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Posted on Sat, May 06, 2006 10:17

Ladies please give me your feed back.I met this man here on this site. I thought was very nicet.we dated for three months.OOOH did i fell to mention he stated he was separated for two years,And his exwife also had a ad on site here.so one day out of the blue he calls me and stated he felt convicted by god. feeling he was commiting adultry with me,And still want to be friends.also still living with his wife, she is still dating her friend she met on this site.Iam still trying put my mind back together again.Men please honest with your selves.


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Posted on Mon, May 22, 2006 22:10

Thanks pathseeker,yes he told me she was on this site.And gave me her site name,Then she view my ad.scary is'nt it?


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Posted on Mon, May 22, 2006 08:55

Minnnikittti I'm with you..... smile! Tangyrine, I'm sorry you went thru that... I find it amazing that some men just can't be honest - even when u ask them too - but, I've found that they aren't because they want their cake and eat it too - if your married or involved say so... then the woman has the option to accept it on those terms or not - however, men know that for most women they will not accept that and thus they decide to be untruthful - taking her option away - even if it only lasts until she finds out the truth (shaking my head....)There are some wonderful men out here, just keep looking - smile......


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Posted on Sat, May 20, 2006 15:22

ok continuing on lol dont know what happened, the wifey got suspicious and he bailed, how do you know she had an ad on here? Did she tell you or did he, probably a line of crap from him. I hope you find an honest and single man next go around


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Posted on Sat, May 20, 2006 13:46

Sorry Tangy you had to go thru that. It happened to me with the first man I was intimate with. Only difference was that his ex was already remarried....talk about lame excuses. Anyway, since then I've learned that if a guy wants to be with you, he'll be there no excuses. Anything but a YES is a NO. Many people after being hurt are afraid to commit, even to commit to an end, that's why the 'let's be friends' line was invented! There are lots of men out there, and your job is to keep on searching till you find the right one. My advise is date more than one at a time, date a pair and a spare....Sorry guys, women shouldn't spend their time waiting and wishing for one guy to make their dreams come true! Every woman should have a man who's a good friend, a good lover, handy around the house, and a good dancer, and the 4 should never never never meet! I guess I just blew my chances on this site! GoodLuck Tangy!


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Posted on Sat, May 20, 2006 13:18

I hope you won't mind hearing from a man. What you went through was having been used by a jerk. In the end, I don't really think that you lost too much.......unless you're into spineless weenies. This guy didn't have the resolve to cut the apron, bedroom, or whatever strings from his Ex. I do guarantee you that he'll be back begging for "understanding" and forgiveness as soon as his Ex (or whatever) gets bored with him (again?). When this happens, don't even give him the chance; just say "get lost" and stick to your resolve. Did you know that he is Married? I'm a Married man and I've made some great friends here because I always make that clear right away.


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