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Posted on Dec 02, 2007 at 04:25 PM

Why are women so afraid to meet after posting ads on dating sites, etc?

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Posted on Dec 04, 2007 at 05:00 PM

You can't fall in love if you're dead...LOL Point being, you always want to be safe about meeting and if you need to back out because a red flag went off...do it. Hind sight is 20/20.

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Posted on Dec 03, 2007 at 07:57 PM

Hi OK, I think you need to ask yourself a few questions to get your possible answer. I assume you are looking for a LTR on here and you need to read a few of these blogs to see what these ladies are saying. Maybe your asking to meet too soon, maybe your wanting to meet in the wrong place. There are a lot of things women concider a red flag that we don't think about as being such. There is a lot of men out there and on here as well that say they want forever but are not. Now, if you ask yourself these questions and see you are doing nothing wrong then you are on your own for I know not what I'm doing wrong either. Take your time, don't push remember a good woman is worth waiting for.---Tom

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Posted on Dec 02, 2007 at 06:05 PM

Heya Ok! I can say from experience that some of the people you meet online do not turn out to be the same person IRL. Whether these people deliberately try to mislead you or not is not important. The problem is you can find yourself in an uncomfortable, even unsafe, situation. It is very hard to establish trust through the medium of the internet. There are so many ways to cheat the system. Also, women might get scared, especially if they haven't dated for a while. This seems to be the common reason why a woman says "yes" and then backs out at the last minute. Dunno if that helps . . . Amy

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