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sweetcheeks21

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Posted on 07/12/2009

How can you truely trust a guy that you're into when it comes to sex?
How do you know if they aren't just buttering you up to finally get the chance to get you in bed, and then just dumping your sorry behind the next day? Or if they're just going to use you until something better comes along?
Will we ever know?
I've had a lot of trouble with guys because of this, I've lost a lot of guys because I'm too afraid to give it up too quickly for fear of losing them too soon. What should I do?
I've gone 8 months with no physical intimacy (since my last ex) however...I've dated 3 other guys...I DO want to be physical but I'm afraid they're only going to use me, I feel like I'm stuck against a wall with nowhere to go.
Should I stop acting like a child and just take a chance??

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Posted on 11/06/2009

yea that is definetly true but whats up with you miss nodramaaroundme

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Posted on 10/01/2009

Again I am new and coming in on the end of this but I have to agree with Azure. I have lived quite a bit but wish I had not. First I am a Christian. Short of that let your conscience be your guide. You are an incredibly beautiful young woman. Hold on to what you have. It is worth someone paying full price. Don't lend or rent it to fools. A quote I love " Liars lie and snakes take."

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Posted on 09/07/2009

While I agree that waiting is good, I also agree that you should follow your gut. Learn who is "stirrup worthy". A friend of mine says it differently. She want for a "clean crotch" check up before getting involved and asked the guy to do the same. If he waits and is willing to show you proof that he's clean and you are feel he's "stirrup worthy" it's a go !!

There are too many diseases out there, some show no symptoms some are symptoms you really don't want at all. Some are curable but who needs it? Some are not curable WHO NEEDS THAT and there there are the deadly ones, NO ONE NEEDS THAT FOR A ROLL IN THE HAY.

Just my 2.5 cents.

Natalie

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Posted on 08/01/2009

Life is way too short,I say go for the gusto with everything you have.Give all of yourself and one day some lucky guy will appreciate you for who and what you are and history will be written !!

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Posted on 07/31/2009

Quoting nodramaaroundme:

I completely agree with Azure. Any guy willing to wait at least 8 to 9 months before doing the do is interested in you and not just getting laid. Most players don't want to play that long when they can use and abuse some other woman quicker. And trust your feelings, YOU know when a guy is blowing smoke.

Nodrama .... 8-9 months????? Are you serious?

I don't consider myself "easy" but if a guy was waiting that long I'd have long since come to the conclusion that neither of us were really intereted in being in the relationship and I'd be looking to move on!

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Posted on 07/13/2009

As A guy I have to say I Agree with the two ladies here.A Quality relationship is like Good BBQ.One has to prepare it low and slowly with low heat and lots of time. Yeah you could build a Raging fire and just throw a hunk of meat on the grill. However the results will most likely unpalatablly Burnt and less than one deserves. The guy you are going out with should wait and give the respect you DESERVE! If he cannot wait, Put him packing to the curb. You have to build a Quality relationship on more than just sex.Sex is like fish, After a while It goes bad and It REALLY starts to smell. Hold out for more quality and deeper commitment than LUST AT first thrust.

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Posted on 07/12/2009

I completely agree with Azure. Any guy willing to wait at least 8 to 9 months before doing the do is interested in you and not just getting laid. Most players don't want to play that long when they can use and abuse some other woman quicker. And trust your feelings, YOU know when a guy is blowing smoke.

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