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Happy Thanksgiving ( Canada eh ) Posted on Oct 11, 2010 at 08:49 AM
Just wanted to wish all a Happy Thanksgiving ( Americans too - your turn is coming )and hope that you're spending it with family / friends or however you wish.
Dumped - by email Posted on Feb 26, 2010 at 05:53 PM does one think they should be dumped? I certainly never thought by email that the new age of technology or cowardness ? Obviously I'm hurting and don't know to respond as I'm in pain - you have to accept it - you can't make someone love you especially when they appear to have moved on. Time is the great healer - Day 1.
Should there be 2 LF's ? Posted on Apr 02, 2009 at 08:04 PM
Got to thinking whether there should be two site's for LF to administer - one for "adults seeking casual" and one for "friends and seeking long-term relationships" since the topic seems to keep cropping up of people and what they are truly seeking. How on earth can anyone govern people's honesty of being on the right site as real life is full of people who know what they want, think they know what they want, don't have a clue or just want to take what they can? I myself prefer the honesty - what do you prefer? Is it time for a LF "adult only - activity partner site?"
Spring forward, fall back - time changes Posted on Mar 07, 2009 at 07:27 PM
What would you do with an extra hour in your day ? What would you try to "cram" into your day if there was an hour less? (all these thoughts as I put the clock ahead an hour so I start off tomorrow in the right "time" frame)
Season's Greetings, Merry Christmas Posted on Dec 25, 2008 at 08:50 PM
Just wishing you all a very Merry Christmas and a safe, healthy, and happy holiday season. This is a very joyous time of year for some and a very depressing time of year for others but I am thinking of you all having been at both ends of the rope. Try to take care of yourselves and thank you for another year of blogs and friendship.
joking63 Posted on Oct 29, 2008 at 05:38 AM
Hi, Why don't you say hi on the blogs so we can get to know you? Hope you look here to chat. Good place to find friends.
Of course I want it - I'm not dead Posted on Sep 23, 2008 at 05:56 PM
With all this talk about appropriate and inappropriate and what kind of a site is it and what do we want... it's an adult site and eventually most of us want "it" - we all have an eventual description of what "it" is and part of love/like/lust is physical contact. Do I want it ? Of course - bring it on BUT I want it on my terms when I'm ready - that's what makes this site different - it's not the "only" thing that I am looking for.....good luck finding "it" ....sorry for offending those that don't want "it" or don't want to hear about "it".
One Size Fits Most - NOT! Posted on Sep 08, 2008 at 06:25 PM
Thought some humour might lighten up the blogs - whoever thought of "one size fits all" should try some pantyhose on for size. What are some of the other things that tick you off that really should be size appropriate ? ( or make you laugh ) Truly - size matters when it needs to fit. (do all guys buy the extra large prophylatics ? hmmmmmm )
Married or Common Law Posted on Aug 28, 2008 at 06:08 PM
How important is it to you to be Married or living together as common law? Do you consider both as the same commitment? When does it change? ( when you're going to have children and want their name to be legal or what ? ) Do you think the difference lies in already having been married or in a common law relationship?
One Week Gold Membership-who has recieved? Posted on Jul 23, 2008 at 06:41 PM
Just wondering out loud who has received the one week free Gold Membership for replies on their Quality blog - anybody, somebody ? - just wondering if anything in life is still "free".
Smoosh bites the Dust ..time to move on Posted on Jun 03, 2008 at 04:41 PM
Hi All, Just wanted to thank those who chatted, winked, flirted, talked , blogged , emailed, met etc. I've enjoyed my visit - stayed longer than I intended. But I have enjoyed and I am certainly not the naive girl of approx. 2 years ago. I truly enjoy the blogs with people's musings, opinions, humour , thoughts and hopes/dreams. Sites such as these certainly open one eye's to the realities of life and I have certainly learned a few things about judgement - I have learned to lighten up as you have no idea what one has gone through. Take care and wear your rubbers when you go out to play. Smoosh (Di) :)
Less tolerant as I grow older Posted on May 21, 2008 at 03:52 PM
I am definitely becoming less tolerant as I grow older - I wouldn't call it picky - I just know my own limits and what I will and should put up with. It doesn't even necessarily have to do with finding a partner but how we deal with our day to day living. Manners for one seem to be a thing of the past with emails and texting. It's all in perspective and I guess today's musings are due to sitting with a bunch of young teenagers on the bus. I'm so glad to be in Canada where we enjoy so much freedom and sure it's cold but nothing compared to the world events. No matter what goes on around me , I am lucky to have family/friends and a home to go to and enjoy my own choices. What will you put up with??
Stuck in a Rut Posted on Mar 05, 2008 at 04:47 PM
Seem to be stuck in a rut and I don't think I'm the only one - the blogs are quiet as everybody goes about their daily reality and it just appears to be the same ole. Need a little kick out of my rut in the road.....any suggestions for a kick start?
Lingerie Posted on Sep 12, 2007 at 07:59 AM
Lingerie - what do you like to buy, what do you like to wear and do your prefer to buy your own or have someone choose for you. (It's really something if you can call nothing something) The scanty bits don't last long but they are quite popular. What does it for you? My preference is for something almost sheer that hints at what's hidden but doesn't quite show all the details. Something that fits well and not too tight - even an underwire with matching panties is quite provocative. Or a sheer long or short flowing nightie with spaghetti straps and maybe slits cut out at the side to show some leg. I like boxers/briefs for my partner even those small snug fitting ones to the loose fitting silky boxers - whatever is comfortable for him.
Open Minded - your definition? Posted on Jul 21, 2007 at 08:11 PM
How would you define open minded? An open mind listens to all views and opinions no matter how much they differ from your own and accept those views/opinions as we each have our own. It doesn't necessarily mean that those views will be changed but we are each entitled to our own thoughts. Open mindedness on a dating site would lead me to believe that if you don't approach/discuss/ask then you would never know if someone would be interested in something that you are interested in or have possibly thought about. It's just like the lottery - if you don't play - you can't win. Positions, role play, fantasies, touch/massage, partners etc are all topics to be open to and about. Your thoughts ?
How many partners is too many? Posted on Jun 04, 2007 at 02:46 PM
Ever been asked the question - How many partners have you been with? and wonder yourself how many is too many ? I think it depends on the age of the person, the time frame the partners are spread over and the situation. So.. what are your thoughts? less than 10, 20, 30 , too many?
Alias Posted on Mar 22, 2007 at 05:33 PM
Just wondering if anyone has used an alias in order to protect you and your family's identity while you date and try to get to know someone? And I don't mean those who use a different name as they are looking for some on the side as they are "married" or "in a relationship"..... I am looking for some feedback on those people who are serious about a relationship but are being cautious and weeding out the crazies before they share more than their email address, cell phone # and some dates. Thanks all!