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Posted on Fri, Feb 08, 2008 13:05

I decided to respond to winks, if they "winker" was within the general guidelines of my desires. ( no 30 or 40 year olds, no one too darn far away ) Nothing has changed much but I have noticed that the guys that I'm contacting seem eager to get to know more about me. Right now I'm emailing three guys. My experiment is interesting as I really never wanted to bother with winks, I wanted a letter, but it seems that guys might not know how to start and the winks are easy or safe. I tend to get long emails after first contact. Has anyone else tried this? Curious Nat


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Posted on Mon, Mar 03, 2008 14:04

I had someone that stated they were a doctor wink at me but with the message about how he's not a gold memember. I had to ignore that one, you're telling me as a doctor you want me to get a memembership to talk to you. I just don't receive enough interest to become a member. I just like to blog and the great company I have from people on this site.


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Posted on Mon, Mar 03, 2008 13:22

Gentleman, It send a very poor signal when one does not join the site and expects the woman he is supposedly interested in to email you first....I totally ignore those profile and responses


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Posted on Tue, Feb 12, 2008 23:00

It has to start somewhere, right? Ignore it, or wink back!

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Posted on Mon, Feb 11, 2008 19:22

Hey that's my thought too when I get that note from non paying members. If they are really looking for friends this site isn't really that expensive to join. Then they can write anyone they want.


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Posted on Sat, Feb 09, 2008 07:43

Biirdy, Never give up !! I can certainly understand not replying to winks that are just unreasonably GU( geographically undesirable) I do the same. Have you tried other sites as well? ( Yes I like this one,but we all knwo it's not the ONLY one around) Nat


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Posted on Sat, Feb 09, 2008 02:00

Sadly I can only conclude that the majority of the winkers can't read. My profile clearly states that Im interested in UK contacts only, but in recent months despite a steady number of winks, the closest has been from Italy. An the majority tend to be "I'm not a gold member yet but I might be the one for you" Well, TOUGH! Put in some effort guys, try paying! So on the strength of that, I really can't be bothered to waste the time and effort in replying! Aaah, maybe I should just give up!


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