i have been on this site for about a year now. this is the 2nd time i have become a member for a month only. i have been from time to time getting winks and the odd message from guys on here. i decided to sign up to be able to reply to some of the winks i have got.
so why is it after sometimes after one maybe two messages, the guy suddenly just dissapears?? im at a total loss as to what i did or didnt say that put him off. then you get these guys that say in their profile that they are looking for a long term relashionship, but all their actually after is pictures of your boobs. as i told the last guy, there are magazines for that sort of thing, dont think your going to get it from me for free.
yes i am on the plus size, hence im on this site, but please dont think just because i am, im going to be so desperate to try and get a man to be interested in me by sending out dirty pictures of myself.
why does it seem so hard these days to find a man that wants to get to know you as a "person" rather than someone willing to do anything to get a bit of attenshion??
i am a humam being that would love to find a nice guy, are there any left out there??
shaz xx
i have been on this site for about a year now. this is the 2nd time i have become a member for a month only. i have been from time to time getting winks and the odd message from guys on here. i decided to sign up to be able to reply to some of the winks i have got.
so why is it after sometimes after one maybe two messages, the guy suddenly just dissapears?? im at a total loss as to what i did or didnt say that put him off. then you get these guys that say in their profile that they are looking for a long term relashionship, but all their actually after is pictures of your boobs. as i told the last guy, there are magazines for that sort of thing, dont think your going to get it from me for free.
yes i am on the plus size, hence im on this site, but please dont think just because i am, im going to be so desperate to try and get a man to be interested in me by sending out dirty pictures of myself.
why does it seem so hard these days to find a man that wants to get to know you as a "person" rather than someone willing to do anything to get a bit of attenshion??
i am a humam being that would love to find a nice guy, are there any left out there??
well now b/b, you ought to know by now about women and automated vehicles ....... ask em to bake a cake, text a friend, write an email and hold a convo at the same time and they can`t be beaten, but ask em to reverse round a corner, ........
Quoting: Originally posted by butterbll Hey If I am such a great guy why has not a great lady swept me off my feet with a fork lift?
Quoting butterbll:
Hey If I am such a great guy why has not a great lady swept me off my feet with a fork lift?
well now b/b, you ought to know by now about women and automated vehicles ....... ask em to bake a cake, text a friend, write an email and hold a convo at the same time and they can`t be beaten, but ask em to reverse round a corner, ........
thankyou to everybody for your comments. they really have helped. ¿ islandgal64 yes id love to compare notes if its ok with you, just to see were im going wrong!! ¿ shaz xx
thankyou to everybody for your comments. they really have helped. ¿ islandgal64 yes id love to compare notes if its ok with you, just to see were im going wrong!! ¿ shaz xx
I know what you mean Shaz, though to be honest I've probably been guilty of that myself too. Sometimes a conversation, or even a few, can be pretty good but then they just run out of steam.
If the person persisted in contacting me I'd have to explain that I didn't see the point of continuing the chat, but otherwise I'd just let it slide.
Ah it's a funny old game and we all have our own set of rules! Give me a yell if you fancy comparing notes, lol!
I know what you mean Shaz, though to be honest I've probably been guilty of that myself too. Sometimes a conversation, or even a few, can be pretty good but then they just run out of steam.
If the person persisted in contacting me I'd have to explain that I didn't see the point of continuing the chat, but otherwise I'd just let it slide.
Ah it's a funny old game and we all have our own set of rules! Give me a yell if you fancy comparing notes, lol!
hi island64, thanks for your comment. ¿ i have done as you said, sent out my own emails and winks. i have had a few replys, again i have chatted with a few, but still getting a few still dropping off the face of the earth after a few messages. but hay ho mr right im told is out there, just gota wait and keep on looking i guess. ¿ shaz xx
hi island64, thanks for your comment. ¿ i have done as you said, sent out my own emails and winks. i have had a few replys, again i have chatted with a few, but still getting a few still dropping off the face of the earth after a few messages. but hay ho mr right im told is out there, just gota wait and keep on looking i guess. ¿ shaz xx
Shaz, rather than responding to the ones who contact you, do a few searches and send out a few friendly "hello" emails yourself. I can't guarantee you they'll all respond - half of them probably haven't been on the site in months - but it's the only way to filter out some of the dross!!!
