HI EVERYONE .....
YOU KNOW I'M USUALLY GOOD IN GIVING ADVISE BUT NOW I NEED SOME OF MY OWN.WELL HEAR WE GO I WORK WITH THIS 21 YEAR OLD GIRL HER NAME IS JESSICA SHE IS A VERY TINY GIRL AND EASY TO BREAK THE BONES IN HER BODY SHE LIVED WITH THIS GUY WHO IS A COMPULSIVE BEATER AND VERY VERBAL AS WELL HE WILL EVEN COME TO OUR JOB HITTING ON ME IN FRONT OF HER AND I CAN,T STAND FOR A MAN IN A RELATIONSHIP TO DO THAT WELL SHE STARTED TO COME TO WORK WITH BROKEN FINGERS AND BRUISES ALL OVER HER SHE WOULD TELL ME THAT SHE FELL DOWN THE STAIRS LIKE I BELIEVE THAT KNOWING I WENT THROUGH THE SAME THING MAYBE EVEN WORSE SO I TOLD HER I WANT HER TO MOVE IN WITH ME AND SHE DID THE FIRST TIME SHE STAYED ABOUT 2 WEEKS AND WENT BACK TO HIM THEN HE REALLY DID A NUMBER ON HER NOW SHE IS LIVING WITH ME FOR ABOUT 2 MONTHS AT FIRST EVERYTHING WAS OK BUT NOW HES TRYING TO GET HER TO MOVE BACK AND SHE IS FALLING FOR THE SAME BULL**** LINES I'M SO SCARED HES GOING TO END UP HURTING HER BAD OR SOMETHING ELSE IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN I'M TRYING SO HARD TO BE THERE FOR HER AND WANTING TO HELP HER IN ANYWAY I CAN MY HEART IS CRYING OUT FOR HER NOT TO GO BACK I HAVE DONE AND GIVEN SO MUCH OF ME THAT I'M SCARED FOR HER AND IF ANYTHING HAPPENS TO HER I FEEL LIKE IT,S GOING TO BE A LOSING BATTLE FOR ME I PRAY EVERY NIGHT TO THE GOOD LORD ABOVE TO PROTECT HER AND NOT TO LET HER GET HURT AGAIN SHE DOESN'T HAVE ANY FAMILY THAT LIVES IN S.C. I,M TRYING TO BE HER FRIEND AS WELL AS A PROTECTOR BECAUSE I CARE SO MUCH ABOUT PEOPLE AND WHAT HAPPENS TO THEM ........WHAT SHOULD I DO??? I FEEL LIKE I HAVE DONE SO MUCH..... I KNOW I WILL NEVER TURN MY BACK ON HER IN CRISES I CANT DO THAT I DON,T HAVE THE HEART .....HUGS AND KISSES WENDY :O(
It would be wonderful, to see people come
together, not only in times of need. We
should never sit in judgement, for we know
not, where it may lead. It's important to
accept someone, whether they come from
near, or far. It shouldn't have any bearing,
just like them, for who they are! If you choose
not to befriend someone, it should be because
you, don't like the things they do, or what they
stand for. That is your privilage, should you
not want, to open that door! Not everyone
you meet, can you like. There are those who
possess the knack, of rubbing you the wrong
way. It's then you have a legitimate reason,
for keeping them at bay. Never for a moment
should it be, because they're different. What
it boils down to, we're all the same. Remember
by being prejudice, you're the one, to blame!
Life is the moments that define us.
The mistakes that we make, the lessons we learn from them.
The kind of love that dies and the kind of love that's constant.
The friendships that fade, and the friendships that will be kept forever.
Life is the memories.
The photographs that brings smiles to our faces, and tears to our eyes.
The moments we regret and the moments we hold onto.
The endless laughter, endless tears, endless conversations.
The days that were too long,
and the nights that weren't long enough.
Life is the people
that make us who we are.
The faces that bring light to our darkest days.
The voices that carry us through every storm,
leaving us with a rainbow,
and teaching us how to be a person we can take pride in.
