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Posted on Sat, Aug 25, 2007 03:14

You know we all have Dreams of things that we want in our lives and the people that we want to share our lives with , but I wonder how these Dreams fare in the world of reality? For example My Dream Life is meeting the Woman of my dreams and making her happy . I would suck her toes , before massuaging her feet with Rose Water or Sandalwood Oil , before telling how much I Love her and asking her how she wants me to Please her . Of Course that will never happen in real Life as No Woman would ever think of Letting me do anything so Personal to her, and I would never wish to insult her by even suggesting such a thing to her , but then that`s the wonderful thing about Dreams , they are things that rarely come true but when they Do they very rarely Disappoint. It would be nice if it would happen but won`t . Anyway is there any body out there with any way out Dreams ? Bless you all Petersh55


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Posted on Fri, Sep 21, 2007 06:50

Hmm. Yes but then I must say that I`ve polished my Armour, put it on and ridden out to rescue the Beautiful Damsel a number of times before . Last year I sort of had one lured away by a cunning Old Wizard , and the year before I had one wander off into the deep beyond , So I`m beginning to wonder if it`s really worth all the effort and that I shouldn`t be so Greedy as to go for another , but then I could always change my mind ,but there again I may not bother . Bless You All Peter (Petersh55)


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Posted on Sun, Sep 16, 2007 09:28

Peter, I hope that you know that you are just getting back what you have put out: nothing. So you should feel successful in that. GOOD JOB!!


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Posted on Sun, Sep 16, 2007 04:59

Just a few words of Thanks to all you wonderful Bloggers out there for all your Comments and advice , However I must say that I do quite often feel guilty , about looking for another relationship as I have already had two really happy Marriages , and a couple or so other very pleasant relationships and feel that it would be Greedy of me to go for yet another relationship , The trouble is that we live in a World full of Beautiful Lonely Women and I feel like the Man with all the Keys and Codes to Fort Knox and an Invitation to help myself , but a nagging Conscience saying "Don`t Do It" Temptaion, Temption lol . Anyway Thanks again for All your Comments and Advice in gives me quite a lot to think about . Anyway Bless You All Peter (Petersh55)


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Posted on Sat, Sep 15, 2007 18:59

Heidy ho. I just have to put in my two cents here. Firstly, you are way off mark to think a woman would not appreciate personal attention. There are many that do and many that expect it. For me, it is expected from my partner if and when I so desire. I would agree with the commentary regarding perhaps you are not ready to make the "leap" seriously. It takes time and effort sometimes to find what it is you desire. But if you have already made the assumption that it cannot or will not happen, then you have, in some ways, already sealed your fate. When it comes down to it, in the long run, looks are meaningless. It is intelligence, the desire to please your woman, humor, wit, etc. that will last you well beyond the days of beauty and good looks.


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Posted on Sat, Sep 15, 2007 18:38

Well Peter. It appears you have decided a date or romance is not what you seek here. This is ok with the rest of us. We do welcome our blogging friends on this site. But then if that is your choice, you don't get to complain about loneliness or not getting any notice from the women here. Only those who are actually making an effort and taking that big risk get to do that. I've said it before and I'll say it again. With big risk can come great reward. Keep that in mind.


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Posted on Sat, Sep 15, 2007 17:48

Good job with the profile. :)


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Posted on Sat, Sep 15, 2007 15:55

I am hearing you putting up lots of obstacles. It appears you are not ready to date on some level.


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Posted on Sat, Sep 15, 2007 14:16

You keep banging on about not putting any effort in. Why do you expect women to bother to put the effort in if you don't? Come on fella, snap to it and get your picture up.


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Posted on Sat, Sep 15, 2007 13:10

Re: Petersh55 write: Hmm. As I said before I tried a photograph on a U.K. site and it wasn`t very successful and as it`s rather difficult to Post a Photograph on a non U.K. site I don`t think it would be worth the effort , also Looking in the mirror I can see that I am a bit of a Geoffrey Hughes lookalike . (Geoffrey Hughes plays the part of Vernon Scripts in the "Heart Beat" series and Onslow in Keeping up Appearences) so I don`t think that I would find a lot of takers . Anyway I think that I`m better off sticking to Blogging and leaving the Dating bit to the Handsome sorts . Bless You All and Thanks for the Nice Comments and suggestions I appreciate them all Peter (Petersh55)

I still think it is sad that you won't put yourself out there and see what happens here. I was on a couple of other sites but this site is where I found my true love. But it is up to you. And I am glad you are blogging, the more the merrier!


