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Posted on Jul 31, 2007 at 09:35 AM

Does anyone else have the problem of someone answering your ad, writing to you a couple of times, and then...........nothing. I'm quickly getting to the point where I don't even want to answer back anymore or get interested in anyone just to have it go pfffft!

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Posted on Aug 09, 2007 at 11:35 AM

See, this is why I ignore winks. If you want to talk to me, do it in a blog. Let me get to know you there, let me see if you are going to stick aroud, see if you are serious. Then I'll talk to you.


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser
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Posted on Aug 08, 2007 at 07:01 PM

Both. I'm not currently a member so I will send a wink if I find someone interesting. But I enjoy being winked at also.

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Posted on Aug 08, 2007 at 04:54 PM

Do you take the first step? or do you let the guy make first contact? Nat Re: staceynkansas write: This happens to me at times. It can be frustrating and I am always curious what happened but you just have to go on and find that one that you enjoy communicating with and that will communicate back.

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Posted on Aug 05, 2007 at 05:31 PM

I have had the ones that you email back and forth and couple of times and maybe even talk on the phone once and you never hear anything but this one puzzles me. This guy called me 3 or 4 times a day for a week. We had long 3 hours conversations and short little 5 minute phone calls just to say I was thinking of you. Then all of a sudden nothing. Didn't return any of my phone messages or emails. You kind of wonder if he dropped off the face of the earth or something.

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Posted on Aug 01, 2007 at 08:14 PM

Re: lulubelle57 write: Thanks Wyldechild you made me laugh at a very frustrating phenonenom. Glad I'm not alone.

Nope, you are definitely not alone. Happens to all, no matter their gender, sexual proclivity, relationship desire, etc. I have to admit, I've done it myself a time or two...shame on me!!! LOL

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Posted on Aug 01, 2007 at 03:43 AM

Yes, I've had that happen to me. It's the pits - some people are sooo rude SAD!!! Natalie Re: lulubelle57 write: Does anyone else have the problem of someone answering your ad, writing to you a couple of times, and then...........nothing. I'm quickly getting to the point where I don't even want to answer back anymore or get interested in anyone just to have it go pfffft!

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Posted on Jul 31, 2007 at 10:13 PM

Thanks Wyldechild you made me laugh at a very frustrating phenonenom. Glad I'm not alone.

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Posted on Jul 31, 2007 at 07:37 PM

It's actually quite common. There are a few other blogs people have written regarding the poofers (as HoneyBiscuit has so kindly informed us is what they are...LOL) Just hang in there, remember that the percentage of people you can encounter online is significantly higher than in person so the odds there will be idiots is significantly higher as well...LOL

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Posted on Jul 31, 2007 at 06:40 PM

This happens to me at times. It can be frustrating and I am always curious what happened but you just have to go on and find that one that you enjoy communicating with and that will communicate back.

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