Life is the journey.
The combination of wrong and right paths
that lead us to where it is we were meant to arrive.
Ain't it the Truth!!!
A woman goes to the doctor for her yearly physical.
The nurse starts with certain basic items.
'How much do you weigh?' she asks.
'115,' she says.
The nurse puts her on the scale
It turns out her weight is 140.
The nurse asks, 'Your height?'
'5 foot 8,' she says.
The nurse checks and sees that she only measures 5' 5'.
She then takes her blood pressure
And tells the woman it is very high.
'Of course it's high!' she screams,
'When I came in here I was tall and slender!
Now I'm short and fat!'
It's Okay To Cry...
You look around, day in day out
There is always pain, without a doubt
People fight and die everyday
Children, bloody and bruised, never play
Parents hooked on drugs and fights
Reminded all day about the hurtful nights
Words are thrown, fists are swung
Loved ones die when they are way too young
Blood and tears, they are too well known
The things we learn, the things were shown
Some give up and some move on
The joy was here but now is gone
How did it come to start? When will it finally end?
Physical cuts heal, but emotional ones never mend
So next time you see hurt in someones eyes
Don,t forget to remind them that its okay to cry...
When the day has come and gone,
and you're sitting there all alone.
Feeling angry, depressed and rejected,
wondering if your life can ever be
Needing someone to call your very own,
someone who's love and devotion is clearly
Someone to sit and talk to, who will
understand your dreams, your wishes,
and the things you would like to plan.
Someone to laugh and have fun with,
Someone to help you enjoy life just
a little bit.
Life does have it's way of dealing
low blows, Leaving you confused,
unhappy and wandering which way to go.
When all your efforts to find or recapture
happiness have been at their best, Then only
God can do the rest.
I,M BACK IT,S BIN A WHILE AND MISSED EVERYBODY HOPE ALL IS WELL AND HAPPINESS IS CONTINUING IN YOU,R LIFE ....WELL I CAN,T BELIEVE THIS IS HAPPENING TO ME ABOUT 3 WEEKS AGO I MEET SOMEONE ON THE ON THE SIGHT AND WE REALLY HIT IT OFF EVERYDAY HE HAS BIN WRITING ME AND TALKING TO ME ON THE PHONE A SINGLE PARENT WITH A DAUGHTER THAT IS 9 YEARS OLD THE THINGS HE SAYS TO ME MELTS MY HEART BUT I KNOW NOT TO FALL TO DEEP ...BECAUSE I KNOW WHAT CAN HAPPEN AND BAHM WAS I NOT RIGHT TODAY WE TALKED ON THE PHONE AND HE SOUNDED SO DOWN HE TOLD ME THAT HE HAD SOME PROBLEMS AND THEN ASKED ME IF I COULD LEANED HIM 2,000 DOLLARS I SAID TO MYSELF THIS IS A GROWN MAN WHO IS 46 YEARS OLD AND TRYING TO PLAY ME FOR A FOOL NOT ONLY DID HE ASK ME FOR THE MONEY AND I TOLD HIM NO!THEN HE STARTED TO TALK TO ME VERY DEMANDING LIKE HE WAS MY HUSBAND AND I BETTER CALL HIM WHEN HE GOT HOME HE STARTED TO SHOW HE,S TRUE COLORS AND WAS VERY POSSESSIVE,AND COMMANDING BUT THATS WHY I NEVER LET MY GUARD DOWN. NOT ONLY THAT I FELL DOWN THE STEPS ABOUT 2 1/2 WEEKS AGO BECAUSE THERE WAS A WILD DOG IN MY YARD ABOUT TO ATTACK ON MY THREE LITTLE ONES SO WHAT DO I DO RUN DOWN THE STEPS FELL AND BROKE MY ANKLE IN 2 DIFFERENT PLACES AND SPRAINED MY FINGER SO NOW I,M STUCK WEARING A CAST FOR 6 WEEKS AND CAN YOU BELIEVE I,M STILL HAPPY GO LUCKY AND HAVE A GOOD HEAD ON MY SHOULDER .... BUT THERE IS ONE THING I WANT TO SAY TO THESE GUYS IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO SUPPORT YOU OR GIVE YOU MONEY WELL PLEASE DON,T MAKE AN EFFORT TO TALK NOR WINK AT ME I,M NOT AFTER ANYBODY,S MONEY I,M VERY HAPPY WITH WHAT I GOT I MAY NOT BE RICH BUT I,M RICH IN HEART ... HUGS AND KISSES WENDY :O)
Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there,to serve some sort of purpose ,teach you a lesson,or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become.You never know who this people may be possibly your roommate,neighbor,professor,long lost friend,lover,or even a complete stranger),but when you lock eyes with them ,you know at that very moment they will effect your life in some profound way.And sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible,painful,and unfair at first,but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential,strength,willpower,or heart.
