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Petersh55
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Posted on Sun, Jul 22, 2007 05:28

As the Blog title says it takes two to establish that special relationship, which means that both people need to think about how they behave towards the other . We all need to understand that the other person has feelings too , so if your partner does something that you really enjoy then thank them and praise their consideration . If a Partner is a little disappointing in bed please be patient with them , and remember some Men don`t have all that much experience or are a bit rusty when it comes to Pleasing Women , but a little patience and sympathy does bring it`s rewards . Both Partners need to exercise a lot of Love so Good Luck to you all (Petersh55)


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wyldechild
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Posted on Sun, Jul 29, 2007 21:01

I believe in praising another. For the habitual day to day I won't typically say something for each task but sometimes for the overall, I will. Although sometimes I forget, I get so caught up in so many things sometimes I'm almost on another planet...LOL and then they get insulted because they feel I've "ignored" or forgotten them. Most definitely for something special or above and beyond. I do always try to let people know that I appreciate them for who they are too. And I do say thank you in general. I suppose that comes from my parents teaching me good manners...LOL Sexual prowess can be learned. If a lover is willing to learn, then I am willing to teach. I had to learn what I liked. I always like to learn more. So, having a partner to share that realm is definitely a plus. Besides, having the ability to train someone in what you desire is really the only way to go.


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Posted on Sat, Jul 28, 2007 11:09

This is something I definitely try to do. Be appreciative. But when it is not very good - and you discover that upon opening the door to a conversation in which I can let him know how to please me but he is not able to - for whatever reason be it fear, ego, cluelessness - to partake in such a conversation then I may be patient one or two more times to give the benefit of a doubt and if things are still not clicking and comunication is not flowing then I know that I need to move along - I know that it is not a good match for either of us and that by sticking around I am doing neither of us any favors - just making the inevitable more complicated. So being confident but also being willing to listen to your woman if she is willing to tell you how to pleasure her, pay attention to the way she responds, or get creative, or bring some toys to the bedroom (and I mean ones she would enjoy you using on her ie. vibrating things), or god forbid actually doing some research on how to please women.... There are some amazing books and videos out there that are very not porn but very instructional. It amazes me how some men think that just because they have a p*n*s that they can pleasure a woman, or just because they have heard some where what to do that that will work for every woman - and then maybe some just don't care. I had a guy recently act jealous of my vibrator - he called it my BOB - battery operated boyfriend. Guys, vibrators are a godsend but can in noway compare to the real thing. And I am talking beyond just an anatomical feature but your incredibly sexy minds, hands, tongues, smell, chest, butt...your whole package - a piece of vibrating rubber can't replace yall - un uh no way - yall are much much more satisfying when it is all clicking. Now a man confident enough to bring "BOB" in to some play and suprise me - well damn - he would be a solid keeper and I would so make it worth his while.


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