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Posted on Wed, Dec 06, 2006 21:33

Well, I would think if you are a member of this site, you must like large women. I have my doubts about this subject. I, myself do not like being big and hope to do something about it this next year. I don't feel good about myself. I use to look great, I was still not "thin" but, a really good size 12-14. I miss looking like that. The difference in how people treat you is totally amazing.Even though, I am big, I am still (or so I am told) a very pretty woman. If men like a large women, where are they??? I have a good personality and sense of humor. I like to have fun. I use to have guys tripping over themselves, now I get ignored most of the time. Makes me sad,that's all.


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Posted on Tue, Jan 09, 2007 13:11

It's personality and attitude is what counts to me. I find that larger women have better of both.


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Posted on Thu, Jan 04, 2007 13:32

OK ladies, I will be the one to ease out onto the creaking limb. I do not profess to like big women. Nor do I claim to like small women or average women. Here it is, the problem we all face as humans. We buy cars with concern for their appearance. We need the latest in fashion or other material articles to impress those that would judge us. We are typically quite superficial in regard to appearance. A man claiming to be a BBW lover is in fact just as superficial as one who claims to not like BBW's. The decision is purely based upon the outward allure of physicality rather than the more difficult to discern inner value. I seek an IRW (Intelligent & Real Woman). If she is also a BBW--that's fine. Are you superficial? How many ads without photos have you responded to? How many times have you looked at the ad photo and then moved on without reading about the person?


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Posted on Thu, Jan 04, 2007 12:46

I really love big women, although I married a big girl, she turned out to be a sow, not because of her size but how her personality is inside.... so the best is to look for inner beauty... the outside is just a skin


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Posted on Wed, Jan 03, 2007 08:57

Princess,I know exactly how you feel..I used to have the guys falling all over me, then I settled down, had a baby, separated for a long time now, gained the weight..The way people treat you is different..all they see is fat at first glance..I am so tired of it, I have almost lost hope of ever finding anyone...I am not that unhappy with my body, just wish everyone else felt the same..


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Posted on Wed, Jan 03, 2007 07:40

Hi new here, posted but my post got lost... Yes, I agree, when you're overweight, too overweight, you're ignored.. I've just transplanted myself here after being on a pretty narrow-minded site loaded with superficial people, who were admittedly so.... Yes, noone (most men) wants a fat girl... Is that harsh... Whether or not there are men on here that do, is something I don't know.... Maybe there is... I think you need to look within yourself for positive feedback. Believe you're a beautiful person regardless of your weight.... It's a flaw, but there are so many worse things you could be.. If you want to lose weight make small changes and go from there... a little goes a long way.. I keep you all posted with my progress.... when I'm really slim again... I'm gonna be, I'll post my pic on that other site and they can eat their hearts out...hehehehe


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Posted on Wed, Dec 27, 2006 22:11

Oh believe me, I am trying Now some of you RESPOND!!! :P


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Posted on Wed, Dec 27, 2006 19:39

I'm wondering the same thing! If you men REALLY REALLY love big women, we REALLY REALLY need to know it! Make yourselves known and drop us a line.


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Posted on Wed, Dec 20, 2006 09:22

I'll add that I do like BBW myself as well, infact some of the best relationships I have had have been with a BBW. A woman can be sexy regardless of size,weight,etc it;s all about how they carry themselves and the confidence they have in thier bodies and abilities


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Posted on Wed, Dec 20, 2006 05:36

I think a lot of people are attracted to "unfashionable" types. They feel the need to fit in so deny what they are/want. Attractivness is surley a personal thing, otherwise we would all wear/drive/ride the same thing. dread the thought.


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Posted on Mon, Dec 18, 2006 21:47

This comment is not for any specific person on this blog. It is just my general opinion of the topic. Regardless of how much one weighs or how one looks, it is difficult to attract anyone when we feel bad about ourselves. That thinking translates into feeling that we are not good enough to be loved. Change your attitude about yourself and maybe those men who love plus-sized women will take notice. Saying that no man is attracted to you because you are overweight is not true. Several men have posted that they prefer plus-sized women. Why don't you believe them? Perhaps the question should be, "Do you like big women who don't like themselves?" Or "Do you like big women who don't think that they are good enough for you?" Ladies, stop making weight the excuse for not having a man. What's "wrong" with most of us is not what's on the outside, but what's going on inside of us.


