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Posted on Sat, Oct 27, 2007 13:18

Ok, so my man and I were having a discussion last night that I wanted to talk to "the girls" about. It's going to get kinda graphic so please don't read any further if you are virginal. Ok, now that almost everyone is reading this lmao here's the question: When receiving cunnilingus, do you like constant stimulation of the clitoris? Like, when about to achieve the "O", is it attack at all cost with no stops to the little ball of nerves? I ask because I am not this way, I prefer no direct contact to that area - and it's much easier for me to climax with just slight clitoral stimulation here and there. An all-out affront really just annoys me. Am I really so different than other women?


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Posted on Fri, Nov 16, 2007 02:28

Kewanna I'm so sorry for your husbands lack of oral technique.I always felt that if I enjoy receiving oral gratification,which I most certainly do,then I should be able to give as good as I get if not better.As for lessons in this area my current situation would not allow me to spread my knowledge or experience to the wanting masses !! But I do wish you luck with getting what you desire. Now as for you miss Honeybiscuit I don't believe for a second that you don't get what you desire whenever you want it. we know you have your pack of willing men at your beck and call just waiting for the word from you to run over and do as you instruct them to do !! You wouldn't have it any other way,lol


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Posted on Thu, Nov 15, 2007 19:53

Re: Thunderheart44 write: Don't know if your looking for male input here but your going to get it anyway !! lol. I happen to like a woman who provides a verbal road map "if you will" about what kind of attack she prefers.I have found that light teasing of the "C" mixed in and out with intermittent fingers,followed by a more intense attack of the "C" and then depending on her response,let the teasing begin.It seems a varied attack where the lady doesn't know whats coming next seems to blow all the right pleasure areas of her mind.And I always like to lightly blow on the "C" to feel her shudder when the screaming is done,whew I think I need a smoke !! lol

dang thunder - I need smoke and some batteries now. whew. Now I'm just plane pissed that I don't get that whenever I want - daily please. sigh


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Posted on Sat, Nov 10, 2007 17:40

All out frontal assault for me *wink* and add a bit of penetration and we're good to go. I am a 12 - 2 spot myself and also hitting the g-spot now and again or rosebud will do wonders as well. And I will usually let my partner know what is or isn't happening...if I'm still in a mental state to do so...*grin*


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Posted on Tue, Nov 06, 2007 03:31

Re: Thunderheart44 write: Don't know if your looking for male input here but your going to get it anyway !! lol. I happen to like a woman who provides a verbal road map "if you will" about what kind of attack she prefers.I have found that light teasing of the "C" mixed in and out with intermittent fingers,followed by a more intense attack of the "C" and then depending on her response,let the teasing begin.It seems a varied attack where the lady doesn't know whats coming next seems to blow all the right pleasure areas of her mind.And I always like to lightly blow on the "C" to feel her shudder when the screaming is done,whew I think I need a smoke !! lol

Do you give lessons sweetie? This is something my current hubby has NO clue how to do.... despite my attempts at trying to teach him. I told him I was going to have to find someone to come in and SHOW him how it's done correctly! LOL.... can't blame a girl for trying! Time to buy new batteries!


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Posted on Mon, Nov 05, 2007 15:43

Don't know if your looking for male input here but your going to get it anyway !! lol. I happen to like a woman who provides a verbal road map "if you will" about what kind of attack she prefers.I have found that light teasing of the "C" mixed in and out with intermittent fingers,followed by a more intense attack of the "C" and then depending on her response,let the teasing begin.It seems a varied attack where the lady doesn't know whats coming next seems to blow all the right pleasure areas of her mind.And I always like to lightly blow on the "C" to feel her shudder when the screaming is done,whew I think I need a smoke !! lol


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Posted on Sun, Oct 28, 2007 18:05

Awwww....shoot! Our "momma's" are looking all up in here??!! I can't tell you guys anything! (HAHAHAHAHAHA!)


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Posted on Sun, Oct 28, 2007 14:34

Blue's method is also what works for me. I get a gspot O that way and also with the method suggested by truefriend. When starting out petting etc...I can take and enjoy more direct stimulation but as I get more and more aroused the touch needs to be lighter and actually pressing aong the root at the sides are extremely pleasurable.I become very aware of the sesnsations and signs - kind of a muscle body memory thing.


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Posted on Sun, Oct 28, 2007 13:06

Last week during Monday Night Football my girlfriends and I were discussing this very topic. In our circle of friends it was a trend for our admirers to go straight to the bean and work it fast and furiously. But as women, that wasn't our preference, and we each had different favorite techniques.


