Quoting smotheredlover:

I always wonder when the time is right. I usually guess when it is. But, tell me what are the telltale signs that she wants more than a handshake?

I always wonder when the time is right. I usually guess when it is. But, tell me what are the telltale signs that she wants more than a handshake?

Quoting smotheredlover:

Does that mean the girl at burger king who handed me the change for what seemed along time was interested?

Does that mean the girl at burger king who handed me the change for what seemed along time was interested?

Quoting ozredhead62:

LOL Smotheredlover, you got to explain what you meant by that comment? What have you been doing wrong? Grins

LOL Smotheredlover, you got to explain what you meant by that comment? What have you been doing wrong? Grins

Life is only as wonderful as you think it is.

Quoting islandgal64:

Oh dear - looking at the dates on here, has it taken you 12 months??

Good luck putting it in to practice

Quoting: Originally posted by smotheredlover Great comments< I thinki know now what I've been doing wrong.

Quoting smotheredlover:

Great comments< I thinki know now what I've been doing wrong.

Great comments< I thinki know now what I've been doing wrong.

Quoting smoosh:

I agree with Oz, if I was interested in more contact such as hand holding or a kiss - then I would probably be touching your arm/hand and trying to catch your eyes in a personal moment as well as brushing closer to you when walking or sitting.

I agree with Oz, if I was interested in more contact such as hand holding or a kiss - then I would probably be touching your arm/hand and trying to catch your eyes in a personal moment as well as brushing closer to you when walking or sitting.

Quoting smotheredlover:

great comments,I maybe a little unsure, but you gave me some good insight.

great comments,I maybe a little unsure, but you gave me some good insight.

Quoting ozredhead62:

Cant speak for others, but I find that I would make eye contact, and yes, look at your lips. lol

If I like someone I get touchy, he he, I want to touch you and will do so often, you know on your arm and hands.

Also I will let you into my personal space, for if you are not close enough, well you wont be able to kiss me anyway.

You may just have to try and see what happens. Good luck.

Cant speak for others, but I find that I would make eye contact, and yes, look at your lips. lol

If I like someone I get touchy, he he, I want to touch you and will do so often, you know on your arm and hands.

Also I will let you into my personal space, for if you are not close enough, well you wont be able to kiss me anyway.

You may just have to try and see what happens. Good luck.

Life is only as wonderful as you think it is.

Quoting smotheredlover:

Thanks for the tip on a shy girl

Thanks for the tip on a shy girl

Quoting 4funorlove:

this is actually a very tough question !!

I presume you are talking about more than a kiss between friends?

The important things is the context - like a special moment that you have just shared together, talked about or something and you are in each other's space(physically)... a good sign is eye contact followed by her looking at your lips, she is thinking, i wonder if he is going to kiss me, or I wish he would kiss me...
thats my take on it, but its not 100% accurate - i have got it wrong in the past.

but he who does not venture does not gain as the saying goes..

and if you try to kiss when it is not welcome, there is RARELY a woman that will hate you for it - she will love the compliemnt of you feeeling that way for her, even if she does not welcome the sentiment - so remember that when you are unsure :-)

PS shy girls sometimes tilt their head down to almost avoid being kissed. so if you put your hand under her chin and gently lift it up to kiss her, and she lets you, she's ready for a kiss :-)

this is actually a very tough question !!

I presume you are talking about more than a kiss between friends?

The important things is the context - like a special moment that you have just shared together, talked about or something and you are in each other's space(physically)... a good sign is eye contact followed by her looking at your lips, she is thinking, i wonder if he is going to kiss me, or I wish he would kiss me...
thats my take on it, but its not 100% accurate - i have got it wrong in the past.

but he who does not venture does not gain as the saying goes..

and if you try to kiss when it is not welcome, there is RARELY a woman that will hate you for it - she will love the compliemnt of you feeeling that way for her, even if she does not welcome the sentiment - so remember that when you are unsure :-)

PS shy girls sometimes tilt their head down to almost avoid being kissed. so if you put your hand under her chin and gently lift it up to kiss her, and she lets you, she's ready for a kiss :-)