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Posted on Tue, Sep 05, 2006 17:17

Never mind my last blog It was stuppid... I Have you ever meet a person that was perfect for you? Where every thing just feel in to place and when you see him or are around him you feel like your home? I have just meet that person. We even have had that marraige, kids, mutual vacation talk that usually would have me looking at a guy blankly in fear... With him it was diffrent, not only could I see it but I beleived it will happen and that it was my future...Oh no... in fact I imidiatly text my friend afterward wondering if the marrige plans and haveing a month picked out ment that I was semi ingaged... she seid yes... Hes driving me nuts... this is to fast but it feals so natural... I am going to take my time though... I will insist on a year or two before the wedding so I can pay off bills and so we can be shure but Im meating his family on our second date...AHHH! What if they dont like me? He seid they will love me but still...and afterward Im introducing him to my parents. This is CRAZY! Also I have noticed we both are talking about our life and future like a couple... its like we fell into a old comfortable relationship... Im happy though. He makes me laugh and he wants to take care of me... although I aready made it clear Im an expencive girl so it might be best that I take care of most of my own expences so he isnt always broke.


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Posted on Tue, Sep 12, 2006 08:33

Kewannap its like I have said in other postings... Instant liking, desire, and more... if you work hard and try to get to know each other as well as possible infatuation at first site can lead to a love that is life long. Yes it was instantaneous but it is a realization that their can be something deeper. Like finding the vain of an ore in a mine... it might be hard to extract, it might take time and hard work, but if its real you have to chance that it might run deep. Yes heart break might be in the future but you don't strike it rich if you don't pick up a shovel or pickax. Even if I hadn't desired him as a man i would still want him as a friend. Anyways even years together with someone doesn't guaranty that you actually know them well so all you can do is hope that your assessment of them is correct and put your faith in whatever higher power you believe that you will make it through and find in the end that the love you have is true.


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Posted on Fri, Sep 08, 2006 22:11

I agree jewles - I hope I am wrong.


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Posted on Fri, Sep 08, 2006 14:46

CurvyTigress.... don't let anyone tell you that you are wrong to have the deep feelings you are already experiencing. It doesn't matter how long you have known him. What matters is that you feel that connection. When you meet "the one" you just know it. There are a lot of people in the world and especially on this site who do not believe in love at first sight or whatever you want to call it. But I can tell you from experience it does happen... it happened to me 4 months ago. I met my fiance on this site the day I was deleting my profile. I saw him log on and something told me to wink at him. He IM'd me and we talked for a few minutes and then he gave me his phone # because he would never ask a woman for her # (what a gentleman!) We started talking on the phone and it felt so right. We immediately set up a date and I am telling you... we both knew immediately that we are "the one" for each other. We were engaged a month later and are getting married Oct 7th. His family and my family had their concerns, but once they spent time with us together... they knew it too. So don't let anyone try to rob you of your joy right now. This is a person who is known to your friends so it is not like he is a total stranger. Go for it... be happy!!!! Congratulations sweetie!


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Posted on Thu, Sep 07, 2006 09:15

Oh Hes from St.Louis and our blind/double date turned into a 12-13 hour long date cause no one wanted it to end.


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Posted on Thu, Sep 07, 2006 09:01

I know that he's the eldest of three... the other 2 being his sisters. I know that he argues with his best friend like they are blood brothers (and that his best friend is his sisters exhusband who happens to be dating my best friend). I know that he is a geak/nerd who loves stuff like startreck... he has had only 2 long term girls before me and they didn't date and that they used him to a certain extent (his friend openly seid they dont count as girl friends and that their... well I cant say the word he used but you get the point)I know that he wants to provide for and spoil his special woman cause he feals that a real man should treat a woman with respect and show her affection. I know he wants to have 3 kids, have a june wedding outdoors with the brides choice of church, and prefers the name Aicelin for a girl. I know that he was in the millitary and he liked it when he lived in japan for a year and that he use to go to the japanise bars and sing karoki. I know that he laughs at himself when something emberising happens to him instead of pouting. I know that he has a big brother complex (protective and thinks he knows everything) cause of how he ripromands and teases his best friend over his behavior. I know he knows hes not attractive... he openly seid hes ugly to a certain extent but he still has enough confidence to talk to me and honestly think that I want him (wich I do). I know he loves to cuddle and that hes respectful of bounderys...(my friend seid hes submissive, I kind of have to agree to a certain point). I know he takes things in stride. He is as dirty minded as any of my friends but is more adult and less crude than most. He has great manners. He thinks I am beautiful. He is not intimidaded easyly (anyone should be scared of meating my dad but hes not). I know that he loves his baby nefuew who he hopes to turn into a devoted trekky (I can see it now... my kids in startack outfits... ) I know he thinks me pretending to panic in order to use up my nervouse energy is funny but despite that he dose what he can to reashure me. I know a lot from talking and knowing him through our mutual friends and I know from the fact that when I am in his arms looking into his eyes I see and feel home. My best friend fell the same way for his friend... Me and him just talked out the important stuff sooner than most people.


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Posted on Wed, Sep 06, 2006 15:12

Curvy, I think it is great that you have met someone who you really like. Heck, maybe he is the one and you and he are falling in love. BUT...(and you knew there was going to be a "but"...LOL!) Please use your head, too. When he does or says something that makes you think that something is not right, please follow that thought. Please investigate the situation and find out if everything is on the up and up. I am not saying that you should be suspicious. He could be all the good things that he is showing you now, but please don't be blind to the things that may make you uncomfortable IF they come up. For instance, check out how he is with his family; how he gets along with his parents; and how he gets along with other females. For me, a definite "red flag" is when a man speaks negatively about women. In fact, I give a man much props if he has at least one good relationship with a woman who not his mom. From reading your other blogs and comments, I can tell that like many of us, you have had your share of heartache and disappointment. Maybe when you and your friend learn more about one another and get closer, you will discover something wonderful with him. You just may discover that you are worth being loved, cherished and that you will not allow your time to be wasted with anyone who cannot give you that. I wish you lots of happiness.


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Posted on Wed, Sep 06, 2006 15:02

I'm confused CurvyTigress.... is this the guy that lives in St. Louis or the one that lives closer?


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Posted on Wed, Sep 06, 2006 03:29

I dont want to offend you irresistable but would it kill you to be happy for her? shes a big girl if she thinks its right and she feels that strongly about him maybe it is right, and she said no wedding for atleast a year. Not every guy is bad news, and if anything cornering the mum will just cause problems because she WILL tell him. I think congratulations is in order!im happy for you :)


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Posted on Tue, Sep 05, 2006 23:01

Let me get this straight. You have had one date and are considering marriage? What could you possibly learn about a person on one date that would assure you they are the person you want to spend the next 50 years with? How many other women has he proposed marriage to? If you are moving forward with the meeting the parents second date, I'd try to corner mom and get her to spill.


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