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Posted on Wed, Sep 12, 2007 04:40

Hmm. As I said before I tried a photograph on a U.K. site and it wasn`t very successful and as it`s rather difficult to Post a Photograph on a non U.K. site I don`t think it would be worth the effort , also Looking in the mirror I can see that I am a bit of a Geoffrey Hughes lookalike . (Geoffrey Hughes plays the part of Vernon Scripts in the "Heart Beat" series and Onslow in Keeping up Appearences) so I don`t think that I would find a lot of takers . Anyway I think that I`m better off sticking to Blogging and leaving the Dating bit to the Handsome sorts . Bless You All and Thanks for the Nice Comments and suggestions I appreciate them all Peter (Petersh55)


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Posted on Tue, Sep 11, 2007 02:40

I never had any luck on other sites before. Don't be so defeatist. You've got to take a gamble with this okay? It will work but you've really got to improve that 'tood'.


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Posted on Mon, Sep 10, 2007 20:17

I looked at your profile. Good job on describing yourself a little. It gives an insight into who you are. But I still think you need to go out on a line and post a photo. Just try it and see what happens. I think you would be surprised. Good job with the putting more in your profile!


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Posted on Mon, Sep 10, 2007 08:53

I see several things going on here. old saying:"Faint heart, nere one fair maiden" I think this might be appropriate here, don't ask me what it means but I sense that it's so. You also said you cast your bait in lake michigan and came up dry so this wouldn't be any better. If you want to catch fish, go where the fish are alive. YOU DON'T HAVE IT BECAUSE YOU ARE TERRIFIED. (I'll tell you a secret, don't tell this to any one else. EVERYONE IS TERRIFIED!) SHE IS AS TERRIFIED OF YOU AS YOU ARE OF HER. part 2 someone has to take command of the date. part 3, date starts here, and now.


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Posted on Mon, Sep 10, 2007 04:45

Well I`ve filled in a few more details in my profile and amended some of the details that they seem to have got wrong about me , but I`m not putting a photograph on , as I said on my previous Posting , it hasn`t worked on other websites ,so it obviously ain`t going to work on this one either , but Thanks for mentioning about the completion of the Profile Anyway . Bless You All Peter. (Petersh55)


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Posted on Sat, Sep 08, 2007 05:41

You'd be surprised how many women AREN'T looking for tall dark and handsome. There a lots of women who want exactly what you profess to be - a normal guy. Take the advice you've been given by the others. Rev up your profile with more info about who you are and who you are looking for. Be specific. Show a little bit of your personality. Add a photo. Then wink at anyone you might find interesting. And get off the pitty pot Peter. Because, believe it or not whininess and self-pity are not attractive to women. I don't mean to offend...just telling it like it is.


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Posted on Sat, Sep 08, 2007 05:13

Ok, so I'm going to give a little tough love here (or at least as close as I can get since I don't know you). 1. How can you expect the women on this sight to "fall over themselves" to get in touch with you" if you don't tell them anything about yourself on your profile (except the basics)? Your profile almost always makes the first impression. Honestly, I go by men that don't have anything on their profile (nothing personal). It doesn't mean they're not good men, I just think that they obviously didn't want to take the time to say something about themselves...what makes me think they'll take the time to get to know me? 2. If you don't think it's worth your while then you should just stop looking and be happy with what you've got. You can't expect to find your dream girl with that attitude. As Wyld says, you attract what you project. Ok, I'm off my soapbox now. Really, you need to change the attitude and consider adding some info to your profile...that'll at least help and get you started in the right direction. I wish you the best of luck.


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Posted on Sat, Sep 08, 2007 02:57

Hmm I`ve already got a photograph on another dating site (Russell Grant) and that has not yelded any results so I don`t think putting one on this site will get me anywhere , and the question of putting in a fuller profile would only rule out a greater amount of potentual partners . Anyway I`m really enjoying Blogging so I don`t know if Dating is really important anymore . It is really nice to be able to share things with other people and help them whenever they have a poblem that they need help with . Anyway Bless you all Peter (Petersh55)


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Posted on Thu, Sep 06, 2007 11:53

Re: Petersh55 write: If there is really someone out there that meets the criteria why have they not been falling over themselves to get in touch with me?. Think about it . Bless you all Petersh55

I think this still goes back to that your profile isn't complete. A person viewing it has no idea what you want or what you are like. There isn't anything to catch your eye since there are no descriptions and no photo. I know I personally do not pay attention to profiles with no photos because I feel they are hiding something. It is hard to put up a photo, I know that. I didn't have one at first and finally when I put one up I got a few winks. You also have to send out winks/emails. Not all women browse profiles. It takes some work on sites like this to get the attention you want. I think you are doing well by blogging, I think that helps alot but the best thing you could do is fill out your profile. Don't give up, I was about ready to several times and now I am talking to someone special and really glad I didn't give up. Good luck and I hope it all works out for you.


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Posted on Thu, Sep 06, 2007 08:27

aww bless, not into toe sucking but could do with a damn good massage xx


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