Everything happens for a reason.Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck.Illness,injury,love,lost moments of true greatness,and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.Without these small tests,whatever they may be ,
life would be like a smoothly paved,straight,flat road to nowhere.It would be safe and comfortable,but dull and utterly pointless.
The people you meet who effect your life,and the success and downfalls you experience,help to create who you are and who you become.Even the bad experiences can be learned from.In fact,they are probably the most poignant and important ones.
If someone hurts you,betrays you ,or breaks your heart forgive them,for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.If someone loves you ,love them back unconditionally,not only because they love you,but because in the way, they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
Make every day count..........
Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again.Talk to people that you have never talked to before,and actually listen.Let yourself fall in love,break free,and set your sights high.Hold your head up because you have every right to .Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself,for if you don,t believe in yourself,it will be hard for others to believe in you .You can make of your life anything you wish.
Create your own life and then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets.Most important ,if you love someone tell, them,for you never know what tomorrow may have in store.And learn a lesson in life each day you live.
You know this is how i really feel and hoped you enjoyed reading it ...HUGS AND KISSES WENDY :O)
As we grow up,we learn that even one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will.You will have your HEART broken probably more then once and it,s harder every time.You,ll break HEARTS too so remember how it felt when your,s was broken.You,ll fight with your Best FRIEND . You,ll blame a NEW LOVE for things an OLD one did. YOU,LL CRY because TIME is passing too fast,and you,ll eventually lose someone you LOVE.So take too many PICTURES,LAUGH too much,and LOVE like you,ve never been HURT because every SIXTHY SECONDS you spend UPSET is a minute of HAPPINESS you,ll NEVER GET BACK.... HUGS AND KISSES WENDY
This is an update.I wrote a story about a week or a week 1/2 ago about the 10 commandments for a owners pet.HOW A LITTLE JACK RUSSEL DOG (GIRL)showed up at my door step that was severely beaten,starved,and shoot with a paint gun.I then rushed her to my vets office which was 15 minutes from my house hopping to get her some help. I have bin going every day after work to the vets to see how she was doing and watching her fighting with all her heart to hold on .... I even named her precious because that is what she was to me .Today at work i received a call from the vets wanting me to come by before i went home ...so i did .when i walked in i could feel the vibe that it was not good and my feelings were right everybody at the office knows me and my family very well due to all the dogs we have.Tears were flowing