Ok we are in April now. I had a 'phone call from the solicitors that the final draft is on the way too the court-house. I appreciate everyone's comment's on my other post, but I think I failed to add that I was lonely even WHEN I was married. He was never really the attentive type..but life went on. I am on the path to self discovery now. It is diffcult though. We lived apart, though in the same house for a good few years. That alone has made it easier to sit back and look at what happened from  more...

Ok we are in April now. I had a 'phone call from the solicitors that the final draft is on the way too the court-house. I appreciate everyone's comment's on my other post, but I think I failed to add that I was lonely even WHEN I was married. He was never really the attentive type..but life went on. I am on the path to self discovery now. It is diffcult though. We lived apart, though in the same house for a good few years. That alone has made it easier to sit back and look at what happened from a different perspective. Yes it take's two. This is something I have always known. Unfortunatly my "estranged" missed that memo.
So now here I sit, grabbing a cup of tea while the kids eat dinner, and wonder where life will be leading me next?
Guess only time will tell.

sounds like you are headed down a good path--- the road less traveled--- good for you

I know how it is to be in a loveless marraige. It's easy to be lonely, when the other partner is putting forth no effort! For years, I gave my all in a marraige that was doomed to fail anyway. I'm angry and bitter about it all now, but I'm truly glad it's finally ending. I hope to be in your shoes soon, getting the final draft to the courthouse. But, in the mean time, I am trying to get myself together so that in the end, I will be ready to take on the rest of my life. I don't WANT to be   more...

I know how it is to be in a loveless marraige. It's easy to be lonely, when the other partner is putting forth no effort! For years, I gave my all in a marraige that was doomed to fail anyway. I'm angry and bitter about it all now, but I'm truly glad it's finally ending. I hope to be in your shoes soon, getting the final draft to the courthouse. But, in the mean time, I am trying to get myself together so that in the end, I will be ready to take on the rest of my life. I don't WANT to be alone forever, but if I'm going to be for any length of time, I want to be prepared for it. And happy. I think that's what is going to take the longest. Trying to be happy with myself. But, I'm working on it...