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Posted on Mon, Dec 18, 2006 00:05

Alright.... so I bet you are all wondering what this ones about, so let me explain. Amuse me and I were having a conversation tonight about life, love,drama, dissapoinment,joy etc. etc. etc. and we were comparing some war stories and we got on the subject of Players. And we thought what a good idea for a blog. So here I am 3 glasses of wine later and this is the idea. Our inquiring minds want to know are you a player or have you been played by a player.We want all the dirt.Please dont post stuff about how this guy or girl only wants to talk sex, that would be better for the cyber monkeys blog. We want stories of ONLINE bad player behavior only!Please dont use this as a forum to get back at someone cause you feel slighted because you e-mailed a few times and you never heard back from them, we want to hear the buyer beware kind of stuff.Since I know the blog fairies will be monitoring I know that none of you will abuse the blogging rules(gmafb).Dont be shy I read the blogs written by people who have been emotionally dragged through the mud by someone they met on-line on here all the time, so I know the stories are out there, so why not put them all in one easy to read blog, that can be used as a tool for people to learn from. ..Actually I am just really nosey..lol Oh and in case I havent told you guys lately..You all ROCK..Stay cool -RR-

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Posted on Tue, Apr 21, 2009 11:16

I've been absent from this blog for a while and just popped in to see what's happenin. If you don't hear from me look and see if you have any of my info. I don't have that old cell anymore though. TTYS babe.


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Posted on Thu, Apr 09, 2009 20:02

Amuse my gurl how ya been??? You know I tend to float in and out of this place from time to time mostly when I am bored which I happen to be right now..lol So I hope things are well with you!!! I've been super super busy lately.You know me I am always on the go mostly cause the weathers been rockin!!! Just spent 5 days in Ashville in a fantistic cabin in the mountains on Saluda Lake it was sweet!!!! Will be headin to the beach in a few weeks.Well anyway you still have my personal e-mail addy right? If you do,drop me a line. Had to re-read this blog because I havent looked at it in forever..We are two funny chicks !!! Gotta make more time for blogland I forgot how fun it can be sometimes..Take Care sweets hope to hear from you soon, stay cool. -Me- (Still Rockin)


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Posted on Thu, Aug 07, 2008 08:19

Look at the blog I just dug up! I'm not adding anything now, other than I miss my gal pal very, very much. *sniff* I am sorry we lost track, RR... but there is always tomorrow!


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Posted on Thu, May 31, 2007 21:39

Re:Oh yes he deserves it..lol beledidancer write: I will have to say in his defense, southerngent_uk while being a "unique" individual. Was upfront with me about who and what he was from the first time we chatted. Please don't slap me up side the head for saying that. But if he wasn't with others he deserves his place on this blog.



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Posted on Thu, May 31, 2007 21:37

File all PLAYER complaints here.... As the old saying goes,"All's fair in Love and Love is a battlefield" Yeah leave it to me to combine a famous quote and a Pat Benatar song...LOL Lot's of people reading but no new posts lately come on kiddies let's have it!!! Name the names !!! I wanna know who to stay away from damm*it. ;) -RR-


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Posted on Thu, Feb 22, 2007 03:34

Here's one to add to the list. MikeD1 its a real shame but he turned out to be one of the biggest players i've come across to date. Lots of lying, games and rather immature for a 34 yr old when it came down to it.Tried to give him the benefit of the doubt a cpl times but in the end the truth came out. He talks a good talk ladies...be careful.....