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Posted on Sun, Oct 28, 2007 12:00

Those memory banks can not be accessed at this time. When you can count in decades the last time that has happened, I think I can say that just the mere thought might just possibly work!!! Well no it did not!!! lolololololol of course rather maniacally. This is on my wish list, my Christmas list, at the top of my list.......more maniacal laughter to follow.....Amuse me have a few O's for me now.... Qadesh


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Posted on Sat, Oct 27, 2007 21:40

Wow you got right to the point didn't you. LOL *looking around for my mother* I like it slow and gentle until it gets to the beginnings of the "O" then I like full on pressure. Nat, I'm with you. I've only had to fake the "O" during those times when the guy is trying to hold out until I have mine. Honestly I don't think they understand how much friction can hurt.


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Posted on Sat, Oct 27, 2007 20:54

Hi Amuse, Ok, I don't normally participate in conversations that are this "personal" but I am "busting out of my box" (comfort zone) so to speak. I require a lot of stimulation to reach the "O"...but once I'm there, I can usually have multiple "O's" thereafter. Do I always "get off" or expect it to always be mind-blowing? Definitely not but that's ok. Pleasure is not always about reaching the "O"...it's about what makes you and your partner happy. Sometimes reality is better than fantasy. So, the bottom line is that it doesn't matter how you prefer it....just make sure that you communicate your wants and needs with your partner. And it sounds like you're already doing that so keep up the good work and all will be fine. Melissa


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Posted on Sat, Oct 27, 2007 19:13

I agree with all said, but have a little more to add. I do not like it when the man continues until the "great "o" is achieved b/c I tend to lose interest in the process when my needs have been fulfilled in that particular manner; it's an intense sort of stimulation. I would much more prefer a lingering, gentle probing, touching, gliding- type sensation, building up to a "move" to penetration. For me, when "it" is achieved in the more "traditional" sense, I have a great deal more pleasure and stamina/or "staying power", so to speak, and since it is not so intense, I don't feel "overwhelmed". That "all-points-bulletin" to the "errogenous zone" is a direct barrage to the senses, and to me, should be saved for when the male partner wants to just please me. I'm a touchy- feely person up to a point; once I've been tapped out, I don't really want anyone all over me-- I prefer to "bask in the afterglow". Quietly, with closeness, but not necessarily "all-over-me-ness". I am like that at all times, not just during s*x. I have my limits, and when I've just given too much, I'm VERY grumpy until I've had some me/down time. At least, I'm true to form! (ha ha)


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Posted on Sat, Oct 27, 2007 17:43

I'm with your man on this one... I like it to be really attacked... just go after it! makes me go crazy!!! The *flicking* doesn't do anything for me really... I want to he's gotten ahold of it... LOL


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Posted on Sat, Oct 27, 2007 16:37

Just depends how sensitive and how close I am but I would say that I am similar in your choice of working around the area cause sometimes I can barely stand the sensation - guess I prefer the slow teasing approach rather than git it done. Don't necessarily need the big "O" everytime - playtime is always a great feeling.


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Posted on Sat, Oct 27, 2007 16:17

Hi AmuseMe, I find I'm very sensitive there after some petting and foreplay. I honestly like a gentler approach to delicate nerve endings. I do enjoy the oral aspect of a sexual encounter, giving and taking though. My issue, over the past few encounters, has been when the guy makes my orgasm an act of triumph. I have found that some men feel they MUST bring me to that climax before they climax. I tend to feel that they over do the efforts. I say LET IT HAPPEN ! Lets not focus on anything but enjoying the sensations of our love making, relax and let nature take it's course. Sometimes I climax and sometimes I don't, not a biggie, when I MUST for sure I'll ask or help myself. ;-) Nat32132 Re: AmuseMe write: Ok, so my man and I were having a discussion last night that I wanted to talk to "the girls" about. It's going to get kinda graphic so please don't read any further if you are virginal. Ok, now that almost everyone is reading this lmao here's the question: When receiving cunnilingus, do you like constant stimulation of the clitoris? Like, when about to achieve the "O", is it attack at all cost with no stops to the little ball of nerves? I ask because I am not this way, I prefer no direct contact to that area - and it's much easier for me to climax with just slight clitoral stimulation here and there. An all-out affront really just annoys me. Am I really so different than other women?


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Posted on Sat, Oct 27, 2007 14:04

Direct but intermittent "c" contact combined with penetration (toys are ok but I prefer oral and digital) is what really floats my boat. But hey! That's just me. ;)


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