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My blog address: http://LargeFriends.com/blog/quietnlonely
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I meet a guy on here and I really liked him. But what happens when after chatting a few weeks to a month and he ask you to loan him $300, to fly back from Nigeria to the US? I told him "no", he wasn't happy about that at all. Communication basically ceased when I didn't send the money. Then I started receving other IM's from guys in Nigeria. The conversation basically starts the same, then comes "money". Who are these guys and how do they end up on dating websites tr...
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He's not who he claims to be, what now?
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How Do You Get Your Mom Out Of Your Business?
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06/03/09
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My husband (son's father) and I have been married to each other for 15 years this coming September, but seperated for 1 1/2 years. When I moved out of our house last year, I moved in with my mom. I left all of my furniture and other household goods at his house because my moms house wasn't big enough to fit all my furniture, etc. A few months ago, my parents (mom & step-father) bought a bigger house that can hold most of my belongings. She has been on me every since we moved into this house to go and get my belongings, she especially wants my living room furniture, in which I had told her she could have among other items.
I made a call several times to my ex telling him I was coming to get some of my things and each time, he and I would get into a argument about what belong to who. I wanted my stuff, but didn't really want to see him or revisit the house that we use to live in, but my mom was insistant on getting my things. Well that moving day finally came and it wasn't nice at all. When we got there he had placed most of my furniture outside and had a female there.
I was ticked off for one, my furniture being outside and two having a female over there when he knew I was coming. My mom starts verbally attaching him before I do, she use to like him, but I think she has always had more hate towards him then anything. My brother was trying to keep peace, but then my ex pissed him off and then we all were arguring.
She went on to tell him how much she couldn't stand him, how he was nothing, would never be anything and talking about the relationship he really doesn't have with our son. I'm steadily telling her to let me handle him, this wasn't her argurment, it was mine...but she couldn't stop.
My father wasn't what I would call a father, he didn't spend anytime with my brother or myself and hardly gave us any money. But what bothers me is, my mom couldn't make him do right by us, but yet she's trying to make my ex do right by my son and myself. I love her, but she is trying to control mine and my sons relationship by interferring in my business. How do I get her out without being rude or mean?
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How to dress?
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01/01/09
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A few of my friends and I have been going out and I always look at what women are wearing (no I'm not GAY). But I don't like seeing women that are wearing something tooooo tight or toooo revealing. But those are normally the ones that the guys are drawn to (probably for the wrong reason).
Normally, I wear a nice pair of boot-cut jeans or slacks with a blouse (v-neck), ankle boots or a short hill shoe. What works best for you when you go out? And guys, what do you like to see on BBW (keeping it tastefully)?
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Friends & Lovers
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08/26/08
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There's this guy that I dated when I was a senior in high school that I consider to still be a friend. Anyway, he and I would have occasional sex every now and then..not that often but at least a few times a year. Here's the problem, we talk a lot and sometimes we argue because we can't agree on anything. I find myself wanting to be more than just friends, but at the same time, I don't really want to be in a relationship with him. What do you do in circumstances like this? Do anyone else have friends that you can call on to be your lover when you need one?
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F.Y.I Free Week
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08/20/08
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I emailed the staff here at largefriends about my latest blog receiving 10 responses for my free week. They emailed me back and told me "Thanks for using our service. We cannot offer one week gold membership for
you if other members post 10 quality comments on your blog but not
yourself." I then asked them if the 10 post have to all come from other members or members myself, this was their response "Thanks for using our service. We have checked your blog and found nearly
all comments posted by yourself. In order to receive a free week gold
membership all 10 comments have to come from other members." This is a first for me, usually when my post receive 10 responses they give me my free week.
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Dead Beat Dads & The Other Woman
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08/12/08
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Ok, my husband (separated, not divorced) and I have 1 child whose 13. We have been separated for almost 9 months now and I just filled for child support a few weeks ago. I tried to give him the benefit of doubt and let him prove to me that he was still going to do his part w/o someone making him, but he's not. He only pays for minor things and that's only maybe 2 times a month. Here's my question...the woman that he's with has kids and knows he has a son. How can you be with a man and he's with you everyday and never has his child and you not push the issue of him spending time with his own child? I understand the need and want to have him to yourself, but if he doesn't take time out for his own child, what do you think he will do for you if he gets one by you? Maybe it's me, but if the guy I talk to has children and I know he does, there's no way you can spend 6 days a week up under me and only 1 day with your child(ren).
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Your Favorite Break Up Songs
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07/29/08
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Please list your favorite Break Up Songs.
(1) Ex-Factor - Lauryn Hill
(2) Nothing Broken But My Heart - Celine Dion
(3) I Will Survive - Gloria Gayor
(4) Miss You Like Crazy - Natalie Cole
(5) One Last Cry - Brian McKnight
(6) How Do I Live Without You - LeAnn Rimes
(7) Not Gonna Cry - Mary J. Blige
(8) Un-Break My Heart - Toni Braxton
(9) How Can You Mend A Broken Heart - AL Green
(10) Before He Cheats - Carrie Underwood
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To Cam or Not To Cam....That is the Question?
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07/14/08
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Ok peeps, several guys have asked me after only chatting for a few minutes if I had a Cam. I do have one, it's not connected, but what I want to know is "do you go visual with someone you just started chatting with?". I know it only takes a min to hook it up, but I just feel as though it may be too soon to do that and I don't know the person on the other side of the computer.
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He's not who he claims to be, what now?
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06/28/08
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I meet a guy on here and I really liked him. But what happens when after chatting a few weeks to a month and he ask you to loan him $300, to fly back from Nigeria to the US? I told him "no", he wasn't happy about that at all. Communication basically ceased when I didn't send the money. Then I started receving other IM's from guys in Nigeria. The conversation basically starts the same, then comes "money". Who are these guys and how do they end up on dating websites?
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Do you mind being called "sweetie, baby, honey"?
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06/27/08
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Maybe it's me, but I don't like to meet a guy for the very first time and have him refer to me as "sweetie, baby or anything derogative". Yes, I may be old fashion, but how can you call me any of those and you don't know me and I don't know you? But if I was your woman and you were my man, I would love to be called your "Boo, sweetie, baby, honey, etc". Do any other woman have a problem with this or is it just me? Men if you can feel where I'm coming from, feel free to give your opinion.
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