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Posted on Wed, Sep 27, 2006 07:47

Ok, so I have this topic in the forum too but I wanted to make shure I got as many people replying to this one as possable cause I don't understand why someone would do this... Why is it that when you found someone and you agree to exclusivity that quite a number of people feel that it is the perfect time to state their feelings about you? Even though they know your taken? Your standing their red faced wondering what you can possibly say after they had embarrassed themselves that way and thinking Why now? Why after all this time? Is this necessary for you to do? Do you really feel better about the situation now that you said what is on your mind. I have had a few guys declare themselves after finding out I had a boyfriend. Some of the guys I was OK with, it was a bit embarrassing on both our parts but they are still my friends... others just annoyed me and grossed me out. Here is a hint people... saying something after the fact isn't going to change things in your favor. Its just going to cause strain on whatever kind of relationship you have with this person in the first place. Oh and if a certain person reads this and recognizes the situation I'm talking about... your still my friend, I just wasn't sure what to say to you to make you feel better. My problem is with another guy or 2, or 3, or 4, or ect...


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Posted on Fri, Sep 29, 2006 17:27

Curvy, now that you are in a loving relationship, more men are attracted to you because you are probably glowing, and bubbling over with a positive glow. Being in love gives one more confidence and your new confidence is what is attracting these men. For the one's who knew you or saw you before but never wanted to date you when you were available, isn't it a good feeling that you can now say (to yourself, of course)"Sorry, bud, but it's your loss". Go ahead girl, and gloat! You deserve it!!


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Posted on Fri, Sep 29, 2006 05:23

Im kidding about the 3 or 4 or more thing its only two but if their are two then who knows how many are just keeping quiet about it... It confuses me, when Im compleatly without some one no one acts like they want me but as soon as Im taken its confession time.


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