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Posted on Fri, Feb 16, 2007 13:40

is it just me, or do most men seem to think that just beacuse we are bbw, that we are easy? And if so, why do they think that?


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Posted on Sat, Jul 21, 2007 08:27

oh come on now we're all easy if the time is right and we all know it !!!!!


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Posted on Sat, Jul 21, 2007 02:37

Re: keltic write: in my experience being a bbw has no effect on ease or hardness. /// SNIP /// women are complex///EDIT "Dont Go There"/// (and awesome) that is why i like em!

Had to say something, I have found that most of the larger lassies I have dated ARE NOT easy or easier that the others out there, Just a hell of a lot more cuddlier and usually more fun to be with. Hugz fae Me


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Posted on Sat, Jul 21, 2007 02:19

No, no, no ladies! Stop there now! I honestly believe that whatever size you are, if he's going to try it on, he will do it with whatever size girl he is with at the time. Believe me, I was slim at one time and I am now a sexy size 24 (UK size) and men are exactly the same now as they were then, bless 'em. To be honest, you must have a sexual attraction for him to try it on no matter what size you are. Admit it ladies, don't we want to try it on with some men we really find attractive. Have you been out with a larger guy? If so, did you find him sexually attractive? I've been dating a slim guy but don't find him sexually attractive but other, larger guys have been much more sexy. Looking at the replies to this blog, the photos of you ladies are gorgeous - you should have no problem setting high standards of your own so that guys will he proud of you even showing THEM attention! Honestly, they're not all bad!

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Posted on Fri, Jul 20, 2007 20:25

This is a topic that needs to be revisited. I have been experiencing this very thing lately. I thing some of the comments here are right, that men think since we are larger we don't get much attention. We don't get men that truly adore us. I KNOW THEY ARE WRONG!! There are men that adore us. My awareness is that I have boundaries, as someone also said. We all have different boundaries - different reasons for doing what we do, when we do it. I've had one night stands, I've had sex on the first date, I've also waited for the fifth date. It all depends on what, who, when and where :-). So there are men that might think I'm easy, some that would swear I'm a prude and others that would swear I'm just nuts :-D. I'm me - being me - doing what me likes for me. What men think they are going to think no matter what. We think things also, about men, that they don't understand. There are men that don't try to have sex on the first date. Do they wonder if we wonder why? What do we wonder if a guy does not try to cope a feel? Are we still using our high school rules? values? standards? Natalie 32132 Re: Saitz_sue write: is it just me, or do most men seem to think that just beacuse we are bbw, that we are easy? And if so, why do they think that?


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Posted on Mon, Feb 26, 2007 11:26

"Great spirits have always encountered opposition from mediocre minds. The mediocre mind is incapable of understanding the man who refuses to bow blindly to conventional prejudices and chooses instead to express his opinions courageously and honestly." - Einstein: New York Times, 1940


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Posted on Mon, Feb 26, 2007 06:22

in my experience being a bbw has no effect on ease or hardness. some are easy. god bless em ;) some have more normal boundaries. some are prude. some are prude because of their size, but some are fine with their size they are prudish for other reasons. women are complex (and awesome) that is why i like em!


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Posted on Sun, Feb 25, 2007 15:44

I myself am a prude BECAUSE I am a big woman. I am pretty self concious of myself and therefore I don't trust just anyone with opening myself up like that. There are many times I could have slept with men "because they were there", but I didn't, because i have more respect for myself than that.


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Posted on Sun, Feb 25, 2007 15:44

I myself am a prude BECAUSE I am a big woman. I am pretty self concious of myself and therefore I don't trust just anyone with opening myself up like that. There are many times I could have slept with men "because they were there", but I didn't, because i have more respect for myself than that.


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Posted on Sun, Feb 25, 2007 08:14

I am SEXY, NOT easy :)


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Posted on Sun, Feb 25, 2007 05:28

Yes, I was sitting on the couch with a man and we started making out when he said, I bet you are so glad to have someone who wants to touch you...I looked at him and said WHAT? He looked shocked because I was ticked off so he said, Hey being a large woman you have to take what you can get. I told him to get the HELL out of my apartment. Anyway, he just assumed that since I was large I should be grateful to have sex. Listen, I have other alternatives that I can please myself, I won't waste my time with an a**hole. So I do think a lot of men perceive us as being EASY just because they think we had better get it when we can.


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Posted on Wed, Feb 21, 2007 19:13

I agree with you wanda, I also think that some men may think we should be graicious to any attention we recive. That makes a lot of sense. And I also agree that males who are my age may treat bbw with less respect than older men. Which makes it all the more difficult to find what im looking for. And amuse me, I think that bbw like those you are describing are wonderfull, I consider my self to be somewhat like that, and they yes their good qualitys may be misconstrued as being easy, but I dont think that that is the way most bbw are. I think we are just as diverse as any other type of woman. It is just my personal opinon that it proboly has more to do with what wanda said, but what do I know, Im not a man so I cant say for sure. and to the rest of you thank you for your comments, I dont have time to reply to them all, seeing as I have limited time on the computer, but I apprieciate them just the same.


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Posted on Sun, Feb 18, 2007 12:38

I AM VERY ATTRACTED TO LARGE WOMEN . I NEVER HAVE A PRE-OPINION THAT THEY ARE EASY . BUT, I WILL SAY THIS : IN MY EXPERIENCE, THEY ARE THE WARMEST , KINDEST, MOST COMFORTABLE TO BE WITH , AND... WHEN IT DOES GET PHYSICAL/SEXUAL, THEY ARE FAR AND AWAY THE BEST LOVERS .......


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Posted on Sun, Feb 18, 2007 11:52

Lots of women are easy. I guess it depends on your perspective. Bigger women are more attainable. We are more gullible and more forgiving. We are kinder and more real to life. We are more giving and more accepting of others' faults. We are lovable and love to love in return. I guess those examples could make us easy. if that's the case, I like being easy.


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Posted on Sun, Feb 18, 2007 11:40

We are no easier than other women of other sizes, men think we are. Its all subjective. If you are dating someone you shouldn't feel pressured into having sex with them. If they angry about the fact that you are "taking your time" tell them where to go; if they really cared about you they would wait.


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Posted on Sun, Feb 18, 2007 06:16

Hi Sue! I believe that many men think BBW's are easy, but I don't know that I would say most. Perhaps it has to do with the fact that I am dealing with more mature men than you may be dealing with who have reached a point in their lives that they value companionship as much as they do a sexual relationship. Some men seem to have the misconception that because we are larger than what society considers the "norm" that we would be elated to have any attention a man would give us. They believe we'd be so happy to have a man desire us and want to commune with us that we'd gladly accept their advances, rip off our clothes and hop in the sack with them. On the other hand, with all due respect to several real gentlemen out there,some guys don't think that way. They truly do respect and admire us BBW's for being the beautiful women that we are and believe that we are lovely ladies who should be paid court,treated with attention, deference, and total love and affection.


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