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Posted on Fri, Aug 25, 2006 13:27

We all know that men tend to be more attracted to the visual aspect of a woman and we women, while we like the visual aspect as well, it seems we are a bit more forgiving on the "looks" side of things. So in order to try and get a "clear" picture on what is/is not considered attractive physically (and since the majority of us on this site have at least one time in our lives been put down because of our "looks" or "size") I'd like to hear some comments on what is/is not considered "sexy" for us. How should he/she carry her weight? What if he/she carries it everywhere, but the majority is in his/her belly? What if it's all in his/her butt? Should she be able to wear skimpy lingerie? Should he be able to wear those satin lounging pants or boxers? What is attractive???


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Posted on Fri, Jan 18, 2008 23:09

Unattractive. Arm Pit hair that you could repel off of . greasy hair that could be degreased and get 5 barrels of oil from it. someone with no knowledge of how to use a bar of soap. Attractive people with a positive attitude.A lady who works with the assets she has ,and does not try to be a size 00.


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Posted on Sun, Jan 13, 2008 08:26

Hi JJIGGL, I was reading "most popular" and I found this entry with no responses and I wondered why. It's a great question. Now here's my answer. I tend to look at a persons eyes. I spent 8 wonderful years with a man that works hard to keep his 125 pounds on his 5'7 frame. My ex husband was 5'9 and 150-165 pounds. I like to get to know a person before meeting for the first time. I totally agree that the personality of a person is paramount to looks. We can alter our looks with adding or subtracting weight, we alter our outward appearance if we wear something different than our normal style. We can charge our hair color or style, that also alters the outer covering. ( here's a picture of me with a perm in 2004 ) There are all sorts of things we can do to alter ourselves on the outside. The inside, though, is our foundation upon which we add-subtract and blend into the beings we are. To answer the question, finding someone who fits my desired with his inside, the outside matters not. Natalie Re: jjiggl write: What if you met someone that you came to realize had all of the personality attributes that you want in a man, but did not have the physical aspects that you want in a man? Do you think that it is possible to become attracted to a person because of what is on the inside and disregard what is on the outside?

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Posted on Sat, May 05, 2007 04:34

Caramel - your comments make me want to add a bit to what I wrote before expanding on qualities beyond the physical. Attitude, character, heart and playfulness are critical to being sexy in my book. A cetain amount of confident admiring directness can go a long ways towards winning me over. A knowing or mischevious wide smile coupled with twinkling lingering eye contact will definitely make me look twice. Quiet confidence, creativity, being able to keep up in terms of intellect and energy, seeking to please me and yet also being strong enough to let me know what pleases you....basically a good playmate.


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Posted on Fri, May 04, 2007 22:16

I love a bald head...oh my goodness! I love to rub, kiss and play with a freshly shaved bald head. Masculine hands...don't fond of a man having girly hands...


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Posted on Fri, May 04, 2007 20:30

to Jiggl coment #13 Yes I think you absolutely can fall for someone who has all the inner qualities of your dreams without the physical attributes that just from looks only would typically appeal to you. But depending on circumstances - having a since of style, having good hygene as reflections of the inner package/attributes - would become more important.


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Posted on Wed, Jan 03, 2007 19:35

A wicked smile and for me, I love a girl in glasses :) I think a quick wit, not just in a sense of humor department but also otherwise but physically.... Something about short but shoulder length hair that is uber soft :)


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Posted on Wed, Jan 03, 2007 14:27

I like a nice rear on a guy. It doesn't even have to be a great rear, just be wearing the jeans that actually fit that rump. yum. A man's hands are just as sexy. Expecially those with scars and are rough from work. I have large hands so my man must have bigger hands than me. (Just a quirk) And a deep(er) voice. Add that up and send it my way P L E A S E !!! RED


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Posted on Tue, Jan 02, 2007 04:10

Sense of humor!!!!! Gosh, being able to smile and laugh is 99%.


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Posted on Mon, Jan 01, 2007 09:41

I have a thing for guys with shaved heads, call me crazy! The other thing for me, is they must be at least a couple of inches taller, minimum. I'm 5' 8", so that means at least 5' 10"


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Posted on Mon, Jan 01, 2007 07:55

i also am very short (5 ft tall though i wear heels most of the time) and prefer tall Men. i also like a Man Who is Hefty - prefer Big Men. i love a trimmed mustache and beard! Love a nice manly voice... & deep voices *sigh* i am more drawn to confident strong Men than shy quiet ones... Much more important Who a Man is than what He looks like...


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Posted on Sat, Nov 04, 2006 04:49

HI there, I like a guy who is bigger than me so he can put his arms around me, cause I like big hugs,also like a guy who can carry on a conversation and keep me interested, anything but sports,lol,...DEB


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Posted on Fri, Nov 03, 2006 08:25

I like the clean cut guys. A little facial hair is fine but no long beards or long hair for me. I don't know why but it is a turn OFF. I do like having a guy that is at least as big as or bigger than me. It makes me feel more secure. But then again i have fallen for a shorter guy...LOL OMG if you have an accent!! My gosh I will melt into a puddle of drool! I think it is sexy any kind of accent. But it is not a 'must have' kind of thing. Overall i think my tastes fluctuate. KISSY


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Posted on Tue, Oct 31, 2006 18:33

What I find very sexy and very physically alluring and attractive on a woman are, first of all, wide womanly hips. If a woman has curvy, wide, feminine hips, then the odds are very high that I am going to find her very attractive. In order of the things that attract me, I would say wide hips, followed by big, curvy legs, followed by a sexy round butt, followed by luscious breasts. When I think back, several of the sexiest women I have known, have actually had small breasts, but had gorgeous hips and legs. I think that just about 99% of women and men in the world do not like their own tummy,...lol, but I think a big tummy on an otherwise overall, big woman just adds to her physical attractiveness.


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Posted on Sun, Oct 29, 2006 17:18

I like big guys...6' or taller, but the height isn't that big of a deal. What REALLY gets me are the eyes and dimples. If I like the eyes and if they have dimples, the rest is immaterial. Oh, they also must possess a personality too...lol


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Posted on Fri, Sep 29, 2006 17:44

What if you met someone that you came to realize had all of the personality attributes that you want in a man, but did not have the physical aspects that you want in a man? Do you think that it is possible to become attracted to a person because of what is on the inside and disregard what is on the outside?


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Posted on Fri, Sep 29, 2006 17:36

I like a plump women who is plump all over. Top, tummy and butt. And yes please show that tummy!


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Posted on Fri, Sep 29, 2006 17:35

I like a plump women who is plump all over. Top, tummy and butt. And yes please show that tummy!


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Posted on Wed, Sep 27, 2006 23:02

Green1ze i have to agree with you i love a man with big masculine hands, and strong arms it makes me feel protected. Secondly its all in the eyes and the smile for me.


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Posted on Wed, Sep 27, 2006 13:51

This is a really great subject. I'd love to see more people respond. Personally, I'm partial to tall men. I'm a shorty, 5'3", but I've always loved really tall men. I think it's because I love the feeling of being surrounded by a man when he holds me :o) I am also initially attracted to men with great smiles & big, masculine hands. The smile thing is probably obvious, but the hand thing...I don't know. It just looks weird to me if a man has thin or less masculine hands. And dimples!! Holy Moly I can't resist some dimples :o)


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