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Posted on Sun, Nov 26, 2006 08:50

I felt compelled to write this blog, because I think there are a few people on this website who do not fully appreciate the variety of functions this site provides. Clearly there are people like me who know specifically what they want like a life partner, and there are those that are transparent about their needs to get laid and don't care with whom and whatever. But this site is also an opportunity to create a community of people who are BBWs BHMs and FAs to become friends too. There are people on this website who participate on it even though they have a partner because they want to share their thoughts with people from this community and make friends with like minded people. I have made three very good friends on this site, which I wasn't expecting to do and had an awful dating experience with a guy on this site. There are some guys on here that are FAs and are totally genuine about their liking of larger ladies and quite frankly some of them are very handsome indeed. Please don't hate them for participating on this site because they genuinely love us BBWs. One of my friends has received hate mail on this site saying that he doesn't belong and has told me he is going to leave. I'm very disappointed to hear that he has been treated in this way. Whomever ever has done this I hope you feel thoroughly ashamed of yourself/ yourselves. To show my defiance to the Haters on here and to set a positive example I will remain friends with him even if he leaves and its your loss for not getting to know him. Haters get with the programme!


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Posted on Tue, Dec 12, 2006 05:58

German food hey? I dated a German guy, he couldn't cook though but he loved German Bread, i tried it and i liked it but you have to have it with unsalted butter though because they put more salt in their bread. And the last time he stayed at mine he left some of his expensive smelly cheese. It was nice I ate it. I was naughty on Sunday anyway Bitterman. My brother was visiting and I took him to my friend's patisserie and we bought two chicken and mushroom pies (individual ones) my bro bought an apple pie and I had an almond croissant! My friends' pastries and gateaux are amazing. He used to be the pastry chef at the London Savoy Hotel. I could go there everyday but I'd be huge after a while and never be able to leave the house because I'd be so fat I wouldn't be able to get through the door. I have been told s*x is the best form of exercise. I looked in the mirror and thought hmmmm well I defintely ain't been getting any! No offers please guys though don't need them and don't want to know if you want to either - sometimes too much information ..... I was just making conversation. I can get "it" if I want "it". Just picky that's all.


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Posted on Sun, Dec 10, 2006 14:15

Well you see Bitterman last year (2005) slipped my disc and I was out of action I was already obese and it didn't help my recovery. I'm allowed to train but I'm restricted during that time I have been battling against putting on more weight. I need to lose 28lbs in the next couple of months to assist but no worries I'll still be a BBW cos I'll stil weigh over 200lbs at my height of 5' 6. I had an indian on Saturday my brother came to visit me and we went to my favourite indian restaurant for dinner. It was good stuff and I say that being of Indian origin. Basically I don't also want to have to buy an entire new wardrobe of clothing it is so hard to get good BBW clothes in the UK as it is.


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Posted on Mon, Dec 04, 2006 15:16

Bitterman, sorry I didn't reply sooner but I had to go away for a few days. Yes you are right as feisty as I am I am soft and squidgy inside with the heart of a tree hugger (i did in fact once obtain an injunction to protect a tree)! I am by nature justice orientated, I don't like it when people get picked on, I always fight for the underdog and detest unfairness. If I had my way.... well i need to just get off my soap box really. I was happy until I had to start this diet! Pesky doctors! I yearn for a big roast chicken, potatoes, battered fish with chunky chips, fresh cream scones, chocolate eclairs, big chicken masala curry, garlic naan, sniff...


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Posted on Sun, Dec 03, 2006 18:07

Oh my I didn't realize there were "friends" police saying who should be here and who should not. I also hope most of the nice guys I chat with aren't just wh@@e mongers.Even if they are cute and not "large". why don't these haters post their views for all of us to read? 33


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Posted on Sat, Dec 02, 2006 05:58

Some people just don't listen! Whomever is sending hate mail to my friend for being on this site. I am disgusted by your behaviour. this is a site for people who prefer the larger figure male and female. It should not matter what size and shape you are, if someone wants to participate in this community let them, if you don't like them avoid them. And all you Haters remember that Karma has a funny way of rearing its head. Treat people the way you would want to be treated. (shakes her head in bitter disgust)


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Posted on Tue, Nov 28, 2006 04:30

bestkeptsecret I totally agree with you. We are BBWs, BHM, and FAs. HELLO!! BBW means BIG BEAUTIFUL WOMEN and if that's not your preference then I know you are on the wrong site. I haven't been a member for very long but I think this is a nice site. It's sad that people have to hate because of a person's size because beauty comes from the inside.


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Posted on Mon, Nov 27, 2006 23:59

I don't know loco4u, whitetigger and kewnnap I was just really surprised by it because it was the last thing I was expecting from the BBW/BHM and FA community. We who suffer discrimination in so many ways in the real world and then to discriminate against people on here knowing how it feels to be discriminated against, I am just disappointed. I'm glad you have supported my blog. And Tiggy if you love my stories you may be interested to read my latest Raving Roomies update which hopefully will be approved by the time my comment on this is!


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Posted on Mon, Nov 27, 2006 20:54

you know i have read a lot of your post and find myself laughing at most you seem to be a sweet person but i just have to comment here you are so right about haters not all of us men are here just to get some there are some of us how really just love a BBW woman and not that is not big beautiful breast sorry read that on another post by someone eles i ahve always dated BBW i find them more sweeter,kinder and more loving yes there are men who think BBW's are desperate but you ladies are no where near that i can only hope that some of you ladies can see some of us true men for who were are and not society says we are


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Posted on Mon, Nov 27, 2006 15:25

im sorry to hear that on this site there are haters.Well personally i think that those who hate feel threatened by the reality that there are people like myself who live to love bbws. Maybe those haters are among those few that think and see bbws as easy lays.Tell your friend not to leave tell him to stand strong to his beliefs.If he loves bbws tell him to love them and love them right.


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Posted on Mon, Nov 27, 2006 07:51

I totally agree with you bestkeptsecret. I was told by someone on this site that I didn't belong here anymore because I am now married. Well, I have been on this site for almost 2 years and had met a lot of wonderful geniune men and had quite a few very nice dates with them. I met my husband on here and I decided to stay because I enjoy the forums and the blogs and all the wonderful friends I have made in the past two years. I changed my profile and it clearly indicates I am not looking for anything more than friends and penpals. I had requested my profile be deleted and was going to leave because of what this person said but then I read your blog and reactivated my account. I have every right to be here looking for Friends as anyone else! Well, I just want all of you single women out there to know that this site can work but you have to be patient and be willing to go after what you want.... even if that means you join for a month or two. It is a great investment!


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