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Posted on Thu, Apr 26, 2007 19:07

Okay, in my profile I clearly state I have a boyfriend and that I am on here reading the blogs and such. I have no problem with meeting new people, but I am not interested in sexual conversations or starting a new relationship. I chat with men and women. When I get an email from a man, I make sure he understands up front, NO sexual overtones because I am not interested. Even when I was looking that is just a big turn off to me. One guy apparently got offended and told me I need to remove my profile because it is misleading! Having a profile on this site makes men think I am interested in a sexual relationship. I told him NO it doesn't and if he had bothered to READ my profile he would have known this. My question is this; do people NOT understand that this is not only a dating site, but a LargeFRIEND site as well? Okay, I'm done venting now... I feel so much better.

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Posted on Fri, Apr 27, 2007 19:35

Carmel, I understand completely where you are coming from. I have actually hidden my profile, despite the fact that I changed it to reflect my current status. However, it would seem to me (according to my many "wonderful" experiences) that a great majority of the men who are looking for fun, do not move past the pics when checking out a profile. They just see what they like and go for it... Also, despite the fact that the name of this site is "LargeFriends", it is also billed as the "best and largest DATING site in the world...". And I think that probably 95% of the individuals on this site are here for just that...DATING!

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