I decided to respond to winks, if they "winker" was within the general guidelines of my desires. ( no 30 or 40 year olds, no one too darn far away )
Nothing has changed much but I have noticed that the guys that I'm contacting seem eager to get to know more about me. Right now I'm emailing three guys.
My experiment is interesting as I really never wanted to bother with winks, I wanted a letter, but it seems that guys might not know how to start and the winks are easy or safe. I tend to get long emails after first contact.
Has anyone else tried this?
Curious
Nat
I decided to respond to winks, if they "winker" was within the general guidelines of my desires. ( no 30 or 40 year olds, no one too darn far away )
Nothing has changed much but I have noticed that the guys that I'm contacting seem eager to get to know more about me. Right now I'm emailing three guys.
My experiment is interesting as I really never wanted to bother with winks, I wanted a letter, but it seems that guys might not know how to start and the winks are easy or safe. I tend to get long emails after first contact.
I had someone that stated they were a doctor wink at me but with the message about how he's not a gold memember. I had to ignore that one, you're telling me as a doctor you want me to get a memembership to talk to you.
I just don't receive enough interest to become a member. I just like to blog and the great company I have from people on this site.
I had someone that stated they were a doctor wink at me but with the message about how he's not a gold memember. I had to ignore that one, you're telling me as a doctor you want me to get a memembership to talk to you.
I just don't receive enough interest to become a member. I just like to blog and the great company I have from people on this site.
Gentleman, It send a very poor signal when one does not join the site and expects the woman he is supposedly interested in to email you first....I totally ignore those profile and responses
Gentleman,
It send a very poor signal when one does not join the site and expects the woman he is supposedly interested in to email you first....I totally ignore those profile and responses
Hey that's my thought too when I get that note from non paying members. If they are really looking for friends this site isn't really that expensive to join. Then they can write anyone they want.
Hey that's my thought too when I get that note from non paying members. If they are really looking for friends this site isn't really that expensive to join. Then they can write anyone they want.
Sadly I can only conclude that the majority of the winkers can't read.
My profile clearly states that Im interested in UK contacts only, but in recent months despite a steady number of winks, the closest has been from Italy.
An the majority tend to be "I'm not a gold member yet but I might be the one for you" Well, TOUGH! Put in some effort guys, try paying!
So on the strength of that, I really can't be bothered to waste the time and effort in replying!
Aaah, maybe I should just give up!
Sadly I can only conclude that the majority of the winkers can't read.
My profile clearly states that Im interested in UK contacts only, but in recent months despite a steady number of winks, the closest has been from Italy.
An the majority tend to be "I'm not a gold member yet but I might be the one for you" Well, TOUGH! Put in some effort guys, try paying!
So on the strength of that, I really can't be bothered to waste the time and effort in replying!
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