down the faces of the workers as they came to me to let me know that precious had died and her little heart had given up.AT that moment my heart had broken to a 1000 pieces and tears started flowing down my face ...i was going to give her a loving home with me and my other dogs but now all i have is the memory of her in my heart that will forever be .You KNOW WHEN YOU SPELL DOG BACK WORDS YOU HAVE GOD!and now i hope her little soul is at rest and knowing the lord is protecting her from any more sorrow or pain .And i hope precious knew how much i loved her and how much she meant to me in my life and will always have a piece of my heart.. this has bin very hard to write without shedding a tear and i wanted to thank you all from the bottom of my heart for the love,prayers,and the responses on my blog you guys have bin a rock for me .And with this i want to say THANK YOU HUGS AND KISSES... WENDY
THIS IS MY STORY AND IT MAKES ME TEARY EYE ... 2 DAYS AGO A JACK RUSSEL (FEMALE)DOG SHOWED UP AT MY FRONT DOOR STEP THAT WAS BEATEN,SEVERELY STARVED, AND SHOT WITH A PAINT GUN MY HEART JUST STOPPED BEATING AND TEARS STARTED TO FLOW DOWN MY FACE I WRAPPED HER INTO A BLANKET AND TRIED TO GIVE HER WATER .YOU SHE SEE HOW SHE WAS DRINKING . MY VET WAS ONLY 15 MIN FROM MY HOUSE SO I RUSHED HER TO THE VETS THEY COULD NOT BELIEVE WHAT THEY WERE SEEING. I JUST KEEP SAYING TO MYSELF WHY?ANIMALS CAN NOT DEFEND THEMSELVES LIKE HUMANS CAN. THEY DEPEND ON US FOR FOOD, UNCONDITIONAL LOVE AND TO TAKE CARE OF THEM WHEN THERE SICK .. SITTING HERE AND WRITING THIS STORY IS MAKING ME CRY AND I,M SORRY I HAVE SUCH A BIG HEART WHEN IT COMES TO ANIMALS AND PEOPLE . SO I HAVE SOMETHING TO SHARE WITH YOU THAT MEANS SO MUCH TO ME AND IS VERY CLOSE TO MY HEART ....
" TEN COMMANDMENTS FOR PET OWNERS"
1-MY LIFE IS LIKELY TO LAST 10 TO 15 YEARS .ANY SEPARATION FROM YOU WILL BE VERY PAINFUL.
2-GIVE ME TIME TO UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU WANT FROM ME.DO NOT BREAK MY SPIRIT WITH YOU,R TEMPER.THOUGH I WILL ALWAYS FORGIVE YOU.YOUR PATIENCE WILL TEACH ME MORE EFFECTIVELY.
3-PLEASE HAVE ME SPAYED OR NEUTERED.
4-TREAT ME KINDLY .MY BELOVED FRIEND.FOR NO HEART IN ALL THE WORLD IS MORE GRATEFUL FOR YOUR KINDNESS THEN MINE.DON,T BE ANGRY WITH ME FOR LONG.AND DON,T LOCK ME UP AS A PUNISHMENT. AFTER ALL ,YOU HAVE YOUR JOB,YOUR FRIENDS ,YOUR ENTERTAINMENT.I HAVE ONLY YOU.
5-SPEAK TO ME OFTEN.EVEN IF I DON,T UNDERSTAND YOUR WORDS.I UNDERSTAND YOUR VOICE WHEN IT,S SPEAKING TO ME.YOUR VOICE IS THE SWEETEST SOUND I EVER HEAR AS YOU MUST KNOW BY MY ENTHUSIASM WHENEVER I HEAR YOUR FOOTSTEPS.
6-TAKE ME IN WHEN IT,S COLD AND WET.I,M A DOMESTIC ANIMAL AND AM NO LONGER ACCUSTOMED TO THE BITTER ELEMENTS . I ASK FOR LITTLE MORE THAN YOUR GENTLE HANDS PETTING ME. KEEP MY BOWL FILLED WITH WATER.FEED ME GOOD FOOD SO THAT I MAY STAY WELL.TO ROMP AND PLAY AND DO YOUR BIDDING BY YOUR SIDE.I STAND READY,WILLING,AND ABLE TO SHARE MY LIFE WITH YOU .FOR THIS IS WHAT I LIVE FOR.I,LL NEVER FORGET HOW WELL YOU TREATED ME.
7-DON,T HIT ME.REMEMBER ,I HAVE TEETH THAT COULD EASILY CRUSH THE BONES IN YOUR HAND,BUT I CHOOSE NOT TO BITE YOU .
