Quoting StarEnight:

I've been kind of hell bent on making it without a man. Mostly because I don't have one and I want to prove something to myself. When I got divorced I had never worked a day in my life and I was utterly devistated. He had taken total care of me and I was completly lost once he was gone. I don't want to be that woman again. Actually I don't think it's possible. I've grown too much. It would be nice though not to have to do everything on my own. It's a nice feeling when it feels like a guy is a little protective of me. I want that. I've just been doing this so long it's hard to step back and let someone else hop in the driver's seat so to speak...

I've been kind of hell bent on making it without a man. Mostly because I don't have one and I want to prove something to myself. When I got divorced I had never worked a day in my life and I was utterly devistated. He had taken total care of me and I was completly lost once he was gone. I don't want to be that woman again. Actually I don't think it's possible. I've grown too much. It would be nice though not to have to do everything on my own. It's a nice feeling when it feels like a guy is a little protective of me. I want that. I've just been doing this so long it's hard to step back and let someone else hop in the driver's seat so to speak...

Quoting sweeeetcountry:

I TOTAL UNDERSTAND I HAVE BEEN SINGLE FOR 3 YEARS AND IT WOULD BE NICE TO COME HOME AND NOT HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT ANYTHING JUST RELAX AND SHARE MY DAY WITH SOMEONE. SOMETIMES I JUST CANT LET THE DRIVER'S WHEEL GO TO ANYONE, I THINK IT A TRUST THING FOR ME. AND WHEN IT COMES TO MY MALE FRIENDS AND THEY WANT TO FIX SOMETHING FOR ME I FEEL UNEASY ABOUT ASKING, IM NOT SURE WHAT THAT IS ABOUT. ANYWAYS WANT WANTED TO ADD MY TWO PENNIES!

I TOTAL UNDERSTAND I HAVE BEEN SINGLE FOR 3 YEARS AND IT WOULD BE NICE TO COME HOME AND NOT HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT ANYTHING JUST RELAX AND SHARE MY DAY WITH SOMEONE. SOMETIMES I JUST CANT LET THE DRIVER'S WHEEL GO TO ANYONE, I THINK IT A TRUST THING FOR ME. AND WHEN IT COMES TO MY MALE FRIENDS AND THEY WANT TO FIX SOMETHING FOR ME I FEEL UNEASY ABOUT ASKING, IM NOT SURE WHAT THAT IS ABOUT. ANYWAYS WANT WANTED TO ADD MY TWO PENNIES!