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Posted on Sun, Feb 18, 2007 11:35

IceMagic and Wonderingbear it saddens me to read your stories of men who have such little disregard for fine ladies and who seek only gain for themselves no matter the cost to someone else. I had forgotten about this one guy- MIKE27587 until I read Wonderingbears post. He corresponded with me briefly when I first joined here, then again several months later he winked me saying he thought we were a match. I noticed he had 2 comments on his profile from women and they could not be read, which I though was odd. (They have since been removed). I emailed the 2 women and asked them if they knew him and what their comments said. One told me to be careful of the man and the other one said her comment was that they were a happy couple, and she went on to gleefully say that he was moving in with her in 10 days! Needless to say, this put me in the spot of having to decide then what to do. I wrote the woman back and told her I hated to be the one to tell her that the man in her life that she loved, cared for, and was opening her home up to, was still busy seeking other women. He told her I was just just crazy drunk who was making up stories about him. I emailed her all the correspondance I had from him. She believed me and thanked me for preventing her from making the biggest mistake of her life. So, add MIKE27587 to your list of players ladies!


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Posted on Fri, Feb 16, 2007 06:13

Oh, Icemagic. I am so sorry you were manipulated so horribly. At least you can go to bed with a clear conscience, I don't think you can say the same for that fellow. What a jerk! He didn't deserve you hon. Bravo to you for being sound enough to recognize what he was doing before his con got worse than it was and you wound up not just emotionally devastated but financially as well. I'm so sorry he did that to you. (((((HUGS)))))


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Posted on Fri, Feb 16, 2007 01:15

Sending you hugs Icemagic, and I admire your attitude of learning from it ratherthan getting angry and bitter. Guys like that do nothing for your faith in human nature and relationships do they?


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Posted on Tue, Feb 13, 2007 16:04

Golly sdlady-he sounds like quite a chameleon. I think it was with people in mind just like him that this blog was started.


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Posted on Tue, Jan 16, 2007 15:40

Biirdy, I know you weren't being heavy hon.. and I swear I'm not either. I know what you mean about guys getting online to have some fun and more power to them! I have nothing against that, because I know that there are loads of women looking to entertain! ... but when you tell a fella over and over and over NO and he keeps getting worse and worse, there is a difference I think. You are right, of course, we don't want to make this into a free-fer-all and certainly we don't want to ruin a reputation on speculation. You make very valid points... and we wont. Thanks Biirdy


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Posted on Tue, Jan 16, 2007 13:49

Hey AmuseMe, yes of course I got the humour in what you are saying, but I still think we need to be a bit careful or there will be tears before bedtime! Of course the guys have a right to reply and defend themselves, but we know that only very few LF members use the blogs, even fewer men, so the chance of that happening is minimal. So to my mind that doesn't really give them a fair right to reply. The internet is peppered with guys looking to "play on cam". They are mostly driven in a different way to us and I think they are most suitably dealt with by the block option. It seems a bit unfair to lump them together with the real players/liars/cheats when they are simply trying to use a more high tech way of doing what men throughout the ages have done with a dirty magazine or whatever! If we can't rise above them and eother block them or tell them where to get off it doesn't really say much for us as modern women does it?! Lol. But really, as I said in my previous post ... let's just make sure we play fair and remember that once you have given someone a bad name it sticks with people even if the subject proves their innocence. Jeez I didn't mean to get that heavy but hopefully you get my drift! Biirdy x


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Posted on Tue, Jan 16, 2007 12:30

Biird, and anyone else who may post before mine goes through - Please let me explain my last post before you settle on your opinion. All, with the exception of filters, of the people I listed below were the subjects of discussion between myself and two other ladies that support LF and its' blogland. They have all harassed some number of us, and even as I was writing the blog last night that joshhartnet was once again (for the fifth time yesterday) in an IM with me asking to have cam sex with him. Initially he gave a decent conversation, but inevitably the subject turned sexual in a matter of minutes. I have repeatedly told this fellow no, ignored him and finally had to block him because he just couldn't respect me or my disinterest. Now, yes, the "indictment" and "trial" and "evidence" portions of my last post were meant humorously and was hoped to be taken as such. But the bottom line is, I - and Robbin along with a few more - feel that us coming together and actually talking to one another about who are people to watch out for or be aware of will benefit everyone who frequents this site and knows about the Players Blog. We feel that the women of this site should be well aware of the five I listed below even though they are NOT categorically PLAYERS, but because their behavior toward the women of this site is, allow me to be frank, despicable. NOW, in defense of whom I have accused, I would also like to add that they CAN post here, they CAN offer explainations or tell me to go to hell. It is their choice, but do know that I/we do not label anyone in this blog without sufficient complaint or proof of harassment. Perhaps, if enough people know this blog exists, they will go elsewhere to find victims to take advantage of. If your opinions are still against this, please tell me reasons why you think we are wrong with cautioning against someone that has been harassing people or getting caught in SERIOUS bold faced lies?


