though I do think that any phase of kinky activity needs some basis of a trustful relationship (would ya really let someone you don't know tie you up? LOL)it's hard 1. to find someone who shares your interest(s) and 2. harder to broach the subject with someone that you're just getting comfortable with sharing some aspects of your 'dark side' any kink lovers out there with comments (or addresses better yet *winks* LOL)
though I do think that any phase of kinky activity needs some basis of a trustful relationship (would ya really let someone you don't know tie you up? LOL)it's hard 1. to find someone who shares your interest(s) and 2. harder to broach the subject with someone that you're just getting comfortable with sharing some aspects of your 'dark side'
any kink lovers out there with comments (or addresses better yet *winks* LOL)
Kinky... well lets see there has been a lot said about to each their own and about releae. (blah blah) I could never go through live with vanilla s*x and so my partner needs to know that the treasure chest under the bed is there for life! and if you get scared and cant play then there is the door, cuz life is too short for bad mundane encounters.
Kinky... well lets see there has been a lot said about to each their own and about releae. (blah blah) I could never go through live with vanilla s*x and so my partner needs to know that the treasure chest under the bed is there for life! and if you get scared and cant play then there is the door, cuz life is too short for bad mundane encounters.
ya gotta go with whatever you're comfortable with; sometimes you could try to push the envelope though...as long as you and your partner agree on safe words to stop play at any time...after all no does mean no :>)
ya gotta go with whatever you're comfortable with; sometimes you could try to push the envelope though...as long as you and your partner agree on safe words to stop play at any time...after all no does mean no :>)
I like handcuffs, but want the easy release ones, not police issue. (had a cop for a boyfriend once, he abused his privileges.) I'm not into pain. No whips or paddles. Kinda tame compared to the stuff available. LOL.
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I like handcuffs, but want the easy release ones, not police issue. (had a cop for a boyfriend once, he abused his privileges.) I'm not into pain. No whips or paddles. Kinda tame compared to the stuff available. LOL.
absolutely! you must first develop a trust with someone before you start to take away some of the vanilla aspects. Anyone who just wants to jump right in to anything more on the dark side is a danger to themselves as well as their partner.
absolutely! you must first develop a trust with someone before you start to take away some of the vanilla aspects. Anyone who just wants to jump right in to anything more on the dark side is a danger to themselves as well as their partner.
I think when two people have spent enough time in getting to know each other and formed a friendship with honest,open communication things come out in good time.The way I see it,the boundries between two bodies lies in the mind. Free the mind, the rest follows. When that comfort level and trust is established, the possibilities are endless.
The only thing that binds my mind these days is desiring the WHOLE package, in and out the "bedroom". LOL
I think when two people have spent enough time in getting to know each other and formed a friendship with honest,open communication things come out in good time.The way I see it,the boundries between two bodies lies in the mind. Free the mind, the rest follows. When that comfort level and trust is established, the possibilities are endless.
The only thing that binds my mind these days is desiring the WHOLE package, in and out the "bedroom". LOL
well said! never thought I'd like anything else but vanilla, but with a little kink added to things it surely does spice things up, and no, doesn't have to involve paddles and whips (unless ya want to LOL)
well said! never thought I'd like anything else but vanilla, but with a little kink added to things it surely does spice things up, and no, doesn't have to involve paddles and whips (unless ya want to LOL)
Heck by the time you are in your 40's if you haven't explored a little kinky sex I think there is something wrong with you. And man what we used to think was kinky in the 60's and 70's is kindergarden sex with all the stuff out there these days. Now, anybody game for some fun???
Heck by the time you are in your 40's if you haven't explored a little kinky sex I think there is something wrong with you. And man what we used to think was kinky in the 60's and 70's is kindergarden sex with all the stuff out there these days. Now, anybody game for some fun???
Ok, I have to admit it, I like it! Even the most conservative of us have a wilder side. :) Dare to go where you've never been, just be sure you trust the one you're with, communicate your boundries and have fun!
Ok, I have to admit it, I like it! Even the most conservative of us have a wilder side. :) Dare to go where you've never been, just be sure you trust the one you're with, communicate your boundries and have fun!
Personally i think once women reach a certain age, they dont mind speaking up for what they want in the active part of the relationship, personally im glad im 35! id never want to go back to my 20s cos then i accepted what i got and didnt have the nerve to say or try something 'new'. Besides how can some1 critisize when they havnt tried?? lol BTW have u got any handcuffs?? lol ;-)
Personally i think once women reach a certain age, they dont mind speaking up for what they want in the active part of the relationship, personally im glad im 35! id never want to go back to my 20s cos then i accepted what i got and didnt have the nerve to say or try something 'new'. Besides how can some1 critisize when they havnt tried?? lol
BTW have u got any handcuffs?? lol ;-)
yepper peppers....nothing like getting all wound up like a lil friction toy and then getting released :>), sometimes ya don't even need da ropes and stuff you can do it all mentally and get a heck of a release from it all
yepper peppers....nothing like getting all wound up like a lil friction toy and then getting released :>), sometimes ya don't even need da ropes and stuff you can do it all mentally and get a heck of a release from it all
LOL thanx.....hate to keep things so serious....life is so short and outside of work need serious relief of corporate mentality guess looking for something on or a tad off the edge yanno??
LOL thanx.....hate to keep things so serious....life is so short and outside of work need serious relief of corporate mentality guess looking for something on or a tad off the edge yanno??
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