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Posted on Apr 11, 2006 at 04:39 PM

This is really getting frustrating! Would some of you gentleman be kind enough to tell me why you think I may not be getting ANY responses.PLEASE you would be doing me a very big favor, I really need to know! Mary (sweetsforyou)

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Posted on Jun 16, 2006 at 05:45 AM

Mary (sweetsforyou) One of the problems with these sites is distance. Many great women, like you, are just not close enough to even try.. long distance dating isn't easy..

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Posted on Apr 19, 2006 at 06:47 PM

I'm glad I read your blog- I checked ny profile and it had "separated" for marital status and that I was looking for a man in ARUBA?! Was wondering why I wasn't getting contacted by Americans!

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Posted on Apr 18, 2006 at 06:32 AM

Well folks, tomorrow is my last day on this site. I was recommended to another site like this one, and so far a lot more attention is coming from there. Thank you again tisha.

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Posted on Apr 17, 2006 at 12:03 PM

hey sweets i would love to respond to you and maybe even go on a date but your a long way from iowa

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Posted on Apr 16, 2006 at 09:54 AM

Hello Sweetsforyou, I wish i would have checked this blog out early. Well there is no excuse for guys not to answer emails from interested females. I personally can't because I'm no longer a full member, but i did take the time to add that to my profile.

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Posted on Apr 15, 2006 at 03:28 PM

No you're dateable, we're all dateable. I have to say that I don't get this site at all. I even asked this guy who I randomly picked to just review my profile and let me know what he thought and I've received no response from that either. I'm thinking I might only give this until the end of April. It's not working very well for me at all either.

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Posted on Apr 14, 2006 at 06:17 PM

Starenight you are incredibly attractive you must not have a problem with dates yourself.

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Posted on Apr 14, 2006 at 12:19 PM

I have to agree with airumis. I've tried a few sites never had luck on here; although I 'am having good luck on another site for BBW's not sure I can put it here but I'll try, and I also agree you could lighten your photo to help them see your beauty:) good luck!

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Posted on Apr 14, 2006 at 05:12 AM

I thank you ladies for your kind responses! Notice no men responded at all. I have joined another site, and believe me the attention is far greater there. My membership here will expire in 6 days. I enjoyed talking to you all and hope to meet you at my new site which I will be happy to pass along if you e-mail me. Good luck in your search and Happy Easter/Passover Blessed Be, Mary

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Posted on Apr 13, 2006 at 10:38 PM

Everybody is datable....the right guy just hasnt come along yet....I get quite a few responses but they never seem to be from my area.....and I dont believe in long distance internet love affairs. I have joined two other places and one site has had over 5000 views....I have met some nice men but some shallow ones too....dont be in a hurry and for gosh sakes, dont SETTLE..I dont feel my age at all and usually end up with men any where from ten to 15 yrs younger....was married to an almost "perfect man" for over ten years and he left this earth...took me a long time to find him...but I really believe there is another "perfect" man for me out there...well Im not looking for perfect because Im not....but my profile says it all....good luck Hun

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Posted on Apr 13, 2006 at 11:32 AM

I agree that maybe you need to post more pictures that show you off better. As airemus said , don't limit yourself to just this site.

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Posted on Apr 13, 2006 at 11:11 AM

Thank you all for your kind words, and support. I know the pic is dark, but hopefully the other one is much more clear. Unfortunately my weight is the only insecurity that I have. I actually really like me.........my personality, sense of humor, etc..........just can't believe my 5'1" frame could stretch this far. (Was always skinny) After some surgeries, and medications.....this is what I am left with! Hugs and Hopes, Mary (sweetsforyou)

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Posted on Apr 12, 2006 at 11:24 PM

Okay I know I'm not a guy but you might want to lighten your pic or get one taken in a better light. Men are visually oriented and I think they need to be able to see how pretty you are. Then you'll be beating them off with a stick. :)

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Posted on Apr 12, 2006 at 08:23 AM

Don't get discouraged, it?s a numbers thing. First remember that this site is very restrictive if you are not a full member. Next remember that as a specialty site, the numbers here are smaller. I belong to another completely free site, and the response I get there is a hundred fold what I get here. I don't think it is because the men there are more receptive, just more in numbers. Just a comparison of how many are on line at any given moment demonstrates that fact. Here there are usually about 120 people chatting at any given moment. On my other site, the average is well over 1000. The advantage here is that I am more likely to find someone who appreciates my curves. Don?t despair. Use your blog space to demonstrate just what is so great about you and I am sure it won't be long before you get a wink or two. Just remember that people have to be full members to send emails.

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