Okay, so I might be a little naive or perhaps just confused.
Why is it so hard to meet people that you like and get along with?
I'm a shy person when in real life and first getting to know people. I find the internet allows my true personality to show. I haven't had that much luck meeting people in my area, or anywhere. I'm wondering if someone can give advice.
I've seen the responses to several blogs including my own and I know that the truth will be told about all things. That is a good thing and it helps to know that there are people who are willing to be honest.
When I meet people, I am very honest. Sometimes, perhaps a little too blunt. I am not afraid to tell them that I am a large girl. I have been since I was 7. I'm not lazy. I'm trying to lose weight but its a long ...hard... painful process.
I've met several...odd...characters and while I want to meet people, i'm starting to think I was born several decades late for my own personal values and wants.
This blog isn't meant to upset anyone and I'm sorry if it does. I'm just trying to figure out a few things and thought that my new found friends at LF could help.
Does it make me a bad person to get defensive when people start judging because of my weight? Is it stupid to be a bigger person and want someone that is actually relatively normal? I actually had one guy tell me that I shouldn't be "picky" because of my weight. Why can't I?