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Posted on Sat, Jul 04, 2009 04:33

Yes, I want to know:


1:¿ Women do you let a guy chase you?

2: Guys do you find IF you have to chase a women is it more satisfying?

3" After the chase???¿

4: Does it really work?¿

5 Was it worth the "game Plan"

6: What was your "game Plan" to catch THAT One special guys attention?

Thanks !!

¿

Nat



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Posted on Fri, Jul 17, 2009 06:15

Quoting ozredhead62:

LOL Aries, see you have been busy pulling your horns again? Gee got to get off doing that as its obviously clouding your judgement! Good to see you back you old lamb. x


I refer you to my last answer below. No nibble NO CHASE! Without FUEL...there's NO FIRE!


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Posted on Wed, Jul 15, 2009 16:45

Quoting ariesram:

...mmmmmmmm? Will they EVER learn? Tiz ARIES Ozzy, not Leo! The RAM leads, and the other signs (sheep) follow. As in real life.x


LOL Aries, see you have been busy pulling your horns again? Gee got to get off doing that as its obviously clouding your judgement! Good to see you back you old lamb. x


Life is only as wonderful as you think it is.

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Posted on Mon, Jul 13, 2009 21:59

Hi ya aimeefla. I enjoy the chase, the chase is good. But, if it goes on TOO long, i may sooner,or later, lose interest. It's a carrot & stick thing...so long as i can have a little 'nibble' now and again, i'll keep on chasing.x


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Posted on Mon, Jul 13, 2009 21:50

Quoting ozredhead62:

I have to admit that I like to be chased ... must be something to do with being a Leo and the king of the zodiac? lol I dont feel comfortable in a "chaser" role, I will be the first to let aguy know that I am into him. but like him to then continue the chase if he is interested. I dont know if it works but that is the way I am. As far as the "game plan" well I dont think I have one, though in recent times I have decided that I have to allow the chase to continue a little longer before I allow myself to be caught. Think in the past I have past I have allowed myself to be caught by those that would have proven not right for me, had I run a bit longer. :)


...mmmmmmmm? Will they EVER learn? Tiz ARIES Ozzy, not Leo! The RAM leads, and the other signs (sheep) follow. As in real life.x


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Posted on Sun, Jul 05, 2009 19:28

Wow, good stuff !!¿¿ Now it was Artie Johnson from Laugh in. Loved that show !!! Loved the snicker in Artie Johnson's voice when he said that in the german get up behind the bush.¿ "Very interesting... "¿ LOL LOL

"Knowing it"¿ I think we all would like to instantly recognize that one.¿ The issues I'm working on are the unknown/unfamiliar.¿ The familiar to me is no longer working out. So I must venture into the realm of not being familar with the type of personality of a new guy. Learning to become familiar with his way of doing things. Finding out if it "fits" into my life. THEN do I want to "fit" it onto my life?¿¿ The realm of the unknown is an enigma, at 60, I was not ready to deal with. However, it seems the universe has another concept of how my life should wander.¿ SO, I'm finding myself as the audience to my own life.

I journal and it's been an interesing venture to "see" me and my perspective on paper. TheN, if my friends meet a guy I'm seeing, how they react to him knowing me as well as anyone outside of my body can know me.


Feng Shui is helping me learn to make room for someone in my life. Removing the "dams" of "stuff" to allow the flow of energy to be positive and rewarding.

On another note that you touched on, going about my life and when someone comes into my life finding a spot for them to "fill".¿ I have many activities and I now have to keep a calender to make sure that I remember them. :-)¿ I think part of the "chase" is to maintain my schedule and have the guy feel he is competing with my schedule not another man?¿ or can his thought always go to competition with another man and then HE wins the illusive "battle"?¿¿

More quandries to each answer revealing a new question then a new perspective on the quandry.¿ %-)

Nat

¿

Qadesh Wrote:

Hello Nat,
Nice to see you back here on the blogs. First of all let me take my hair down...literally. I'll hold on the wine for a bit... Just got home from work, and all I can say is at least is was double time! However, I in my humble opinion deem it still not what I am worth everyday!

Let's suffice to say that I will allow the chase, but will be slow enough to be caught! ;) I have been following your other blog too and will chime in with you as allowing a man into your home time/determined. I also do not concern myself with the negative thinking about being mugged...etc. If you think like that you draw that power to you. I have friends as yours who do that kind of thinking for me. lol In fact when I think about that other blog we do have much in common so it sounds. I too was not any good at dating in my youth. A group of us hung around each other, more pals than anything, then slowly the pairing started. I was not one of them. So, now at 53, find all this rigamarole, rules, regulations, societal views, your own views, your own vacillating, the double think that goes on inside your mind. We all know that we are our own worse judges.

I like to pursue, and I like to be pursued. Game Plan: Be comfortable in my own skin, realize that there is a possibility that I may or may not be alone, and become adjusted to the thought. I hope to recognize/know "it" when I see it. I look forward to the answers to this one Nat. Could prove to be very interesting. Said in the voice of the guy from Laugh-In. Artie something I think....memory is not what it used to be.....oh no!
Be well all.
Qadesh



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Posted on Sun, Jul 05, 2009 04:51

I have to admit that I like to be chased ... must be something to do with being a Leo and the king of the zodiac? lol I dont feel comfortable in a "chaser" role, I will be the first to let aguy know that I am into him. but like him to then continue the chase if he is interested. I dont know if it works but that is the way I am. As far as the "game plan" well I dont think I have one, though in recent times I have decided that I have to allow the chase to continue a little longer before I allow myself to be caught. Think in the past I have past I have allowed myself to be caught by those that would have proven not right for me, had I run a bit longer. :)


Life is only as wonderful as you think it is.

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Posted on Sat, Jul 04, 2009 14:16

Hello Nat, Nice to see you back here on the blogs. First of all let me take my hair down...literally. I'll hold on the wine for a bit... Just got home from work, and all I can say is at least is was double time! However, I in my humble opinion deem it still not what I am worth everyday! Let's suffice to say that I will allow the chase, but will be slow enough to be caught! ;) I have been following your other blog too and will chime in with you as allowing a man into your home time/determined. I also do not concern myself with the negative thinking about being mugged...etc. If you think like that you draw that power to you. I have friends as yours who do that kind of thinking for me. lol In fact when I think about that other blog we do have much in common so it sounds. I too was not any good at dating in my youth. A group of us hung around each other, more pals than anything, then slowly the pairing started. I was not one of them. So, now at 53, find all this rigamarole, rules, regulations, societal views, your own views, your own vacillating, the double think that goes on inside your mind. We all know that we are our own worse judges. I like to pursue, and I like to be pursued. Game Plan: Be comfortable in my own skin, realize that there is a possibility that I may or may not be alone, and become adjusted to the thought. I hope to recognize/know "it" when I see it. I look forward to the answers to this one Nat. Could prove to be very interesting. Said in the voice of the guy from Laugh-In. Artie something I think....memory is not what it used to be.....oh no! Be well all. Qadesh


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