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Elliesbiggestfan
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Posted on Wed, Jul 12, 2006 04:36

I think everybody that has replied to this so far has made some very relevant observations. I also think that due to amazing innovations like the internet, people are finally able to be open about what they want in life and find people of like minds. Although I agree about the stigma I do believe that society will become less and less concerned with it, as it becomes more common place. Especially when there are people like you QM, being not just open and honest, but proud of what you want, bravo.


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Posted on Tue, Jul 11, 2006 20:26

well lets start off with a bit of congrats on finding out that you dont have to conform to the medias idea of what a man like yourself should date/desire/love (bravo) In my opinion the looks are from folks who dont understand that not everyone wants to date a rack of bones and that even though you are athletic/ slim it doesnt mean that the lady you are with isnt as active (just a but more meat on the bones) there are alot of men who are closet bbw lovers and they might be admiring your bravery while they are coveting what you have? then there are the people who are superficial and feel that to truly be happy you must suffer to stay thin and not be your true self thus wanting the whole population to suffer as well! so the next time your a dinner and your getting the odd looks lean over the table and plant a juicey kiss on her lips and tell her she is stunning, that should make then turn away!! best of luck and thank you for being yourself and loving freely.


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Posted on Tue, Jul 11, 2006 19:22

Society has this image that so many are following an if your not that image then theres something wrong with you. So many follow these superficial rules on how your suppose to look, behave etc...and when they see a bbw with a thin man or alone, they dont understand it cause they are in this image mode thats splashed all over the world an saying this is the way your suppose to look/behave, and its looked down apon if you are different than whats dictated to the world. Even sex, its splashed everywhere. It has society thinking that you should be out looking an acting trashy, jumping anything that walks and thats considered to be "normal" these days..no wonder our world is so messed up..lol. I dont think the stigma will ever change, but doesnt mean you need to change to suit them... good luck in your search.


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Posted on Tue, Jul 11, 2006 15:07

Hmmm. What I'm about to say may get me in trouble, but I'm only being honest... I am very attracted to thin men, however, I am often intimidated by men who are too good looking or too in shape. I say to myself, he must be using me for sex or have a fetish because why would that guy be interested in me when he could have a thin girl instead? I'm not saying it's right to feel that way, everyone has their "type", but I definitely understand the perception that it's weird. Fat is anything but celebrated in our society, and it has been burned in our brains our whole lives that being fat is horrible and wrong. To many people it's a sign that you are lazy and undisciplined and yes, most people find it unattractive. It has taken me a long time to get comfortable with my "great personality". Basically, you get stares because everyone wonders why someone who is considered classically good looking would pair off with someone who is barely accepted by society. You are being judged, and people who stare don't understand that a great person sits across from you at the table. Fat people are the truest, most loyal, caring, unselfish, non-judgemental people on the planet. We only want to be loved and make everyone around us happy.


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Posted on Tue, Jul 11, 2006 14:32

I don't think so. Those weird looks could mean anything.


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