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readyorknot
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Posted on Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 GMT

WHERE ARE ALL THE ATTRACTIVE, DESCENT MEN???


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Posted on Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 GMT

it's weird alot of people on her claim to be all about bbw and what not and then cry about she's to big blah blah blah i really think that's retarded me i think looks play apart but you have to get along with the people your gonna date either from here or from real life but you know that's just me


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Posted on Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 GMT

Whitetexasrose Do not get a complex,that is what The Sadistic Hedonistic bastards want to you to do. If the are too much of a knot head to see past their narrow veiw of what a perfect body is... then they might not know a chocolate coconut moose from a Prairie Pie is. in other words they know SQUAT.I think you are pretty and young, so dont settle for less than you deserve!


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Posted on Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 GMT

Ok, in my own case, I do have to ask where all the guys have gone.  I've even noticed several of the guys who claim to like BBW's who only want slender girls.  I'm starting to get a complex.



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Posted on Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 GMT

I Agree with MissWonderful as a rule of thumb us guys would prefer to be wanted for us not just because you are lonely and can not find anything better.Most guys don't like to be used by a fly by night Gold Digger.If after the first date you talking a bout what china patern you want for a wedding place setting, or that his favorite couch (skillfully repaired with duct tape and cinderblocks ) has to go. when his painting of four dogs playing poker has to go,most men flee. I hate to say the movie Fatal Attraction spoiled it for a lot of us guys. It is no fun having a "Pysco" girl stalking you . Ive been in that spot for about two weeks once. Thank goodness she moved on, to some one else.


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Posted on Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 GMT

I love men. They are very easy to understand if you just pay attention. Mostly they just want some appreciation for the things they do. Yes, they are visually stimulated and yes women are more cerebral and secondly tactile. I have a father and a brother that I love dearly. They are both my hero. Yes, men are simple and there is an elegance in that simplicity. I find the company of men refreshingly uncomplicated. They don't have all the double talk and complications that are involved with female communication. Where are all the decent men? There are lots of them around if you open up your eyes and really look at the guy next to you at work, on the bus, in the coffee shop or at your friends party.Perhaps you don't know where to look-or what your looking for? May I suggest you practice with one of the less wolfish Mr.Almosts? Men run from desperation!! They have an uncanny way of sensing when a woman is simply out to find a man rather than find them- as an individual.The woman who simply wants to be attached for the sake of it-for the status of it or when your just lonely. Lonely to them seems desperate and desperate is scary. They want to have fun and make up their mind along the way. The best way to "catch" a man is to not be trying to "catch" a man. If you want a rich man-go become rich. If you want and educated man then become educated yourself.What ever you want in a man become yourself. Become an interesting person by having a life that makes you happy. Then you will meet Mr. Right rather than Mr. Ok or what Mr. What was I thinking? Being upbeat, content and happy with your own life is the best way to find a decent man.


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Posted on Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 GMT

The is much debate of the souls perfect mate, With little ado the beloved other only has to be perfect for you, Do not ask for love when you have none in your heart for yourself or others, Deity Gave you worth and let not anyone try to wrest from you that which is yours by right, I myself am a hopeful romantic, I believe in the right to uncover the path to the hearts inner fire, That special Relationship of the hearts harth inner desire.. David Paul Just some thoughts...


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Posted on Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 GMT

The is much debate of the souls perfect mate, With little ado the beloved other only has to be perfect for you, Do not ask for love when you have none in your heart for yourself or others, Deity Gave you worth and let not anyone try to wrest from you that which is yours by right, I myself am a hopeful romantic, I believe in the right to uncover the path to the hearts inner fire, That special Relationship of the hearts harth inner desire.. David Paul Just some thoughts...


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Posted on Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 GMT

Quoting readyorknot

Why is it that when you post a sexy picture to show u look sexy and men just assume u want to be their booty call?


Simple , for most men it is Our "primative cyclops brain" that takes over.It has been to known to overide the higher reasoning, more complex brain on mens shoulders. It is a Proven fact that for most men the largest component of what is sexy is visual. for Wommen it is the exact oppisite the majority is in the mind.


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Posted on Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 GMT

Quoting readyorknot

Why is it that when you post a sexy picture to show u look sexy and men just assume u want to be their booty call?


You don't need to show you look sexy to get attention from men. Huge misconception! You are a woman, sexiness is a GIVEN. Don't just give it away, darlin. The kind of attention your attracting with pictures like that are the one hand typing kind, if you know what I mean. I prefer to show them that I am NOT a piece of ass.


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Posted on Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 GMT

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Why is it that when you post a sexy picture to show u look sexy and men just assume u want to be their booty call?


You're posting, in your words, a sexy picture, and on another blog saying you want to be hunted. Now you are frustrated that men are assuming you want to be their booty call. If you want to be provocative you need to be prepared that many men will react like that when they are provoked! I'm not saying that's right, simply that's how it tends to be!


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Posted on Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 GMT

im ready for anything ladies.young attractive, black male.


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Posted on Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 GMT

located in lancaster


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Posted on Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 GMT

Why is it that when you post a sexy picture to show u look sexy and men just assume u want to be their booty call?

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Posted on Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 GMT

You got to make the best of what you got! So If life keeps dumping fertalizer on you can do one of two things ... Stand there while it gets piler highter on you and deeper and starts to smell ,...OR start shoveling, Plant a garden and watch the flowers Bloom!


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Posted on Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 GMT

Have never responded to a blog before in my life....but, for your comment I will make an exception.  Great analogy to what the search for a mate is all about.  Wish more would start putting in the effort, instead of complaining about how difficult it all can be.  I will love the clam dinner once all of the effort has been put forth.  Great job and good luck on this journey.  Jeudi



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Posted on Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 GMT

I have always been unlucky in love but I have not given up searching for my soul mate and I never will. Don't give up love is out there.


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Posted on Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 GMT

LMAO.... But I think u r rite!


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Posted on Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 GMT

lmfo


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Posted on Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 GMT

Quoting readyorknot

WHERE ARE ALL THE ATTRACTIVE, DESCENT MEN???


With their boyfriends.....???!!!


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