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nodramaaroundme
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Posted on Tue, Oct 21, 2008 21:09

How do you love someone you have never met? This question came to my mind a few minutes ago while I was typing up a list I call "My Ideal Mate." I have nearly 40 characteristics so far that I believe have some kind of importance in the person that I feel is right for me. As I was reading over the list the smile on my face became bigger and bigger but what surprised me was the familiar warm feeling in my chest and mind. It was love...really I couldn't believe it either. What was really surprising was that when I realized I couldn't roll over and kiss him, letting him know how he made me feel...I became sad. And that's when I asked myself, "How do you love someone you have never met?" Did you notice the question I didn't ask? I'll give you a minute. Tick Tick Tick I didn't ask, "Does this person exist?" It was no need for me to ask that question because I know he does. He is out there and if I'm as blessed as I feel, I know I will meet him. And yes I know I will be able to love him. I'm not crazy and I'm not expecting EVERY last thing on my list to fit this person especially since I put in some ranges. (For example Education: High School Graduate to PhD) Some people may think that because I have my BS in Psychology I would only want someone with a degree. Not true, because I know people who I feel are just as intelligent if not more as I am and they have never attended one college class in their life. And you have the idiot currently in office that went to Yale (to be a cheerleader) and we all know he's as dumb as a rock. Sorry didn't mean to offend the rock. I don't feel strange announcing I love someone I've never met. At one time in my life I would have and no one outside of my journal would have known this, but I don't feel strange at all. I feel proud that if what I wrote down could stir and move me so much that I know if I accept nothing less in a mate for me the feelings would only be greater. Yes I have things in there like height and hair color (you know I love a good redhead), but there are things in there like Political Views, Emotional State, Parenting Skills and Household Responsibilities (50/50) too. So how do you love someone you have never met before? Easy, you write down everything that you would love about that person and know and BELIEVE he/she exist.


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Posted on Tue, Oct 28, 2008 17:44

I don't think you can love someone you have never met. You might admire them or want to know more but love......no it takes knowing the whole person not just want they type or say on the phone to really know.


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Posted on Fri, Oct 24, 2008 15:44

Quoting shyguy422000: how do u now if that person likes who u are

I know because that's one of the items on my list. That he must love who I am inside and out. That he must be in a place where he is not only ready to be loved but can give love equally. I hope that helps. 8^)


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Posted on Thu, Oct 23, 2008 05:38

how do u now if that person likes who u are


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Posted on Wed, Oct 22, 2008 05:40

sounds like this is being in love with the IDEA of a specific someone. Then again, if you have a specific idea of who you would be in love with, it sort of acts as a filter on who you give attention to. - like having a goal or objective, your mind focuses on acheiving that.


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Posted on Wed, Oct 22, 2008 05:05

I wrote down my list a few years ago after a pretty bad break up and what seemed like a life time of botched up relationships. Now I have to say the person that formed there was a man that I knew I loved, and like you, know he is out there somewhere. Funny thing is, that with each person I have met since then, and cared for, I am getting closer to finding "HIM" the list has never changed but the type of men that have come into my life have.


Life is only as wonderful as you think it is.

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