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Posted on Thu, Aug 02, 2007 06:08

Sorry Stacey... we really know what you are going through. Hugs and kisses gf.


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Posted on Thu, Aug 02, 2007 03:55

Hi , I`m really sorry to hear about your sorrow , and know just how you must be feeling . I`m afraid that it seems the way that life is , and we all have our own way of dealing with these things . Personally I just think of all the good things that I have going for me and how Lucky I am compared with some other people . Of course you may need to get rid of a fair bit of anger but try and take it out on soft inanimate objects like cushions or pillows rather than friends or Pets . Anyway I Hope that you will be happy again soon Bless you Peter (Petersh55)


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Posted on Wed, Aug 01, 2007 20:55

Thanks for the encouragement, guys. Nisi32132, thanks for reminding me that I won't curl up and die. And Wyldechild, I like the thought of reinvesting in myself. Everyone goes through this and it is nice to be reminded of that. And I think it is time for a girls nite out. lol


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Posted on Wed, Aug 01, 2007 19:56

God, that does suck, big time. Girl, I do feel for you!!! For me, I cry, I get mad curse and the f-er. Being pissed allows my heart to take a needed backseat for a bit. Then I will take the time to let my heart heal. Of course there are still little rounds of cursing the f-er. Even if I know it's for the best, I still do it until I get to my balanced place again and can be more rational about the situation. Best thing is don't blame yourself. I know it's often easier said than done but even to try to do so will help. Have a few mopey days and then do something for YOU!!! Reinvest in yourself. Do something you wouldn't normally do or that's an extra special thing. Being active and getting out can help too, especially with friends to keep your mind busy.


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Posted on Wed, Aug 01, 2007 19:05

I think you're right with time healing everything. You just gotta sit it out. Maybe you could go out with some girlfriends and have a night together. Make an agreement that no men are allowed and just have a good laugh. Here's hoping you heal quickly, stanno


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Posted on Wed, Aug 01, 2007 18:56

Hi Stacey, words of wisdom - well no. I don't but I've had my heart broken. The only thing I've learned is that it grows back bigger then it was before. The "borken" part heals over making a larger area which gives you more heart to love someone else. I've also learned that I won't curl up and die. I take time to mourn the loss. Most importantly I give my "grieving" an end date before I start. I mark it on the calander to stick to the end date. HUGS -- if you want to talk about it, email me. I'll listen anytime. Natalie32132 Re: staceynkansas write: I know this is nothing new to anyone but I have just had my heartbroke...bad. The first time from an online relationship and actually the first time in years. I forgot how bad it hurts. Any words of wisdom on how to move on? I know time will heal the wound but I really thought this guy might be the one.


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