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paintbrenda
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Posted on Sun, Jul 29, 2007 23:32

I am one of the most giving,sincere people out there with a huge heart and personality but we never seem to get appreciated by the opposite sex. Why??????? I never had a really good relationship with a male. I am so giving and usually don't anger and give more than I receive. So tell me why I can't find anyone to appreciate a really nice southern girl with southern values? I would really like to know.

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Posted on Mon, Jul 30, 2007 09:56

Frankly, I think the meaner and self-centered you are the more you attract the opposite sex (going both ways). Good guys and gals never finish not last or anything else. For some reason kindness is always taken as a weakness and I'm sure you're seen as very weak as am I. I've even tried to be mean, rude and nasty like others that have people dropping at their feet and all I get is, "Hey that's not really you." and it's not. So you'll be damned if you do and damned if you don't. I hope they don't edit out the word d*mned...LOL


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Posted on Mon, Jul 30, 2007 05:40

Hi Brenda , In an earlier blog I asked ,Why do Women so often choose abusive ,rather than kind consideration ones . As I think that I mentioned before there are quite a few caring Men out there it just seem to be that you seem to choose the wrong ones . Perhaps it`s the fact that your path doesn`t seem to cross the right ones , or maybe it`s just the you are looking in the wrong places . I`m sure that there are plenty of nice Men out there in your part of Southern England who would be only to make you really and truely Happy . Bless you (Petersh55)


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Posted on Mon, Jul 30, 2007 01:37

It works both ways. It's not just men who are like this.


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