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Posted on Mon, Dec 18, 2006 14:10

Ok so now you have several men who think that "big" is in. I am a big girl... size 18-20 (wow never admitted that!) I have curves. The one thing that my boyfriend (who is the reason I joined this site was to stalk his page and find him.(it wasn't really stalking since I told him)tells me that is the most attractive about me is I elude a confidence that he has never seen. I don't hide behind my weight or wish I was something else. I am me... thats it and I do a lot of good in this world. I was 120 pounds and a college volleyball player until I got ill and gained a ton of weight. So maybe just maybe you havn't looked at yourself in the right light. If your focusing on your self worth and whether you like yourself or not on the size of jeans you wear your going to come up short everytime. Look inside you and be confident from there. If you know your beautiful and if you know your funny and witty and intelligent be confident in that the rest will fall into place.


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Posted on Mon, Dec 18, 2006 14:09

Ok so now you have several men who think that "big" is in. I am a big girl... size 18-20 (wow never admitted that!) I have curves. The one thing that my boyfriend (who is the reason I joined this site was to stalk his page and find him.(it wasn't really stalking since I told him)tells me that is the most attractive about me is I elude a confidence that he has never seen. I don't hide behind my weight or wish I was something else. I am me... thats it and I do a lot of good in this world. I was 120 pounds and a college volleyball player until I got ill and gained a ton of weight. So maybe just maybe you havn't looked at yourself in the right light. If your focusing on your self worth and whether you like yourself or not on the size of jeans you wear your going to come up short everytime. Look inside you and be confident from there. If you know your beautiful and if you know your funny and witty and intelligent be confident in that the rest will fall into place.


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Posted on Thu, Dec 14, 2006 23:39

Scarlot, I think some of the men that post profiles here that are looking for a woman a few pounds over may either be a big handsome man themselves who happens to like smaller women, or they may be tall. Some peop, because they are tall and stocky consider themselves as large. Thats what I finally concluded.


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Posted on Thu, Dec 14, 2006 14:21

WWguy, I agree with what you said. I do believe what people find attractive is programmed into us from childhood from images and the people we are around. Of course we grow to be individuals and make our own decisions but overall its projected into us from our environment. "Its wrong to look like that", "You should look more like this", "You're not pretty because you don't look like the majority"... I think some guys won't go for a bigger women, not because they are not attracted to them but because they are worried what someone would think of them for liking someone who doesn't fit a imagine of what the population thinks is attractive. Its sad. I feel for you Princess. I know how you feel and it does get aggravating to know you're just as interesting and as pretty if not more so than the average size woman and you get viewed differently.


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Posted on Thu, Dec 14, 2006 07:46

I know that bbw are very beautiful and that she was to get to big to fit through the doorway that I'd make it bigger. Now that your name should be Queen Aurora. If you want to loose the weight for yourself and not because somebody says you should then do it, but not because you are told too.


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Posted on Wed, Dec 13, 2006 02:37

yes honestly..and in life I noticed find myself looking twice at bigger girls..skinner girls are kind of plain sometimes I guess.


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Posted on Tue, Dec 12, 2006 08:01

There are a lot of guys out there that like full figured ladies... (I'm one of them) Curves are a great thing in my book.. to many women feel they need to look like a 14 year old boy... to me I don't find that appealing.. Also most of the time women that are bigger have a full gorgeous face... I'm a sucker for a beautiful face/smile.


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Posted on Sun, Dec 10, 2006 22:35

Hummm..... Well lets see only six men have posted on this blog out of the thousands that are on here and granted not everyone enjoys blogland like we do.But that speaks volumes in my humble opinion.To be fair though, I know there are lot's of men in the world who love women no matter what their size and to them I give big props!! So stay cool guys. -RR-


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Posted on Sat, Dec 09, 2006 11:20

I do too! Larger women have always had a special attraction to me.


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