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Posted on Sun, Jul 22, 2007 04:15

Reading through a few of the Blogs recently it seems such a shame that so many of them express so much anger and bitterness about the behaviour of a lot of Men . Whether it`s due to thoughtlessness or sheer arogance makes no difference it`s still unacceptable . What they need torealise is that such behaviour does nobody any favours , and they need to try the following . 1) Keep everything friendly and relaxed . 2) Leave the pace of things to the Woman to determine, as she knows what she is comfortable with . If you are patient to wait then believe me it`s going to be well worth the wait . 3) When she decides to take you to bed ,remember to pleasure her with your fingers first raising her to the heights of ecstasy at least 7 times , Because if sex doesn`t go as well you hoped ,at least you will have given her some pleasure and she will hopefully be sympathetic to your disappointment . 40 After the Love making has ended Cuddle her , kiss her ,and tell her that you Love her . Remember never ever tell aWoman that you Love her unless you really do Love her . Because if you don`t Love her You should never go to bed with her . (Petersh55)


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Posted on Tue, Jul 24, 2007 05:49

Hi Natalie , Yes I do agree that "love making is a mutual attention giving activity" but I must say that all that I said was said from the point of view of an Individual Man Musing on a Topic that just happened to be going around my head at the time . I also agree that some Women need more time to get up to speed which is why I said the Individual Woman needs to control the speed of the whole Relationship and why I recommended that a Man needs to take her to "The Heights of Ecstasy" at least seven times . Anyway Thank You for reading and Commenting on my Musings I really enjoyed hearing your views .Thanks again Peter (Petersh55)


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Posted on Tue, Jul 24, 2007 05:18

Hi Bluegirl2006 Thanks for reading my musings , Yes I suppose that I am rather old fashioned , but then I believe that if you treat a Woman properly she will never disappoint you . Unfortunately I have witnessed Women being abused so many times , and spent so much time listening to their Tales of woe that I tend to believe that Love and Respect for a Woman need to come first , and the Peace of Mind of Woman has to come next , then sex can join the equation . I Loved both of my Wives and they both Loved me with Passion but then since they passed on I have had to Learn to adapt to Life alone so that is why I tend to be a little more reflective now


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Posted on Tue, Jul 24, 2007 04:42

Well to Marinyshka I must say . I live in Beccles ,Suffolk in England (U.K) I am a Widower (for the second time ) and I suppose I`m simply waiting to find the perfect Woman to share the next 50 odd years with . Anyway Thank you for taking the time to view my musings and giing your comments . (Petersh55)


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Posted on Mon, Jul 23, 2007 15:20

HI Petersh55 I agree with some of what you said here. However, I feel that love making is a mutual attention giving activity. You get a little, you give a little, you mutually caress each other, purr, move your partners hands where you'd like them, especially in the discovery stages no one can read your mind. I also want to add that some women need more time to get up to speed. While he might have been planning a loving adventure, she was creating shopping lists. Her body is not reacting to the love making as quickly as you might like. As I have aged, it also takes me longer to achieve enough natural lubrication, you're right take your time with women. Nothing worse than finding out you're injured in the delicate areas of your body, a major turn off. Kiss, cuddle and caress each other for a while first, both of you will appreciate the moment much more. Men need some attention through caressing also. Thanks for the forum Peter Nat32132


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