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Posted on Wed, Jun 14, 2006 14:41

What does one have to do the just meet up with someone who can just tell it like it is? I had been corresponding with someone from this site and we were supposed to meet this past weekend. We spoke on the phone a couple times he said he would call me and work out the details of when and where but never did. In the meantime I had my friends that I was going to visit on hold for plans on the weekend because this person said he wanted to meet. There is nothing wrong with changing your mind on that, that?s what the emails and phone calls are about is getting to know a person and deciding if you want to take that next step. My beef is that the jerk could not even be courteous or straight forward enough to tell me that he had for whatever reason changed his mind, so that I could make other plans for the day. Then yesterday I got to meet a nice man from a different site I am on. We had a great lunch talked about life and how wrong infidelity is etc etc. Well imagine this, today I get a call from his live in g/f stating he has been with her 4 years and to please not email him again. Cha like that is likely to happen now that I know what a lying cheating snake he is!!!!!!!!!!! Perhaps that?s what happened with the first fellow; maybe the little wifey poo had made plans for the weekend. I just get tired of game playing, I respect people who put it up front that they are married or just looking for a booty call (not saying it right) at least its not a waste of my time to only find that out later on. I had joined this to meet local people in an area I just moved to, not be a booty call for them. I also don?t want to get some romance going with some hot model guy in Nigeria who will profess his love after 4 or 5 emails if only I would send him the money to come and meet me. I am not so sure that meeting people through these sort of sights are a good idea, what do you think? Am I way off?


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Posted on Tue, Jun 27, 2006 22:46

Hi, I agree totally !! I am new to this site I go on a few others also. I don't understand either what it is about the game playing. I despise flat out lying. I hope we can find someone who is honest, and who isn't a player.


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Posted on Tue, Jun 27, 2006 21:08

I think the internet is not a very good place to meet someone for a relationship. Although I am still here and being optimistic and a bit of a romantic dreamer that such a person for me exists online. all my encounters with men have been just horrible. I think the problem is that they can lie easy online. they have many woman they juggle because its easy online. Its hard to tell who they really are or if they are even single until its too late and you have invested your time with this person. And should you want to be respected by them, they will dump you as they know they can hook up very easily with other woman. Not that they are gonna find a good woman, because they are just not interested in that...theres only one thing they want. oh yes..you got it..lol....im sure there are a few good men on here....but where the heck are you hiding because im always meeting losers on here. I am getting very discouraged with all this an feel I am better off alone than to meet someone online to make my life complicated. I am fine with my life...dont need liars an cheaters. there are woman on here who play those games as well...but they seem to meet the good guys an hurt them...whats up with this? anyway, I am still here..but very very cautious ... I think its time for all the good women to go back to the old way of dating men from friends or family that know them first. It seems the only way your gonna know hes a great guy right off the bat. Maybe its time to leave all the men an woman cheaters to have the online meetings an hurt each other if thats possible...lol...


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Posted on Mon, Jun 19, 2006 14:00

Great advise on the times thing Swtldyiam, thanks!


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Posted on Sun, Jun 18, 2006 14:45

Thanks David, which one are you the 80% or 20% lol. Your profile says you are from MS that's a long ways from WA. If you have moved you should update your profile, you might be getting passed by some hottie in your area because she thinks you are too far away lol. Have a good one, ciao 4 now!


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Posted on Sun, Jun 18, 2006 11:56

Hi Pathseeker, Sorry to read of your encounter. Sometimes these sites contain 80% bull...., and 20% real sincere humans. Like your woodsy photo. I'm from WA too. Seattle... David


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