Thankfully with my trusty blue rabbit whether I have a partner or not a sexual perk me up is just at the tip of my fingers. Come on! don't be so innocent yall know you do it too - and if yall don't get a clue - I am sure we all deserve a little self pleasure. I don't understand what all the hang up and stigma is about self pleasuring...I would be a very mean woman without such sweetness regularly in my life.
i-Buzz baby!!! Along with various and sundry other gadgetry. I am all about what makes me feel good. Self pleasuring is an activity that I've been partaking in for eons. Work, home, outside, etc. I am big on tantric sex, sound and breathing, meditation, full body O's (wonder if the actual word would pass inspection?? LOL) and more. It's all good...*wink*
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honeybiscuit write:
Thankfully with my trusty blue rabbit whether I have a partner or not a sexual perk me up is just at the tip of my fingers. Come on! don't be so innocent yall know you do it too - and if yall don't get a clue - I am sure we all deserve a little self pleasure. I don't understand what all the hang up and stigma is about self pleasuring...I would be a very mean woman without such sweetness regularly in my life.
i-Buzz baby!!! Along with various and sundry other gadgetry. I am all about what makes me feel good. Self pleasuring is an activity that I've been partaking in for eons. Work, home, outside, etc. I am big on tantric sex, sound and breathing, meditation, full body O's (wonder if the actual word would pass inspection?? LOL) and more. It's all good...*wink*
butterbll write: Hey sex is great stress releaver .But If you have no partner one tends to get more stressed because of the lack of it. A person has to find other things to do legally.
Weeelllll, you don't necessarily need a partner ALL the time...he he he...LOL.
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wyldechild write:
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butterbll write: Hey sex is great stress releaver .But If you have no partner one tends to get more stressed because of the lack of it. A person has to find other things to do legally.
Weeelllll, you don't necessarily need a partner ALL the time...he he he...LOL.
Leave it to Honey B. to bring up her battery powered stress slaying lovers.I thought it would be Wylde to be the first to talk about non human mechanical G-spot seeking utensils.I don't know about you all but I see another blog topic cumming up for review !!lol
Leave it to Honey B. to bring up her battery powered stress slaying lovers.I thought it would be Wylde to be the first to talk about non human mechanical G-spot seeking utensils.I don't know about you all but I see another blog topic cumming up for review !!lol
butterbll write: Hey sex is great stress releaver .But If you have no partner one tends to get more stressed because of the lack of it. A person has to find other things to do legally.
Thankfully with my trusty blue rabbit whether I have a partner or not a sexual perk me up is just at the tip of my fingers. Come on! don't be so innocent yall know you do it too - and if yall don't get a clue - I am sure we all deserve a little self pleasure. I don't understand what all the hang up and stigma is about self pleasuring...I would be a very mean woman without such sweetness regularly in my life.
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butterbll write: Hey sex is great stress releaver .But If you have no partner one tends to get more stressed because of the lack of it. A person has to find other things to do legally.
Thankfully with my trusty blue rabbit whether I have a partner or not a sexual perk me up is just at the tip of my fingers. Come on! don't be so innocent yall know you do it too - and if yall don't get a clue - I am sure we all deserve a little self pleasure. I don't understand what all the hang up and stigma is about self pleasuring...I would be a very mean woman without such sweetness regularly in my life.
butterbll write: Hey sex is great stress releaver .But If you have no partner one tends to get more stressed because of the lack of it. A person has to find other things to do legally.
Weeelllll, you don't necessarily need a partner ALL the time...he he he...LOL.
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butterbll write: Hey sex is great stress releaver .But If you have no partner one tends to get more stressed because of the lack of it. A person has to find other things to do legally.
Weeelllll, you don't necessarily need a partner ALL the time...he he he...LOL.
I sit in the closet with my discman on high to blot out all the noise ok ok actually I'll still hop in the car and take a drive along the beach parkway...the smell of the fresh air alone is reviving
I sit in the closet with my discman on high to blot out all the noise
ok ok actually I'll still hop in the car and take a drive along the beach parkway...the smell of the fresh air alone is reviving
Hey sex is great stress releaver .But If you have no partner one tends to get more stressed because of the lack of it. A person has to find other things to do legally.
Hey sex is great stress releaver .But If you have no partner one tends to get more stressed because of the lack of it. A person has to find other things to do legally.
jjiggl write: I don't get depressed very often, but when I do and cannot shake the worry, having a good cry makes me feel better. After an hour of sobbing, slobbering and wetting up a box of tissues, I feel so much better. I seem to have a better perspective on the situation and I am no longer depressed. THEN I put on some music and read or do something creative.
I tend to get so stressed with my stepkid's chaos and drama every now and again that I have to just "bust loose" and a good bawling session helps me just chuck all the crap. Having a temper tantrum does wonders for me as well...*grin*
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jjiggl write: I don't get depressed very often, but when I do and cannot shake the worry, having a good cry makes me feel better. After an hour of sobbing, slobbering and wetting up a box of tissues, I feel so much better. I seem to have a better perspective on the situation and I am no longer depressed. THEN I put on some music and read or do something creative.
I tend to get so stressed with my stepkid's chaos and drama every now and again that I have to just "bust loose" and a good bawling session helps me just chuck all the crap. Having a temper tantrum does wonders for me as well...*grin*
I talk with friends - about the issue or other things.
I gift myself with some no strings alone time - I recharge more solo rather than in social situations and sometimes I just need more quiet time to process an event and meditate.
A sure fire perk me up is to cuddle with my 2 big catboys. They are muscley 20 and 22 pounders so hefty enough to give a good cuddle - one even obeys the command to cuddle by jumping up to me and settling in pressing close. So sweet - I just love those boys.
And on ocassion, I will visit the adopt a pet place and play with the puppies.