When I've been a paying member I find it slightly more satisfactory to look for guys that have the attributes I'm looking for rather than just sit back and see who's interested (when most of them are the other side of the flipping world!)
There are a limited number of Brits on here, even less fellas, and once you apply your own preferences there will be even less, lol, but at least it puts you in the driving seat.
Be true to yourself and your own values - I can't pretend to be a huge success story, but the good things that have happened on here have been with guys I sought out rather than the ones who found me!
Shaz, rather than responding to the ones who contact you, do a few searches and send out a few friendly "hello" emails yourself. I can't guarantee you they'll all respond - half of them probably haven't been on the site in months - but it's the only way to filter out some of the dross!!!
When I've been a paying member I find it slightly more satisfactory to look for guys that have the attributes I'm looking for rather than just sit back and see who's interested (when most of them are the other side of the flipping world!)
There are a limited number of Brits on here, even less fellas, and once you apply your own preferences there will be even less, lol, but at least it puts you in the driving seat.
Be true to yourself and your own values - I can't pretend to be a huge success story, but the good things that have happened on here have been with guys I sought out rather than the ones who found me!
My impression of this site, during the short time I've been here, is that this is not the place to come if you're just trolling around for sex. There are a LOT of places to go if you are, so my guess is that a lot of men initially misinterpreted the site's focus. The good news (at least for you) is that those guys usually figure it out pretty quick and abandon their "show me your boobs" efforts. I'm sure you've learned by now how to deflect that type of behavior, so just keep doing it.
My impression of this site, during the short time I've been here, is that this is not the place to come if you're just trolling around for sex. There are a LOT of places to go if you are, so my guess is that a lot of men initially misinterpreted the site's focus. The good news (at least for you) is that those guys usually figure it out pretty quick and abandon their "show me your boobs" efforts. I'm sure you've learned by now how to deflect that type of behavior, so just keep doing it.
to me if you show everything up front as it were, if you do finally get to know the person or even meet what have you got to offer?? to me when i finally do decide to get intermet with someone and i havent seen whats really underneith as it were, to me personally its like unwrapping a present. maybe im just old fashioned??
shaz xx
to me if you show everything up front as it were, if you do finally get to know the person or even meet what have you got to offer?? to me when i finally do decide to get intermet with someone and i havent seen whats really underneith as it were, to me personally its like unwrapping a present. maybe im just old fashioned??
Yes there are a few nice guys around at this site. But the >10 % that troll around looking for Lust at first thrust spoil it for mostly everyone else here. Their priorities are not like you stated a long term reationship. Ps dont feel like the Lone Ranger I have had a few ladies over the past several years ask for the male equivalent of the a bikini shot sans thong. I have even been sent a few racy photos unsolicited from me. As for the reason why all the request for the "All of your glory shots " is I feel is that they are extremely immature and have little else to offer a lady other than. A pair of shriveled grapes and a soggy bannana and a childish behavior.Besides you sometimes have to shuck a lot of Oysters to get a Pearl. Hang in there you will find some one here .I have ben here on this site for al least 3 plus years. People do find their partner on this site . Take care
Yes there are a few nice guys around at this site. But the >10 % that troll around looking for Lust at first thrust spoil it for mostly everyone else here. Their priorities are not like you stated a long term reationship. Ps dont feel like the Lone Ranger I have had a few ladies over the past several years ask for the male equivalent of the a bikini shot sans thong. I have even been sent a few racy photos unsolicited from me. As for the reason why all the request for the "All of your glory shots " is I feel is that they are extremely immature and have little else to offer a lady other than. A pair of shriveled grapes and a soggy bannana and a childish behavior.Besides you sometimes have to shuck a lot of Oysters to get a Pearl. Hang in there you will find some one here .I have ben here on this site for al least 3 plus years. People do find their partner on this site . Take care
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