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Posted on Fri, Apr 24, 2009 05:12

This is a simple, yet very thought provoking questions. it's in two parts.?

1] What do you regret not doing in the past 20 years???

2] What do you want to NOT regret doing in the next 20 years?

My answer,

1] In the past twenty years I must say I only regret a few things. Not going back for my degree in Social Work.? I regret not walking everyday.

2] In twenty years I'll be 80- I want not regret taking a cruise or several.


I want to not regret taking a risk to find a companion, partner - husband or significant other.

I want to not regret walking everyday.

Natalie



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Posted on Sun, Apr 26, 2009 17:05

Difficult question to answer, though I would not change much, fell that my answers to what i regret in the past 20 years would have changed things an awful lot if I had done that back then. I regret not being able to work out what I really like/want to do, my passion and purpose in life and not becoming an expert in it back then. I regret not learning earlier the parts of me that are special and valuable and what I have to offer. I do not want to regret not giving up smoking and finding out that it "can happen to me". I dont want to regret not handling my weight and health issues now and not being able to see my boys grow into wonderful men. I would not want to regret not having that all consuming type of love because of the fear of potenial pain. Good blog Natalie, sure did make me think. xx


Life is only as wonderful as you think it is.

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Posted on Sun, Apr 26, 2009 09:45

I have to say I don't have any regrets. If I hadn't done and gone through all I did I wouldn't be the sweet, wonderful darling I am today :) In the next 20 years (wow I'll be 73) I don't want to regret not taking a cruise to see Alaska..


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Posted on Sun, Apr 26, 2009 03:48

Quoting: Originally posted by prettygirl2006
Natalie, Call me stupid, if deserved, but what is S.O.? Sexual Offender? Sheriff's Office? Or maybe you forgot the B. at the end? lol! Seriously, what is S.O.? I know I'm not responding to your topic & I will because it is a good one, but I can't get past the "S.O." Curiosity is killing me. PG


HI Pretty Girl.


S.O. is Significant Other Lately there are so many names for a life partner, spouse, live in, at my age boyfriend just does not make it.

Natalie



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Posted on Fri, Apr 24, 2009 20:40

I regret not taking earlier step to control my weight problem.I regret having to leave the Marine Corps because of It.I feel guilt for not taking time to get to know What my now Ex was really like. In twenty years I will not regret having done all I could to battle my weight deamons. I will have no regrets, being alone If I am alone.Because I know that I will have done everything I could to find someone.


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Posted on Fri, Apr 24, 2009 17:56

Natalie, Call me stupid, if deserved, but what is S.O.? Sexual Offender? Sheriff's Office? Or maybe you forgot the B. at the end? lol! Seriously, what is S.O.? I know I'm not responding to your topic & I will because it is a good one, but I can't get past the "S.O." Curiosity is killing me. PG


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