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dasani69
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Posted on Tue, Feb 06, 2007 08:57

Ok ladies..I have done everything a real man is supposed to do..Gone out of my way on many occasions..and still nothing..Just what are you women looking for? I don't try to put on airs..am very respectful..very passionate..was raised to treat women like the Queens they are! This is what I live by.I've seen my father do it ..my grandfather do it as well..Do little small things..just to show them that they are loved and respected.Yet In still..nothing..I don't ask for much..maybe a little affection.thats all..So ladies I need some input..If their is something I'm doing wrong..or not doing..Please let me know..I know it's hard trying to find the right one..but can I at least get my foot in the door?...Thank you for your responces!


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Posted on Thu, Feb 22, 2007 20:00

thanks for the clarification, but on here ti's really that hard to assume. Well, I guess you know what they say about assumming :). anyway sorry for assuming.


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Posted on Wed, Feb 14, 2007 12:25

I looked over your profile also, seems nothing there that would initially turn anyone off. Good luck in your search. If you want to meet a wonderful group of bbw's, come to Orlando to the BBW Partyhouse, we have a dance every Friday night. It's always fun!


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Posted on Tue, Feb 13, 2007 23:52

Hello Dansani. I don't see anything wrong with your profile or description of yourself to turn women off. Perhaps you are seeking women on this site who read your profile and feel because you describe yourself as "hot" and are seeking a woman who is curvy or smaller that you would not accept them if they are larger, as they are, so they don't respond. You don't elaborate on how far you are getting before women seem to be not interested in you. Good luck!


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Posted on Fri, Feb 09, 2007 11:29

I thank you for your responces and I would like to say to lovelylady..what does my name have anything to do with sex? My middle name happens to be Dasani and one of my cars happends to be a mint condition 69 mustang ...hmmm anr your mind is where? just kidding anyway..I really don't have any expectations when it comes to women..I accept people for who they are and how they treat me.. jjiggl, I thank you very much on the complements you gave me.Your words are truly inspiring.I must say though..I didn't state that i don't date black women! I see no color..I seek ones heart.a kind gentle soul.It doesn't matter what race creed or color they may be.And although i haven't gooten any answers from the dating service as of yet...all hope is not lost Ill just keep trying..thanks again all!


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Posted on Wed, Feb 07, 2007 20:28

maybe your name is preventing women seeking a more serious type of a relationship from responding.Personally, I tend to stay away from those that tend to indicate sexual intention. Just a thought.


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Posted on Wed, Feb 07, 2007 14:52

I don't know what you are doing to turn off the women that you are contacting or dating, but I will honestly tell you that as a Black woman, I find it disheartening that a Black man states that he prefers to date any woman as long as she is not Black. Perhaps the mindset behind your preference has something to do with why you are having trouble finding a woman who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with her. (Whatever that means.) The fact that you are alone is very curious to me, though. Reading your profile makes me wonder why you don't have anyone. It makes me even wonder why you don't have several women beating down your door. You are tall, large framed, deep cocoa color, a Scorpio (which for some reason, many of my friends seem to think is a "plus"), attractive, educated and just the right age to date most women on this site. Hmmm...you got me on that one there. I would think that if you couldn't get a date, then most of us here should just throw in the towel. Perhaps Amuseme is correct. You are looking for what you need in the wrong places. Maybe you should ask those that you have pursued why you aren't having any luck. As an outsider who does not know you, I cannot understand why an attractive man like yourself is alone. I guess stranger things have happened. Good luck in your search.


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Posted on Tue, Feb 06, 2007 23:23

Perhaps you should reconsider the type of woman you are trying to have relationships with? Maybe if you seek a different calibur of woman you will find one - or more - that better suits your needs/want/desires... just a suggestion. :-)


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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