Getting out in nature always puts things in persepctive and fills me with awe and hope.
And if none of that is working it is time to go for heavy duty distraction and pampering - spa visit, a trip somewhere, really satisfying sex.... I know I am a total pushover.
I talk with friends - about the issue or other things.
I gift myself with some no strings alone time - I recharge more solo rather than in social situations and sometimes I just need more quiet time to process an event and meditate.
A sure fire perk me up is to cuddle with my 2 big catboys. They are muscley 20 and 22 pounders so hefty enough to give a good cuddle - one even obeys the command to cuddle by jumping up to me and settling in pressing close. So sweet - I just love those boys.
And on ocassion, I will visit the adopt a pet place and play with the puppies.
Getting out in nature always puts things in persepctive and fills me with awe and hope.
And if none of that is working it is time to go for heavy duty distraction and pampering - spa visit, a trip somewhere, really satisfying sex....
I know I am a total pushover.
staceynkansas write: I have some great best friends. One of my friends is great to sit on the phone and rehash and analyze the problems. The other is great for going out to get away from the stressor. We will get pedicures, go to the movies and dinner and I always feel better after being with both of these friends. I also take a long walk, that helps take the stress out of my body. I also send more time in pray when I am struggling. Last but not least, I take a sleeping pill and go to bed. Things always seem better in the morning.
Friends usually are tip top of the list for perking yourself up. Sometimes just having someone to bitch to can do wonders. I had to train my hubby about what to do when I wanted to bitch. Don't try to fix it or come up with solutions, just say yes dear, I understand, etc...LOL.
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staceynkansas write: I have some great best friends. One of my friends is great to sit on the phone and rehash and analyze the problems. The other is great for going out to get away from the stressor. We will get pedicures, go to the movies and dinner and I always feel better after being with both of these friends. I also take a long walk, that helps take the stress out of my body. I also send more time in pray when I am struggling. Last but not least, I take a sleeping pill and go to bed. Things always seem better in the morning.
Friends usually are tip top of the list for perking yourself up. Sometimes just having someone to bitch to can do wonders. I had to train my hubby about what to do when I wanted to bitch. Don't try to fix it or come up with solutions, just say yes dear, I understand, etc...LOL.
I don't get depressed very often, but when I do and cannot shake the worry, having a good cry makes me feel better. After an hour of sobbing, slobbering and wetting up a box of tissues, I feel so much better. I seem to have a better perspective on the situation and I am no longer depressed. THEN I put on some music and read or do something creative.
I don't get depressed very often, but when I do and cannot shake the worry, having a good cry makes me feel better. After an hour of sobbing, slobbering and wetting up a box of tissues, I feel so much better. I seem to have a better perspective on the situation and I am no longer depressed. THEN I put on some music and read or do something creative.
I have some great best friends. One of my friends is great to sit on the phone and rehash and analyze the problems. The other is great for going out to get away from the stressor. We will get pedicures, go to the movies and dinner and I always feel better after being with both of these friends. I also take a long walk, that helps take the stress out of my body. I also send more time in pray when I am struggling. Last but not least, I take a sleeping pill and go to bed. Things always seem better in the morning.
I have some great best friends. One of my friends is great to sit on the phone and rehash and analyze the problems. The other is great for going out to get away from the stressor. We will get pedicures, go to the movies and dinner and I always feel better after being with both of these friends. I also take a long walk, that helps take the stress out of my body. I also send more time in pray when I am struggling. Last but not least, I take a sleeping pill and go to bed. Things always seem better in the morning.
butterbll write: One variation is after the sheets cool down have your partner give you a massage with hot river rocks.get several fist sized river rocks and your favorite oil.Use an old Crockpot and fill with either baby oil or a mix of mineral oil and peppermint oil. Heatboth in the crock pot till warm.apply the stone to the feet and back,massaging both. return the stone to the Crockpot to reheat.
One hint on the oil, use a natural oil (grapeseed, apricot, almond oil, etc. Fractionated coconut oil or shea butter are especially good for the skin). Baby oil usually contains mineral oil which can actually clog pores and does not absorb into the skin.
Another nicety. A tabletop roaster is a terrific way to keep towels and massage oils/lotions warm when giving a massage or for after a bath.
Mmmmmm, seems I might have to borrow you and your special talents, eh? *grin*
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butterbll write: One variation is after the sheets cool down have your partner give you a massage with hot river rocks.get several fist sized river rocks and your favorite oil.Use an old Crockpot and fill with either baby oil or a mix of mineral oil and peppermint oil. Heatboth in the crock pot till warm.apply the stone to the feet and back,massaging both. return the stone to the Crockpot to reheat.
One hint on the oil, use a natural oil (grapeseed, apricot, almond oil, etc. Fractionated coconut oil or shea butter are especially good for the skin). Baby oil usually contains mineral oil which can actually clog pores and does not absorb into the skin.
Another nicety. A tabletop roaster is a terrific way to keep towels and massage oils/lotions warm when giving a massage or for after a bath.
Mmmmmm, seems I might have to borrow you and your special talents, eh? *grin*
One variation is after the sheets cool down have your partner give you a massage with hot river rocks.get several fist sized river rocks and your favorite oil.Use an old Crockpot and fill with either baby oil or a mix of mineral oil and peppermint oil. Heatboth in the crock pot till warm.apply the stone to the feet and back,massaging both. return the stone to the Crockpot to reheat.
One variation is after the sheets cool down have your partner give you a massage with hot river rocks.get several fist sized river rocks and your favorite oil.Use an old Crockpot and fill with either baby oil or a mix of mineral oil and peppermint oil. Heatboth in the crock pot till warm.apply the stone to the feet and back,massaging both. return the stone to the Crockpot to reheat.
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