8-BEFORE YOU SCOLD ME FOR BEING LAZY AND UNCOOPERATIVE,ASK YOURSELF IF SOMETHING MIGHT BE BOTHERING ME.PERHAPS I,M NOT GETTING THE RIGHT FOOD,I,VE BEEN OUT IN THE SUN TOO LONG , OR MY HEART MAY BE GETTING WEAK.
9-TAKE CARE OF ME WHEN I GET OLD.FOR YOU WILL GROW OLD TOO.
10-WHEN I AM OLD,OR WHEN I NO LONGER ENJOY GOOD HEALTH ,PLEASE DO NOT MAKE HEROIC EFFORTS TO KEEP ME GOING.I AM NOT HAVING FUN.JUST SEE TO IT THAT MY TRUSTING LIFE IS TAKEN GENTLY,AND BE WITH ME ON THAT DIFFICULT JOURNEY WHEN I,TS TIME TO SAY GOODBYE.NEVER SAY,"I JUST CAN,T BEAR TO WATCH ."EVERYTHING IS EASIER FOR ME WHEN YOU ARE THERE. I WILL LEAVE THIS EARTH KNOWING WITH LAST BREATH THAT MY FATE WAS ALWAYS SAFEST IN YOUR HANDS.AND THAT I LOVE YOU ........
THIS WAS SO HARD FOR ME TO WRITE WITHOUT SHEDDING A TEAR ..SO NOW I PRAY TO LORD ABOVE TO WORK A MIRACLE ON THIS LITTLE GIRL THAT I FOUND ON MY DOOR STEP 2 DAYS AGO DO YOU BELIEVE THAT EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON ? WELL I DO !HUGS AND KISSES WENDY
IS THIS FOR REAL OR IS IT ALL ABOUT GAME PLAYING I HAVE BIN ON THIS SIGHT NOT VERY LONG AND I HAVE READ SOME BLOGS WHERE WOMAN ARE GETTING THERE HEARTS BROKEN AND THAT BREAKS MINE! WHAT IS IT ARE THESE GUYS HONESTLY AND TRULY INTO LARGER WOMAN OR INTO BREAKING HEARTS AND PLAYING GAMES WE HAVE FEELINGS WE ARE JUST LIKE ANY OTHER WOMAN JUST MORE TO LOVE...I WAS BROUGHT UP THAT YOU TREAT THE PERSON THE SAME THICK OR THIN IT,S NOT WHAT THEY LOOK LIKE IT,S WHAT,S IN THE HEART THAT MATTERS THE MOST !BEAUTY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER WHY ARE WE TO JUDGE WHEN WE DON,T LIKE TO BE JUDGE MAYBE SOMETIMES YOU NEED TO STEP BACK AND LOOK AND SEE WHAT THE BEAUTY OF THE PERSON HAS TO OFFER YOU .SHE MIGHT NOT BE RICH,SHE MIGHT NOT BE A 10, SHE MIGHT NOT BE YOU,RE DREAM GIRL,SHE MIGHT NOT HAVE THE BEST OF JOB,BUT SHE IS A PERSON WITH A HEART AND SOUL... SO WHEN YOU THINK YOU,RE GOING TO PLAY GAMES THINK WOULD YOU HAVE WANTED YOU,RE MOTHER TO BE TREATED THIS WAY!LOOK WE ARE NOT DESPERATE WE ARE LOOKING FOR A FRIEND/LOVER THATS GOING TO LOVE US FOR US .SO WHY HURT BY PLAYING GAMES JUST KEEP IT REAL AND BE HONEST THATS ALL WE WANT I HOPE YOU DON,T THINK I,M BEING HARSH I,M JUST SPEAKING FROM MY HEART BECAUSE I CARE FOR PEOPLE AND THERE FEELINGS....HUGS AND KISSES :O)
TO ALL YOU FATHER,S THAT DON,T GET THE APPRECIATION AND LOVE AND TO THE ONES THAT DO I WANT TO WISH YOU A WONDERFUL FATHER,S DAY TODAY AND JUST TO LET YOU KNOW YOU ARE THOUGHT OF EACH AND EVERY DAY AND NOT FORGOTTEN .... :O)