I would always assume that if they were prepared to cheat WITH me they'd also be more than prepared to cheat ON me ...... not gonna happen! I suppose they deserve a tiny bit of credit for at least admitting to being attached, and it gives us the chance to read the profile and decide for ourselves, but I have no time for cheats.


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Posted on Sun, Jul 12, 2009 13:24

Well I have to say that men are not the sole sex that is cheating here. I have seen just as many ladies say the same thing on their bio, Married yet they are looking for :DATING,LONG-TERM / SERIOUS RELATIOSHIP, CASUAL AND INTIMATE .


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Posted on Sun, Jul 12, 2009 05:55

I wish I could see up front, before clicking on profile, their status (single, divorced, separated, married), as I don't even care to look at a separated or married man's profile. Give me an old fashioned guy that has sexual self control, longs to get to know you, the whole you, without the sexual pressure. Once you fall into the passion/lust of sex, it's to easy to ignore the red flags and blindly go along. Someone will get hurt or worse. Looking at society, for most, they don't understand delayed gratification - the rewards of it.


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