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Posted on Sun, May 09, 2010 14:38

I havn't posted or been around a while. So for those who still remember me, I'll give a quick update on what's been going on. It's been a while since the decree absolute came through my end. I have been slowly but surely rebuilding what I can here. The house is starting to look like a home, and I had to enrol the services of a debt management company, to take control of my finaces. So with a little extra in my pocket, I been finally taking some time for myself and the kiddies. We are finally able to do some "fun" stuff again. The ex seems to have grown a very thick skin. He hasn't gotten the idea I don't think, that the things he is doing and saying now, are the things he should have done years ago. While we are still friends, (which I believe we have to be for the kids sake), I do not have the slightest bit of romantic, (or otherwise for that matter) feeling for him. Quite the opposite... I have found myself questioning what I saw in him for all those years. I am truely convinced at this point in time, that I did do the righ thing. I have no regrets.. just a whole heap more decorating!! Hope everyone out there is well, take care for now, WH


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Posted on Tue, May 11, 2010 21:41

Well WaitingHonestly, Welcome back . I know that you getting your final divorce papers is a great releif for you. Congratulations on you weight loss of loosing the 300 excess pounds (of wich 290 pounds is you ex!!!! Sometimes you partner fails to see what his actions , or inactions can do to the relationship till it is way too late . or in my case she to this dya refuses to accept the Truth, of what happened , but she still to this day lives in her own fantisy land.


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Posted on Tue, May 11, 2010 04:12

Welcome back - glad you are managing to go forward. It's a work in progress. I also find (found) myself re-assessing choices I had made. It must be hard to be "friends" but I understand the need to when you have the connection of children. Take care and stay strong and enjoy your family.


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