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Posted on Tue, Jan 16, 2007 05:18

Ladies, gents, lets not let this get too out of hand eh? If they are proven players and have messed people around it's one thing but I'm not sure naming people as "undetermined until enough evidence is gathered" is terribly fair. Let's try and play nice even if some of the said fellas aren't capable of it! Biirdy x


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Posted on Tue, Jan 16, 2007 04:39

I will have to say in his defense, southerngent_uk while being a "unique" individual. Was upfront with me about who and what he was from the first time we chatted. Please don't slap me up side the head for saying that. But if he wasn't with others he deserves his place on this blog.


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Posted on Mon, Jan 15, 2007 19:32

IN HONOR of mr wabbit, we have decided to add the COMPLAINT list. This list will be comprised of people who may or may not be "PERSONS OF SOME INTEREST". Their player status will remain undetermined until enough evidence is gathered. At that time we shall decide whether or not an indictment will be warranted and move forward with a trial. Disclaimer: This post is coming to you via the DUKE La Crosse scandal State! Fist on the docket are: 1) muffdvr26 2) joshhartnet 3) sacerdote 4) loveemchesty 5) filters


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Posted on Mon, Jan 15, 2007 18:30

Well mr. wabbit thanks for your comments, I don't happen to agree with you but lets say for the sake of argument that we could agree to disagree. This is a blog.Its a place for people to speak their minds. Which means if people want to complain they can as you have chosen to do with your COMPLAINT, and thats fine don't read this blog if it frustrates or is of no interest to you.At the same time if you find youself being the victim of a Player feel free to read this blog till you get yer fill..:) On a final note I noticed that you are not a gold memeber and as such do not pay for the use of this site. Well let me be the first to welcome you and invite you back to our blog any time! This invitation is being graciously EXTENDED to you by the 2 PAYING creators of this blog!! So thanks for the advice on leaving the site but I think I will continue to pay and stay awhile! LOL......-RR-


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Posted on Mon, Jan 15, 2007 18:20

You know what Wabbit? STFU!


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Posted on Mon, Jan 15, 2007 17:34

Okay kiddies,I am back to give a new update.Sdlrglady thank you so much for your nomination, and glad to see your checkin out the blog.Unfortunately at the time of this posting we are unable to nominate Filters only because you have posted that he's married and when I checked his profile it does say he is married so he was disclosing accurate info, in that respect now if theres more to the story and you would like to share with us via e-mail or post any other info. that may qualify him as a player please just drop us a line but as of right now FILTERS does not qualify for Player status. See folks this is not meant to be a forum for retribution this is meant to be a tool for people to navigate cyber dating. We want to be fair to all parties involved because no one deserves to be unfairly slandered and nobody deserves to have their feelings played upon by deciet and omission.Which is why at any time if your name is nominated and you feel that it is unfair we want you to have the right to defend yourself. Besides if this turns into a slam fest than it defeats the purpose. Now Amuse and I have have put our information out there in the hopes that other people will help and contribute their stories in one easy to use self contained blog. We look at it this way, GAME ON !Neither of us care what the Players think of us, you want to show your as$ bring it because we actually believe that common curtesy and honesty on a dating site should be more prevelant.As strong as we are others are not and while we can laugh about the games and not get too fazed by them others will and can suffer emotional setbacks at the hands of Players. So now I will step down from my soapbox and say you all ROCK..you now it!!! -RR-


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